Fabrication of relationships

[SillyCarl]

I'm truthfully beginning to believe that relationships are a lie. I've had two relationships thus far and I've been cheated on in both of them. I'm not writing this to whine or cry about the fact but instead I want to get different opinions on the issue.

I honestly did try, I came into seduction really to just find a great girl I can be with and have a good relationship with but I've noticed that girls cheat and that's just reality. I'm going to share personal experiences in my life that have led to this realisation. First being from my own mother, i was fifteen at the time when I got back from school early to hear my mom flirting with another guy on the phone. My best friend got cheated on as well, it took me about a week to break the news, he didn't believe at first and the girl almost cost us our friendship.

I got into game honestly to just get back at the first girlfriend I had who cheated on me. Truthfully right now I'm just gonna get laid and not really care about having relationships anymore. The hard truth is that girls cheat and you may not believe its happening with your girl but there's a high chance it is. The adverse to this I that guys do too but shouldn't the term relationship mean something? Or maybe I'm getting it twisted. I don't think man and woman were meant to be in long term relationships honestly. Is being in a relationship even worth it? When infidelity has become so inevitable.

 

[Skid]

Hey man ,

I know it can be a big thing to swallow that girls aren't virginal angels. They are human just like us and have weaknesses and flaws , guys cheat too when they agree to monogamous relationships. It's probably even harder that you heard your mom flirting as well.

I got into game honestly to just get back at the first girlfriend I had who cheated on me. Truthfully right now I'm just gonna get laid and not really care about having relationships anymore.

This a really poisonous mindset and while you think right now it will help you and who knows maybe you will get laid with this mindset. But if you do get laid with this mindset it will only give positive reinforcement towards the mindset and you will become more bitter and hating towards women to the point where it will start building on itself and you may start going out of your way to hurt the girls you sleep with intentionally.

The fact of the matter is that people don't want to be around people that dislike them , would you? Eventually your mindset will get to the point were no girls will want to hang with you and then you'll crack. Hate and bitterness are really your enemies. Why because they bring down your mood and thoughts so that you are always thinking negatively and that's a hell of a way to live your life if you ask me. Don't get me wrong its totally understandable to have these thoughts pop up especially during times when you have a ton of negative reference experience but allow me to suggest a more healthy alternative mindset :

You challenge yourself to be so amazing , so damn sexy to girls that they will NEVER in a million years want to cheat on you. Even if they do its them that loses. Why? Because you are so damn sexy that there are girls lining up to take her place , just as beautiful just as smart just as caring and feminine. How do you achieve this crazy level of sexiness you ask? By finding out what women want and giving it to them. Aim to give them what they want so they give you what you want. Something you have to understand is that there are very few men on this planet that go to the lengths of the guys on this site to give girls what they want its insanely hard for a girl to find a guy like the ones on this site. Yeah , it takes a ton of work years but in a couple years time you'll be beating girls off with a stick because they can see the warmth and genuineness in your eyes.

You seem to not understand that yes girls cheat , but there is a shit load you can do on your part to make them not want to cheat , or even consider another man. If you a dominant , sexy and know how to run a relationship properly and all the other things this site teaches you too be then it wont be an issue. And hey , worst comes to worst if you really don't want to be cheated on , just only do friends with benefits or open relationships. There is always a healthy solution.


Here is some articles that will help with your mindset :

https://www.girlschase.com/content/right ... ress-girls

https://www.girlschase.com/content/most- ... -be-bitter

Why women cheat:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-p ... girlfriend