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Just had a Tinder date today. This girl was actually super cool and super cute. She was kinda weird/dorky, but in a cool way. Not in a socially awkward way at all. She seemed very upbeat and she seemed to have a positive attitude. She says she doesn't like parties. She had clear ambitions, hobbies, dreams and goals in life. The only red flags were that she said she has anxiety issues. Like...she literally has panick attacks.
Anyways, I feel like my fundamentals did all the work this time. Cause she literally started auto-investing HARD from the moment I saw her. I literally probably talked only like, 5% of the time. Halfway through the date, I kissed her. I could have kissed her 10 mins in. I intentionally took that long just to draw it out and build anticipation. We were outside in a local park huddled together. It started to get cold. I planted the seed for a pull. I told her that my house is really shitty atm (true), and it was also obvious that I was really cold cause I was shivering. I kept hinting that I wanted to go to her dorms via statements like:
"Yeah, even though its cold as fuck, I'm down to stay here for as long as we can, cause I def. don't want to go back to my house (I had already described just how horrendous it is to her)."
Eventually, she picked up on it. She asked me to go to the dorms with her. I probably could have just invited myself back to hers. But I feel like its a lot smoother, and a lot more of an investment on her part if she pulls me.
Anyways...we got to the dorms, she started showing me around. After she finished her tour, I started making out with her again. I managed to get her top off with no resistance.
Then...my worse enemy returned...LMR..
I tried to use escalation ladders, but I was a little bit clumsy about it. Didn't work very well. We made out for a while, I tried to put my finger in her pants several times. She didn't allow it...although, looking back on it, she wasn't giving me a hard no. She was literally giggling while she was saying no and pulling away (I hard already gotten my hand in her underwear, but I hadn't actually reached her pussy, and she was pulling her body away from my finger). So I probably should have done a..."mandhandle fingering?" Do you guys recommend this?
Anyways...we eventually heard someone coming into the dorms. She immediately put her bra back on. She changed and we went downstairs to bake cookies as we had originally planned.
I met her suitemates. Kinda just stood there awkwardly. I should've left after the failed escalation. Staying to actually bake cookies was a bad idea. 10-15 mins later, I told her I should head out. I left.
I actually really liked this girl. And depending on how serious (or hopefully lack of seriousness), her anxiety issues are, I could have pictured her as a GF. But being that this is a failed escalation, I feel like my chances of ever seeing her again are slim. This depresses me.
Given that she doesn't reply tomorrow, is there anything I can do to get her back? She's unfortunately not tied to my social circle in any way. So I can't really use social circle tricks to get her back.
Anyways, I feel like my fundamentals did all the work this time. Cause she literally started auto-investing HARD from the moment I saw her. I literally probably talked only like, 5% of the time. Halfway through the date, I kissed her. I could have kissed her 10 mins in. I intentionally took that long just to draw it out and build anticipation. We were outside in a local park huddled together. It started to get cold. I planted the seed for a pull. I told her that my house is really shitty atm (true), and it was also obvious that I was really cold cause I was shivering. I kept hinting that I wanted to go to her dorms via statements like:
"Yeah, even though its cold as fuck, I'm down to stay here for as long as we can, cause I def. don't want to go back to my house (I had already described just how horrendous it is to her)."
Eventually, she picked up on it. She asked me to go to the dorms with her. I probably could have just invited myself back to hers. But I feel like its a lot smoother, and a lot more of an investment on her part if she pulls me.
Anyways...we got to the dorms, she started showing me around. After she finished her tour, I started making out with her again. I managed to get her top off with no resistance.
Then...my worse enemy returned...LMR..
I tried to use escalation ladders, but I was a little bit clumsy about it. Didn't work very well. We made out for a while, I tried to put my finger in her pants several times. She didn't allow it...although, looking back on it, she wasn't giving me a hard no. She was literally giggling while she was saying no and pulling away (I hard already gotten my hand in her underwear, but I hadn't actually reached her pussy, and she was pulling her body away from my finger). So I probably should have done a..."mandhandle fingering?" Do you guys recommend this?
Anyways...we eventually heard someone coming into the dorms. She immediately put her bra back on. She changed and we went downstairs to bake cookies as we had originally planned.
I met her suitemates. Kinda just stood there awkwardly. I should've left after the failed escalation. Staying to actually bake cookies was a bad idea. 10-15 mins later, I told her I should head out. I left.
I actually really liked this girl. And depending on how serious (or hopefully lack of seriousness), her anxiety issues are, I could have pictured her as a GF. But being that this is a failed escalation, I feel like my chances of ever seeing her again are slim. This depresses me.
Given that she doesn't reply tomorrow, is there anything I can do to get her back? She's unfortunately not tied to my social circle in any way. So I can't really use social circle tricks to get her back.
