Expansion of "tech culture" (Silicon Valley) and death of game. Thoughts?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

There are not that many complaints about any kind of harassing here. #metoo has died down a bit too.

Looks like I know where I am moving, see you one day future neighbor!

You guys lucked out big-time by having among the hottest women in Europe along with the Eastern Europeans, unfortunately your brothers in the Mediterranean were not so lucky.

 

[Grand Pooba]

Going back to the original thread, cities like SF are indeed tougher because of the local male population and resulting female dynamics, but still not impossible. In fact, if you're a sexy dude in these cities, it's still a massive contrast to what the local men are like - and that's extremely attractive to women. So you can still have success as a guy, but you have to learn the nuances.

One of my most memorable night game pick ups - and one of the few in my life - happened in SF several years ago at a club.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Going back to the original thread, cities like SF are indeed tougher because of the local male population and resulting female dynamics, but still not impossible. In fact, if you're a sexy dude in these cities, it's still a massive contrast to what the local men are like - and that's extremely attractive to women. So you can still have success as a guy, but you have to learn the nuances.

One of my most memorable night game pick ups - and one of the few in my life - happened in SF several years ago at a club.

I would disagree that local women would like you for being sexy as much in these cities and their culture. San Fran is ultimately a social circle heavy hivemind type of city where women are all chasing status and whoever is well-connected in their world.

One of my good friends is from Atlanta, he talks about how good looks and good game even don't matter as much there. What happens is women are stuck in the sorority girl mindset well after their college days and only go for guys who are considered hot in that world. As a result, that is what sexy is there and a lot of it is out of your control.

What makes NYC so amazing is that the game here is raw, usually the hottest guys or guys with tight game are getting girls. In San Francisco, it is more of a hive-mind to where women are stuck tightly to their social circles and what is hot is very strange....