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Curious what others read based on this situation: TLDR met a hot girl&her friend but couldn't pull her home
Head to the bar district and meet some girl when it’s raining under an awning. They’re filming videos under their umbrella. I make a comment and instant hook. Hotter one is engaged and her friend is helpful. She doesn’t speak english but we attempt to chat for a bit and decide to go drink together. The friend is fun and translates for us. We walk together under the same umbrella to a club.
The vibe is on but I like to be extra obvious when we can't communicate so I ask my girl if she has a boyfriend. She says no.
Get to club one, friend later tells me she has a boyfriend. My girl is quick to type on her phone that she doesn't get along with him well.
I just make the lips zipped emote and she smiles. Figure I’m locked in.
The problem is that it's early on a sunday night and these girls came out to have fun, not get fucked. So there's some waiting to do.
As we continue she says she's been wishing to meet a guy like me. I say it must be her lucky night. She likes that. Both girls are amazed by my skillz in darts and pool. So attraction is definitely there and in my mind I'm just vibing until it's time to go home together.
Things are good until club 2 later and she’s becoming a bit closed off. Her body language looks stressed. This whole time she's been on her phone (she has like 100 unread instagram DMs) so who knows what her bf/others are texting her.
She's not very receptive to touch. Asks me what my ideal girl is and I give some answers but she doesn't seem super enthused. I say I like someone if the vibe feels right, and I generally am a more touchy guy. But she’s a little closed off at this point as if the energy has died down. Even though she's still hand feeding me pretzels and happily agreeing with whatever I say even when she can't understand it.
Eventually I tell her friend I might invite my girl home tonight and she leaves us alone. Literally waves bye and takes her stuff to a different table.
The vibe is again a little off but huge green light for logistics so I go for the pull.
My girl invites me outside, i guess to say no. I make sure to get her number & try to see if she actually wants to see me again. She says yes but she’s tired. Makes excuses etc and I feel like she’s not down enough for whatever reason so I resign.
Figure if she’s serious we’ll text and if not I’m screwed anyway. And just as I go to say bye she says I’m very handsome. Which doesn't sound like goodbye. So I have her walk with me to the subway to see if the pull is actually there and she just needs a stronger lead.
It is not. She wants to go on the opposite train. Again says she has a lot to do tomorrow (I know she doesn't) and wants to see me again but she’s tired tonight. Something about I can find another girl. I don’t believe her but there’s nothing I can do at this point.
She’s on the opposite train so I let her take it, hop in mine, hop out the second compartment, and go back into the night.
A minute later I see a figure smoking checking me out so I approach to say hi. It's her. She pulled the same move lol
Says she’s waiting for her friend and keeps apologizing to me. Says she’ll see me again but again I don’t really believe it. Tell her to text me when she's not busy. “I’m waiting for my friend. Don’t misunderstand!!!” Through translate
So we never know folks
My possibilities why this didn't happen:
1. she's not actually ready to cheat/down for anything sexual
2. she wants to be discreet in front of her friend and we can text meet
3. she genuinely wants to see me another time
4. simple failure to warm her up with sex talk/something else
Things to do regardless of her:
1. Pick a venue I can approach more girls while keeping these two as home base
2. Screen harder sexually earlier so I could move on if she truly just wasn't open to it
Note: this was a stereotypical hot girl, always on phone/insta, loves the color pink, not coordinated whatsoever, only hobby is taking pics
Note2: am i being autistic trying to persist in situations like these or should i just leave and text later as soon as she says no pull
Head to the bar district and meet some girl when it’s raining under an awning. They’re filming videos under their umbrella. I make a comment and instant hook. Hotter one is engaged and her friend is helpful. She doesn’t speak english but we attempt to chat for a bit and decide to go drink together. The friend is fun and translates for us. We walk together under the same umbrella to a club.
The vibe is on but I like to be extra obvious when we can't communicate so I ask my girl if she has a boyfriend. She says no.
Get to club one, friend later tells me she has a boyfriend. My girl is quick to type on her phone that she doesn't get along with him well.
I just make the lips zipped emote and she smiles. Figure I’m locked in.
The problem is that it's early on a sunday night and these girls came out to have fun, not get fucked. So there's some waiting to do.
As we continue she says she's been wishing to meet a guy like me. I say it must be her lucky night. She likes that. Both girls are amazed by my skillz in darts and pool. So attraction is definitely there and in my mind I'm just vibing until it's time to go home together.
Things are good until club 2 later and she’s becoming a bit closed off. Her body language looks stressed. This whole time she's been on her phone (she has like 100 unread instagram DMs) so who knows what her bf/others are texting her.
She's not very receptive to touch. Asks me what my ideal girl is and I give some answers but she doesn't seem super enthused. I say I like someone if the vibe feels right, and I generally am a more touchy guy. But she’s a little closed off at this point as if the energy has died down. Even though she's still hand feeding me pretzels and happily agreeing with whatever I say even when she can't understand it.
Eventually I tell her friend I might invite my girl home tonight and she leaves us alone. Literally waves bye and takes her stuff to a different table.
The vibe is again a little off but huge green light for logistics so I go for the pull.
My girl invites me outside, i guess to say no. I make sure to get her number & try to see if she actually wants to see me again. She says yes but she’s tired. Makes excuses etc and I feel like she’s not down enough for whatever reason so I resign.
Figure if she’s serious we’ll text and if not I’m screwed anyway. And just as I go to say bye she says I’m very handsome. Which doesn't sound like goodbye. So I have her walk with me to the subway to see if the pull is actually there and she just needs a stronger lead.
It is not. She wants to go on the opposite train. Again says she has a lot to do tomorrow (I know she doesn't) and wants to see me again but she’s tired tonight. Something about I can find another girl. I don’t believe her but there’s nothing I can do at this point.
She’s on the opposite train so I let her take it, hop in mine, hop out the second compartment, and go back into the night.
A minute later I see a figure smoking checking me out so I approach to say hi. It's her. She pulled the same move lol
Says she’s waiting for her friend and keeps apologizing to me. Says she’ll see me again but again I don’t really believe it. Tell her to text me when she's not busy. “I’m waiting for my friend. Don’t misunderstand!!!” Through translate
So we never know folks
My possibilities why this didn't happen:
1. she's not actually ready to cheat/down for anything sexual
2. she wants to be discreet in front of her friend and we can text meet
3. she genuinely wants to see me another time
4. simple failure to warm her up with sex talk/something else
Things to do regardless of her:
1. Pick a venue I can approach more girls while keeping these two as home base
2. Screen harder sexually earlier so I could move on if she truly just wasn't open to it
Note: this was a stereotypical hot girl, always on phone/insta, loves the color pink, not coordinated whatsoever, only hobby is taking pics
Note2: am i being autistic trying to persist in situations like these or should i just leave and text later as soon as she says no pull
