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I was out with my daygame buddies around 3 weeks ago when I saw a girl that was walking along who was wearing a backpack given from our university. I have made it a rule to myself that whenever I see a girl who's wearing this backpack, I will open her. I feel internally entitled to talk to these girls and that helps me with my game. So I walked up to her from the side and pointed to her earphones and she took the hint to take them off. I introduced myself, told her where I saw her and that I had to come up and talk to her because she was cute. She was curious, and pleasantly surprised. We had a nice vibe going on quite quickly and I reached the hook as well. It was at this point where she turned to my left and asked me where my friend was, and just as I was about to tell her he's walking somewhere along the city she pointed out to my friend who was blatantly recording us with his phone without my knowledge and asked me "Is he recording us?". After a brief expression of complete confusion, I had a neutral look on my face back again and I told her that he's not filming us and that he's just a weird guy who I got to know from my other friend. I threw him under the bus and maintained my frame, which worked out alright as my friend got embarrassed and walked away. So I told this girl that we should grab a coffee together, to which she agreed. I said let's exchange contact information and then I let her put her number on my phone. I hugged her goodbye and walked away.
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Talking to my friend afterwards, he was obviously recording. I looked at the footage and I could see how she noticed him initially but decided not to point him out until some moments later. Seeing the look of confusion on my face in the video was quite funny. But I told my friend to never take any photos or videos of me ever again.
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So I set up a date with this girl for next week and she flaked on me one day before saying that she didn't have a good night and that she was feeling sick. I told her not to worry about it, and that she should do her thing and that we would set a new one later. A few days later I proposed that we meet up in another place (one that's closer to my house), and she agreed. I asked her to bring along some iced tea, telling her we'll have an outdoor adventure. It was a lovely summer day and she came with a cute dress, I picker her up from the meeting point and we walked towards the lake. We had a pretty amazing conversation throughout and she was always investing. We found a secluded place that had a lovely view of the lake so I set up my portable tent there and we sat down. I deep dived her with moments of silliness and fun jokes. Mostly asking about her dreams, goals, her life growing up. I let her talk a bit too much about her problematic friends but other than that it was going good. I did a mistake of not asking her what her plans were so at one point she told me that she had to go to a meeting back in the university. I told her to stay for 5 more minutes and she happily agreed. I became silent, only looking her in the eye and then I went in for a kiss. We kissed really passionately for some minutes before I threw her in the tent and we started to properly make out. It was like a relief after all that sexual tension in our conversation in the previous hours. I caressed her breasts, thighs and even touched a bit of her pussy from her panties. Also I teased her as I was running my fingers along her thighs and seeing her squirm was lovely, I told her that and she pulled me in for more kisses. She said she'd like to meet up again and I told her that was a good idea, asking her what date she was free and then I told her I'd text her about the final time.
After that we packed everything up, walked towards the university and I kissed her goodbye.
I sent her a message saying that I had a great time the next day and setting up a new date at my place where I'd be cooking us dinner. She replied 12 hours later saying she also had a fun time and that the evening I proposed was perfect.
The day before our date she asked if I possibly could change the date to the next day because she got an offer to visit a new student house (she's been looking for a new room for a while) so I said sure that fits in my schedule (it did feel like a weak frame, idk what the best way to handle this is, maybe set up a new schedule for next week? but then how is that 'moving fast'). She thanked me a lot. I told her that there was no need, but ice-cream should suffice
So she came over 40 minutes late (she texted me that she would be running late and that she was on the way) yesterday. She brought some brownies and a melted pot on ice-cream. I showed her my place, and took her to the balcony where I kissed her.
I then put the food in the oven, set it for 20 minutes and then we went to my bed to lay down and continue making out. At this point I was caressing her whole body and I was even thinking about escalation the whole way now but then I thought it would be better to get her horny as fuck and ready in the first place and that it would be smooth sailing afterwards. I was wrong. Often I was the one to break contact to check on the food or just look in her eyes but I could still sense that she wasn't completely giving in. She would passionately kiss me back but she wouldn't initiate them many times and her hands would sometimes run along my hair but I could very much feel her holding back.
When I heard the oven timer ring, I asked her "Shall we eat?" with a grin on my face. And then we set up the table and had our meal. She was quite amazed at the food and we had a pretty light and fun conversation throughout the meal.
After eating we went back to my bed. We'd be kissing, I'd be feeling all of her body, pulling down her shirt and sucking on her nipples, seeing her get horny and twitchy was gratifying. However I'd always sense that she would hold herself back. At one point when I was going to toucher her pussy more and more she kepts saying "Sorry" , "Um, no... yeah, I think not" as if she was talking to herself and trying to convince herself that she shouldn't be having sex with me. I told her that she shouldn't be apologizing right now and asked her if she was enjoying spending time with me and she enthusiastically agreed and I told her that I liked it too and slowly began making out again.
I didn't want to get into the logical zone (I tried very hard, normally I go head into logic when problems arise but I know better than that with girls) and just thought that she should get more comfortable with me, and get more horny and that this would be the solution. However at one point she felt like she had to explain herself: "You know, you coming up to me on the street was lovely. And you're so intellectual, I love our conversations. But I feel like I'm holding myself back. One time I've had it happen to me like this, and I had to just stop everything and leave immediately in the middle of it and I don't want to do that." So I told her that she shouldn't feel pressured at all and that I really liked talking to her (I did) and that moment was just a physical contact or continuation of our mutual intellectual stimulation. And then I let her snuggle up and lay on my chest as I kind of drifted towards watching tv and chilling for a bit.
I would just try to do the 2 steps forward and 1 step back to the best of my ability. But perhaps I'm not taking too much of a step back and giving her a considerable space to game me or realize how the void without me (snuggling/kissing/cuddling) feels. I thought she would give me token resistance but after how lovely it was at the lake I was not expecting her to be so adamant against pants coming off... or even fingering.
At one point, I slowly got up for some water and then she wrapped her arms behind my back and rested her head on my shoulder. I mean this girl became so fucking horny she was breathing like crazy and dry humping my leg which was indirectly stimulating her clit. She wanted to fucking keep in contact with me and kiss me when I would pull away. I got up to refill my water and she got up from bed to follow me like a little puppy with a body language and eyes screaming at me to kiss and fuck her and when we started kissing again she whispered that she'd rather get going. I told her that we hadn't watched the video we'd talked about. And I took her back to bed but *it was like she made the decision not to fuck me that night*. At some point she even whispered, you're getting me so horny and trying to make me change my mind. Like what the fuck girl... this is supposed to be fun for both of us, I should learn to frame this better than her "giving up" something to me.
Slowly I realized that this LMR was not going to be passed, and that she would probably never meet up again after a "failed escalation" and a bunch of backwards reasoning. So I tried my best to keep my cool and stay non-needy but I'm sure a bit of it showed through towards the end.
About an hour after she "decided to go", we were dry humping on my bed and she would be kissing me like crazy and telling me how she needs to go now. At some point she got up to get ready. She looked back at me as if she won the game of teasing. When she got her shoes back on, I put on the bored look and said "Okay, here's the way" pointing her to he exit. She back pedaled so fucking hard, saying "Oh.. um.. now you want me to go?" and just as she was taking a few steps I grabbed her by the waist and slammed her to the wall with my hand behind her head and I felt like she was sucking my soul out.
Then I walked her to the door and when she heard that one of my roommates was home she became quiet and said "Shh, we've got to make this a secret" with a smile and then leaned over to me for a final kiss before she left giggling.
So what the fuck. I thought she somehow saw me too much as a boyfriend candidate to have sex that night but then wanted to keep this hidden. Or maybe even coming over to me as a mistake, thinking my conversation and a few kisses was enough... Argh. It's hard not to feel a bit of a sting after feeling like (after getting to know you for 2 dates) she likes you enough for 5 hours of foreplay but doesn't want to spread her legs for you.
Maybe I should have just told her, "No sex tonight, I don't even know you that well (with a sexy grin). Let's watch that video I'm talking about and then we'll have a proper breakfast in the morning" so that she'd stay over and I could easily escalate in the morning. Fuck, I think that was my best choice. Hindsight is 20/20...
I haven't texted her anything yet, and haven't heard anything from her as well. I'm really not sure as to what the best course of action is with her, other than in the meantime I should talk to more girls and find those that would love to spend time with me and would love to have sex with me...
Thanks for reading.
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Talking to my friend afterwards, he was obviously recording. I looked at the footage and I could see how she noticed him initially but decided not to point him out until some moments later. Seeing the look of confusion on my face in the video was quite funny. But I told my friend to never take any photos or videos of me ever again.
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So I set up a date with this girl for next week and she flaked on me one day before saying that she didn't have a good night and that she was feeling sick. I told her not to worry about it, and that she should do her thing and that we would set a new one later. A few days later I proposed that we meet up in another place (one that's closer to my house), and she agreed. I asked her to bring along some iced tea, telling her we'll have an outdoor adventure. It was a lovely summer day and she came with a cute dress, I picker her up from the meeting point and we walked towards the lake. We had a pretty amazing conversation throughout and she was always investing. We found a secluded place that had a lovely view of the lake so I set up my portable tent there and we sat down. I deep dived her with moments of silliness and fun jokes. Mostly asking about her dreams, goals, her life growing up. I let her talk a bit too much about her problematic friends but other than that it was going good. I did a mistake of not asking her what her plans were so at one point she told me that she had to go to a meeting back in the university. I told her to stay for 5 more minutes and she happily agreed. I became silent, only looking her in the eye and then I went in for a kiss. We kissed really passionately for some minutes before I threw her in the tent and we started to properly make out. It was like a relief after all that sexual tension in our conversation in the previous hours. I caressed her breasts, thighs and even touched a bit of her pussy from her panties. Also I teased her as I was running my fingers along her thighs and seeing her squirm was lovely, I told her that and she pulled me in for more kisses. She said she'd like to meet up again and I told her that was a good idea, asking her what date she was free and then I told her I'd text her about the final time.
After that we packed everything up, walked towards the university and I kissed her goodbye.
I sent her a message saying that I had a great time the next day and setting up a new date at my place where I'd be cooking us dinner. She replied 12 hours later saying she also had a fun time and that the evening I proposed was perfect.
The day before our date she asked if I possibly could change the date to the next day because she got an offer to visit a new student house (she's been looking for a new room for a while) so I said sure that fits in my schedule (it did feel like a weak frame, idk what the best way to handle this is, maybe set up a new schedule for next week? but then how is that 'moving fast'). She thanked me a lot. I told her that there was no need, but ice-cream should suffice
So she came over 40 minutes late (she texted me that she would be running late and that she was on the way) yesterday. She brought some brownies and a melted pot on ice-cream. I showed her my place, and took her to the balcony where I kissed her.
I then put the food in the oven, set it for 20 minutes and then we went to my bed to lay down and continue making out. At this point I was caressing her whole body and I was even thinking about escalation the whole way now but then I thought it would be better to get her horny as fuck and ready in the first place and that it would be smooth sailing afterwards. I was wrong. Often I was the one to break contact to check on the food or just look in her eyes but I could still sense that she wasn't completely giving in. She would passionately kiss me back but she wouldn't initiate them many times and her hands would sometimes run along my hair but I could very much feel her holding back.
When I heard the oven timer ring, I asked her "Shall we eat?" with a grin on my face. And then we set up the table and had our meal. She was quite amazed at the food and we had a pretty light and fun conversation throughout the meal.
After eating we went back to my bed. We'd be kissing, I'd be feeling all of her body, pulling down her shirt and sucking on her nipples, seeing her get horny and twitchy was gratifying. However I'd always sense that she would hold herself back. At one point when I was going to toucher her pussy more and more she kepts saying "Sorry" , "Um, no... yeah, I think not" as if she was talking to herself and trying to convince herself that she shouldn't be having sex with me. I told her that she shouldn't be apologizing right now and asked her if she was enjoying spending time with me and she enthusiastically agreed and I told her that I liked it too and slowly began making out again.
I didn't want to get into the logical zone (I tried very hard, normally I go head into logic when problems arise but I know better than that with girls) and just thought that she should get more comfortable with me, and get more horny and that this would be the solution. However at one point she felt like she had to explain herself: "You know, you coming up to me on the street was lovely. And you're so intellectual, I love our conversations. But I feel like I'm holding myself back. One time I've had it happen to me like this, and I had to just stop everything and leave immediately in the middle of it and I don't want to do that." So I told her that she shouldn't feel pressured at all and that I really liked talking to her (I did) and that moment was just a physical contact or continuation of our mutual intellectual stimulation. And then I let her snuggle up and lay on my chest as I kind of drifted towards watching tv and chilling for a bit.
I would just try to do the 2 steps forward and 1 step back to the best of my ability. But perhaps I'm not taking too much of a step back and giving her a considerable space to game me or realize how the void without me (snuggling/kissing/cuddling) feels. I thought she would give me token resistance but after how lovely it was at the lake I was not expecting her to be so adamant against pants coming off... or even fingering.
At one point, I slowly got up for some water and then she wrapped her arms behind my back and rested her head on my shoulder. I mean this girl became so fucking horny she was breathing like crazy and dry humping my leg which was indirectly stimulating her clit. She wanted to fucking keep in contact with me and kiss me when I would pull away. I got up to refill my water and she got up from bed to follow me like a little puppy with a body language and eyes screaming at me to kiss and fuck her and when we started kissing again she whispered that she'd rather get going. I told her that we hadn't watched the video we'd talked about. And I took her back to bed but *it was like she made the decision not to fuck me that night*. At some point she even whispered, you're getting me so horny and trying to make me change my mind. Like what the fuck girl... this is supposed to be fun for both of us, I should learn to frame this better than her "giving up" something to me.
Slowly I realized that this LMR was not going to be passed, and that she would probably never meet up again after a "failed escalation" and a bunch of backwards reasoning. So I tried my best to keep my cool and stay non-needy but I'm sure a bit of it showed through towards the end.
About an hour after she "decided to go", we were dry humping on my bed and she would be kissing me like crazy and telling me how she needs to go now. At some point she got up to get ready. She looked back at me as if she won the game of teasing. When she got her shoes back on, I put on the bored look and said "Okay, here's the way" pointing her to he exit. She back pedaled so fucking hard, saying "Oh.. um.. now you want me to go?" and just as she was taking a few steps I grabbed her by the waist and slammed her to the wall with my hand behind her head and I felt like she was sucking my soul out.
Then I walked her to the door and when she heard that one of my roommates was home she became quiet and said "Shh, we've got to make this a secret" with a smile and then leaned over to me for a final kiss before she left giggling.
So what the fuck. I thought she somehow saw me too much as a boyfriend candidate to have sex that night but then wanted to keep this hidden. Or maybe even coming over to me as a mistake, thinking my conversation and a few kisses was enough... Argh. It's hard not to feel a bit of a sting after feeling like (after getting to know you for 2 dates) she likes you enough for 5 hours of foreplay but doesn't want to spread her legs for you.
Maybe I should have just told her, "No sex tonight, I don't even know you that well (with a sexy grin). Let's watch that video I'm talking about and then we'll have a proper breakfast in the morning" so that she'd stay over and I could easily escalate in the morning. Fuck, I think that was my best choice. Hindsight is 20/20...
I haven't texted her anything yet, and haven't heard anything from her as well. I'm really not sure as to what the best course of action is with her, other than in the meantime I should talk to more girls and find those that would love to spend time with me and would love to have sex with me...
Thanks for reading.
