Dec.
Met this cute girl (hb8) on the df. She smiles immediately as I approach for a dance and my friend wings hers.
After 30 secs she asks if I want a beer.
We talk and I get to know she's celebrating her 25th birthday with friends. At some point a girl friend of mine appears who's also an alpha and I realize how much hb8 is an alpha as she IS ordering her girl friends and they're used to keeping her alone but also whenever she feels threatened she gives a "stare" and "talk" in a way to keep potential competition away from her target, so my girl friend quickly picks it up and leaves us. 20 mins passes and I ask to move some place quiter in the bar, which we do.
Unfortunately I end up sitting over to her by the table all her 5 friends sit by. She's rly into me but already here I should've just gotten her nr. and moved on as I couldn't get home to her and seal it as her friends slept there and I live by parents :/
So I sit with her for 2-3 hours and at some point she moves over to me while most of her friends are gone and I kino her legs, no kisses at any point this night.
Ends up with me screwing a bit up and also an unknown factor making her annoyed so never got nr.
Then this weekend I was at same pop bar talking with 2 girls standing (we all know they're more susceptible to be picked up than girls who're sitting).
I pick one and ofc all her cb girl friends suddenly appear and start trying to drag her up stairs to df. I turn her around to face me instead of them and tell the cbs that they'll have her in 1 min.. Then I just handled those and hb8 appears "Hey Man-O, you remember me? *smiles questioningly*" -> It rly distracted me because it's not often a hot girl does that to me and for 5 secs I looked at hb8 while I had hb6 in front of me and that was enough for hb6 to leave even though I told her to stay.
Hb8's respond was "Oh, you had something going? Oh I'm SO SORRY". Me: "Yea, right.. You owe me now. *smiling a bit annoyedly*" Hb8: "Yes, let me make it up for you. I'll get you a drink".
We talk and her girl friends come by briefly and the usual stuff. She's chatting with me and telling she's a bit sry from last time blabla. At some point my experienced self tells me to go for the kiss as she has put interest in me. I've made sure not to look too interested with body language, pauses etc. But when I try she bends away and we "just" laugh instead. THIS just put me into the chasing position instead and from other experiences with her I know she does this as she pleases making progression very slow probably trying to put me in bf-material zone.
Note: The girl has worked as bartender and guide in Sunny Beach (equivalent of Cancun for danes).
I've had same kind of experience happen before with experienced women and I'd like to know how you guys tackle it, thx
Met this cute girl (hb8) on the df. She smiles immediately as I approach for a dance and my friend wings hers.
After 30 secs she asks if I want a beer.
We talk and I get to know she's celebrating her 25th birthday with friends. At some point a girl friend of mine appears who's also an alpha and I realize how much hb8 is an alpha as she IS ordering her girl friends and they're used to keeping her alone but also whenever she feels threatened she gives a "stare" and "talk" in a way to keep potential competition away from her target, so my girl friend quickly picks it up and leaves us. 20 mins passes and I ask to move some place quiter in the bar, which we do.
Unfortunately I end up sitting over to her by the table all her 5 friends sit by. She's rly into me but already here I should've just gotten her nr. and moved on as I couldn't get home to her and seal it as her friends slept there and I live by parents :/
So I sit with her for 2-3 hours and at some point she moves over to me while most of her friends are gone and I kino her legs, no kisses at any point this night.
Ends up with me screwing a bit up and also an unknown factor making her annoyed so never got nr.
Then this weekend I was at same pop bar talking with 2 girls standing (we all know they're more susceptible to be picked up than girls who're sitting).
I pick one and ofc all her cb girl friends suddenly appear and start trying to drag her up stairs to df. I turn her around to face me instead of them and tell the cbs that they'll have her in 1 min.. Then I just handled those and hb8 appears "Hey Man-O, you remember me? *smiles questioningly*" -> It rly distracted me because it's not often a hot girl does that to me and for 5 secs I looked at hb8 while I had hb6 in front of me and that was enough for hb6 to leave even though I told her to stay.
Hb8's respond was "Oh, you had something going? Oh I'm SO SORRY". Me: "Yea, right.. You owe me now. *smiling a bit annoyedly*" Hb8: "Yes, let me make it up for you. I'll get you a drink".
We talk and her girl friends come by briefly and the usual stuff. She's chatting with me and telling she's a bit sry from last time blabla. At some point my experienced self tells me to go for the kiss as she has put interest in me. I've made sure not to look too interested with body language, pauses etc. But when I try she bends away and we "just" laugh instead. THIS just put me into the chasing position instead and from other experiences with her I know she does this as she pleases making progression very slow probably trying to put me in bf-material zone.
Note: The girl has worked as bartender and guide in Sunny Beach (equivalent of Cancun for danes).
I've had same kind of experience happen before with experienced women and I'd like to know how you guys tackle it, thx
