Facial Hair for 2nd date

[moonriver969]

Hey guys:

Any thoughts on whether facial hair is a positive or negative for keeping the vibe going. So I met this gal, had a great time, seeing her again. Was clean-shaven the first time. She knows that my facial hair comes and goes ... designer stubble if you will. Said she'd like to see me with it some time. Thinking of going with more of an edge, i.e., with the facial hair 2nd time around. Any thoughts?

 

[JDB_40k]

How did she say it?

Did she say it with kind of sexy response or an excited manner. Or was it like ...I'd enjoy seeing you with facial hair.

 

[moonriver969]

The former.

After thinking about it overnight I'm looking at it kinda differently ... if I'm unshaven it's not designed to impress but b/c I just don't give a damn. Maybe just the mood I'm in today.

 

[Thinkingenigma]

That's just the attitude you need to have. Communicating that vibe is the whole point of having facial hair to begin with, so I'd say to roll with it.