Exclusivity

[Whizzy]

One question I've been wondering about lately is when should a couple become "exclusive". Girls seem to want it immediately even before going into anything official like boyfriend/girlfriend, but I was under the impression that until both people committed in that fashion then it's not a problem yet? So the question is at what point in a relationship before two people become officially together should I stop meeting, dating and seeing other women?

 

[Franco]

Whizzy,

So the question is at what point in a relationship before two people become officially together should I stop meeting, dating and seeing other women?

You should stop meeting, dating, and seeing other women when you become officially together. =)

Until she is officially your "girlfriend," you are not in a committed relationship and there is absolutely no reason to stop seeing other women.

- Franco

 

[Whizzy]

How would you handle her thinking the two of you were until it actually is official? For some reason I've run into this issue lately and if/when they find out i'm seeing someone else it ends not so well