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I honestly have no idea how to categorize this girl or as to what she was thinking but I will do my best to elaborate and perhaps someone with experience with this type of girl will be able to enlighten me.
She's 20 but talks and behaves like a naïve 14 year old and I'm not exaggerating. She's talkative but very very self-conscious and keep asking "is what I said bad?", "Am I cool?", "am I a good kisser?". I assume she's just extremely inexperienced in life and sex but at the same time I feel as if she's putting on a façade and is actually a professional slut deep down which pisses me off because I wanted to expose that part of her and failed to do so...
I met this girl at a college bar down the street from my house. She was at the bar by herself allegedly meeting up with friends that never showed up. I talk to her for a minute or two and try and move her outside, in which she declines investment.
I then move her to the bar and we talk and flirt.
At a high point I move her outside. We flirt more and I propose we go on a walk, in which she complies. I tell her to show me her Ferrari and she takes me to her Volvo.
She asks where we are going to go and I tell her my house.
We drive to my house and I lead her to my room.
I go to kiss her, she sort of kisses but says "sorry I can't" in a not so self assured way as if she doesn't know if she means that or not.
I take this as token ASD and kiss her again a few moments later. She smiles and says "sorry I can't". I'm thinking she just needs more comfort, passion, and horniness.
I don't kiss her but we get under the covers and I pull her into me and smell her, bite her neck, pull her hair, etc.
I then start making out with her and she's into it, but stops out of no where and says "sorry I can't".
I deep dive her as to why she's resisting something she clearly wants so bad. I think it's that she feels like she's a slut but that doesn't seem to bother her much. She mentions that she shouldn't be doing this and that she's sort of seeing someone... I'm thinking "are you serious? You're hung up because you're sort of seeing someone".
I try and tell her why she's not a bad person but she's quite sold on her logic.
I then rinse, wash, and repeat escalation in an effort to turn her on so much that she'll give in. This I think was my mistake and if I could do it over again I'd go Drexel Scott on her and put my clothes on and tell her to leave so as to not "reward bad behavior."
Perhaps not even that extreme but at least push her away when she doesn't kiss and pull her when she does.
I think this is the main lesson I took from this one in being that at a certain point don't keep pulling and pulling as it give her no room to chase.
Input is appreciated if you catch something or have a perspective you'd like to share.
Thanks
-Rob
She's 20 but talks and behaves like a naïve 14 year old and I'm not exaggerating. She's talkative but very very self-conscious and keep asking "is what I said bad?", "Am I cool?", "am I a good kisser?". I assume she's just extremely inexperienced in life and sex but at the same time I feel as if she's putting on a façade and is actually a professional slut deep down which pisses me off because I wanted to expose that part of her and failed to do so...
I met this girl at a college bar down the street from my house. She was at the bar by herself allegedly meeting up with friends that never showed up. I talk to her for a minute or two and try and move her outside, in which she declines investment.
I then move her to the bar and we talk and flirt.
At a high point I move her outside. We flirt more and I propose we go on a walk, in which she complies. I tell her to show me her Ferrari and she takes me to her Volvo.
She asks where we are going to go and I tell her my house.
We drive to my house and I lead her to my room.
I go to kiss her, she sort of kisses but says "sorry I can't" in a not so self assured way as if she doesn't know if she means that or not.
I take this as token ASD and kiss her again a few moments later. She smiles and says "sorry I can't". I'm thinking she just needs more comfort, passion, and horniness.
I don't kiss her but we get under the covers and I pull her into me and smell her, bite her neck, pull her hair, etc.
I then start making out with her and she's into it, but stops out of no where and says "sorry I can't".
I deep dive her as to why she's resisting something she clearly wants so bad. I think it's that she feels like she's a slut but that doesn't seem to bother her much. She mentions that she shouldn't be doing this and that she's sort of seeing someone... I'm thinking "are you serious? You're hung up because you're sort of seeing someone".
I try and tell her why she's not a bad person but she's quite sold on her logic.
I then rinse, wash, and repeat escalation in an effort to turn her on so much that she'll give in. This I think was my mistake and if I could do it over again I'd go Drexel Scott on her and put my clothes on and tell her to leave so as to not "reward bad behavior."
Perhaps not even that extreme but at least push her away when she doesn't kiss and pull her when she does.
I think this is the main lesson I took from this one in being that at a certain point don't keep pulling and pulling as it give her no room to chase.
Input is appreciated if you catch something or have a perspective you'd like to share.
Thanks
-Rob
