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LR--  Failed Escalation due to LMR as well as some approach anxiety with cute 18yo girls. Any advice?

Lobo

Cro-Magnon Man
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Hey Everyone,
I've been a big lurker on this site(first read Girls Chase material around summer 2019) and I've decided I want my seducer powers to reach to the level where I can moisten the loins of any female within my vicinity at the snap of my fingers. This may be a long journey, however, my friends, I'm sure my cock is longer. LMR and Approach Anxiety issues in bold

So... about 2 months ago, my school(preppy boarding school) held an all-school Halloween dance and my buddy and I wanted to sarge at the party, knowing the babes should be plentiful and underdressed. We've both gotten very little pussy(i did get laid twice, but my friend has yet to kiss a girl) throughout our four years at this school and having read some pickup tech and tightened our fundamentals a bit we came into the function with high hopes and confidence that we'd smash. However, with our arrival at the party, we noticed how unideal this party was for practicing our game; it was a huge moshpit filled with sweaty dudes thinking they are at a college rager. Every girl in the area was either in this sweaty amalgamation or was appalled by the wannabe frat bros and hugged the walls and talked amongst themselves. Upon seeing this, I thought "perfect, these girls should be much easier open" however, I was hit with a wall of hesitation and DIDN'T APPROACH. I saw some cute chicks flashing looks towards me using my periphery's but to be honest, I had no idea if there were interested or not.
* Looking at it now, I think I should just hang on the side of certainty and assume the positive and just approach anyways. The girls are already checking me out, the pre-open is there, and the time to strike is nigh!;

Anyways, I could feel my balls shriveling because of this hesitance and lack of approaching(I wonder where this feeling comes from. the Hesitance), so I looked for my buddy who to minimal surprise, was also being a huge pussy and hadn't approached anyone. We chatted for a bit and bitched about how hard it is to talk to girls in that loud moshpit environment.
* I think bitching about it only made our approach anxiety worse. Getting in the zone and getting excited to approach would have been a better use of our time.

My friend, blaming his lack of approaching on how chopped he is(he's not that ugly, he's just average height and needs to see a dermatologist) say's he's going to leave. I tell him to stop being a bitch and that we gotta approach even if we're going to get blown out. He leaves anyway, claiming that I'm a bitch too and won't approach either. This emboldens me.

So I think fuck it, I'm a lone wolf, el Lobo, as my native tongue says it. I stick it out at this shitty party, but even with my newfound courage, I still don't approach. Instead, I lean my shoulder into a wall and hover my eyes over the crowd.

As I do this, suddenly, this cute, tall asian and her white spanish friend APPROACH ME. Very nonchalantly, of course, the asian just say "hey Lobo, how are you doing." They are both 18 btw.
I thought, "well shit, never tasted asian before." The universe brought these females to my bitch-ass, so there was no way I could not follow through.
I say, "this party fucking sucks" and were off to the races. They agree. Noting that we are one of the few seniors at this party, I use and us versus them frame. The asian girl asks about costume, noting my shirt, which is one size too large but I make it work. The image at the center of my shirt is much like my profile picture and I say, in a very relaxed, nonchalant way, "I'm just a guy with flowers". This must-have wetted both their pussies because soon enough the spanish chick and the asian were both competing for my attention. I wanted the asian chick but knowing how leaving a horny friend behind could possibly cockblock my seduction I keep the friend engaged in light conversation as well, focusing more on the girl I wanted, of course. At one point, the Spanish friend legit just leaves me with the asian girl, which in my mind translated to this being a set up to get me with the asian chick. Emboldened by this subtlety, I look over at my cute asian friend and tell her "I can't hear you at all in here, let's move somewhere quieter." Without waiting for her response, I put my hand on the lower of her back and lead her outside the building where the dance was held. it was kinda chilly out btw(but she didn't care hehe). I saw with her on some bench and tried to deep dive into her. Through this deep dive i realized this chick was kinda boring and even though I felt like she liked me, she really wasn't giving any interesting conversation. She said she wanted to be some political science major and go to Stanford( i heard she got in btw a few months after), and I just ask her different variations of why questions. After some point of this deep diving stuff, I take her hand and tell her to come. She walks with me to an isolated area and I start to give more heavy eye contact. At one point, with redness in her cheeks, she says "we can do whatever you want"
Too easy
This was already in the bag

I said, "its a bit cold over here, let's go over to my dorm."
she says" what are we going to do there"
I wanted to say "we are going to fuck" but I didn't know how far she was down. So I said, "I want to show you some music, it's like a minute away"

I live at my boarding school so they are pretty strict about the kinky-kinky. I have to introduce her first to a dorm parent who then asks what you are going to do in your room. I've been through this stupid nosy nonsense before, so I just say "I'm going to show her my pokemon collection" with a tone that just screams "NONE OF YA DAMN BUSINESS BITCH"
*In retrospect, my delivery, as well as my obvious disregard for this dorm parent, might have fucked me in the end. Had I been a bit friendlier, maybe my outcome would have been different.

I take her to my room and tell her to take off her shoes(getting that instant compliance plus the king of my home effect). We sit on this bean bag for a bit and talk a little and I'm just like how the fuck am I going to escalate this girl. I remember one time seeing this one day lay guy escalate using music so I do just that. I ask her about her favorite songs and she doesn't know so I'm just like fuck it girl let me show u some of my songs. I talk to her about this genre, its called Bachata, a Dominican type of dance. The way I dance it, it's pretty fucking physical. I tell her ill teach her it and at first, she resists saying she's bad. I know this resistance is bullshit so I just ignore and pick her up anyways. We dance, I get more and more physical, then I give her the love eyes and we start making out. after a bit of making out, I fireman carried her to my twin-sized bed and started kissing her while on top of her. I kissed her neck a bit and grabbed her ass a bit too, but I don't think she was really feeling it. I think a large part of it was the fact that I had to keep my door open(dorm rules) and she was pretty inexperienced and I'm assuming her parents were some conservative asians.
*Anywho, I want to make a girl wet even if she's like this. So how can I get a girl really wet by kissing her? I used to be able to make my girlfriend wet just by blowing a bit on her neck, but that definitely was not working with this chick.

I tried to get my hands on her breasts but she said "not now". I, without thinking, smile and say "what do you mean". She just ignores it, I can feel the fuck up. She set up this frame and I just helped her do it.
*I see this as LMR. How do I get over this? My delivery could have definitely been better, but what strategies do you guys use for this?

So, I kept on making out with her, picked her up and brought her to the bean bag. While I was thinking of how to escalate further, my bitchass dorm parent decides to snoop in my room and like some stray cat, my asian friend jumps out of my arms and looks very awkward. After the dorm parent tells me my door wasn't opened by 90*, I try my best to get him out as fast as possible. I look back at my girl with a "that was some fuck shit" expression on my face but she isn't having it. Her ASD just soared through the roof and she says that she's going back to her dorm. I just give up at this point, she was a terrible kisser and even if I got head from her, it would have been dogshit(probably would have bit my peter too)

*Should I have persisted in some way?
*how do I get girls to not care so much about the dorm parent walking in?
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I felt like I was able to lead pretty well, but my approach skills are pathetic. How can I approach more girls in a school like mine? 800 students boarding school(so most people know each other). This is a social circle type of setting but I really want to practice cold approach. Looking at this infield I've realized its very long. Congratulations if you've made it this far. Any advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thanks,

Lobo
 
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Lobo

Cro-Magnon Man
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How does one approach in a social circle scenario like at school? If I fuck up word spreads quickly around here, and my reputation will be ruined and getting a successful future approach would be much harder. Thanks for any tips
 
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