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Hi,
Me and a friend met 2 girls a few weeks ago in a different city, and ended up taking them back to our hotel for an 'after party'. There was only one room and my friend starts getting heavy with one girl so me and the other go into the bathroom. When we had met earlier she said she had a boyfriend and we were just wing manning our friends. Eventually it comes up she doesn't have a boyfriend was just sort of seeing someone so I kiss her and things start to escalate.... Next thing our friends are done and open the door. Later that night were all in bed and things start up again and I'm fingering her, but she seems really shy about having other people in the room and stops it after a while(she wouldn't even get undressed with them there) then we go to sleep.
In the morning she asks for my number and starts texting me later in the day.. just chatting about pointless stuff, I tell her I'm going to be in the city we met again next week and she should meet up, she says she cant at night but can in the day. I get there late and by that time she has left so I just leave it. she initiates again the next day and we talk some more and I tell her I'm going to be in the city again and ask her to grab a drink with me in a few days, she says she's not sure of her work schedule and will let me know.
So on the day I asked to meet she texts and says she will be in the city too but with some friends on a girls night out and I should meet her in the club... I think this is a bit weird, but whatever I'm in a different city alone so I head out to the local bars for a bit, make some friends there get distracted and end up meeting her about 2 hours after I said I would as the club is closing.
Anyway to the point of this.... We end up going back to some guys house her friend is getting with and he has a spare room that we go into as soon as we get there. Start making out immediately.. after about 10 mins her dress comes off and I'm rubbing her, she's getting into it and takes her bra off. I start figuring her and everything going well. as I take my jeans off she starts to take her underwear off but stops saying we have no protection... I had none on me so I say ill be right back, run downstairs and get one from the guy who lives there.
When I get back she starts to take them off again but stops.... and says something like I don't think I can do this, I don't really respond and we start making out again and I'm back to fingering her. But then when I go to take them off again she says 'I feel weird, I want to have sex with you but I've never done it out of a relationship' I don't really remember how it happened but the next thing I know we are lying there talking about relationships and she is apologising profusely saying she really wanted to but just cant, and sorry for leading me on. Her tone was very indecisive, like she was having some internal conflict about whether to fuck me or not.
I was confused and not really sure what was happening but the sexual vibe had pretty much gone and we were just talking and opening up about all sorts of things, I know I had fucked up at this point but I didn't feel like I wanted to have sex with her at this point, it was weird. I'm Not sure how the conversation lead to this point but I remember her saying something like are you annoyed, and I said no I just feel like a bit of a pussy now(I know, O immediately thought wtf why did O say that but O was just feeling comfortable at this point and said what O felt -.-) she then says if you were a pussy I would be lying naked with you, then jumps on top of me and starts to go down on me.
She wasn't very good so after about 5 mins I pull her up and try to escalate again but this time she grabs my hand and pulls it away when I try to touch her. At this point I'm pretty tired and become unresponsive. She asks if I'm mad I say no I'm just tired and go to sleep.
The morning after I thought would be awkward but we talked some more and kissed a bit and it was actually kind of nice... but I didn't try to escalate again at this point. Her friends wanted to get home ASAP but she stayed with me as long as possible ignoring her friends text's to leave.
She text me later that day 'oh my god..'I have love bites all over my neck'
I responded 'I guess I got a bit carried away
'
no response.. I then left it for almost a week ( I intended to text her earlier but my kept putting it off)
I figures I probably left it a bit too long and tried some jokey text to start things off again which looking back I probably shouldn't have saying:
me: I have bad news for you
her: Which is?
me: North Korea is nuking us, but the good news is you can make last minute passionate love with me and we can die together
Which got no response, today, 3 days after that I figured I would send one last hail Mary.
Hey 'name', Hope your weeks been great. I enjoyed seeing you again last week - but we need to stop meeting like that. Lets grab a drink sometime next week - what's your schedule looking like?
Am I right in thinking I should have been more persistent that night? even if I wasn't was there a better way of going about it afterwards? I'm thinking now if I had just text her the next day asking her out again it might have gone better but I don't know.
Me and a friend met 2 girls a few weeks ago in a different city, and ended up taking them back to our hotel for an 'after party'. There was only one room and my friend starts getting heavy with one girl so me and the other go into the bathroom. When we had met earlier she said she had a boyfriend and we were just wing manning our friends. Eventually it comes up she doesn't have a boyfriend was just sort of seeing someone so I kiss her and things start to escalate.... Next thing our friends are done and open the door. Later that night were all in bed and things start up again and I'm fingering her, but she seems really shy about having other people in the room and stops it after a while(she wouldn't even get undressed with them there) then we go to sleep.
In the morning she asks for my number and starts texting me later in the day.. just chatting about pointless stuff, I tell her I'm going to be in the city we met again next week and she should meet up, she says she cant at night but can in the day. I get there late and by that time she has left so I just leave it. she initiates again the next day and we talk some more and I tell her I'm going to be in the city again and ask her to grab a drink with me in a few days, she says she's not sure of her work schedule and will let me know.
So on the day I asked to meet she texts and says she will be in the city too but with some friends on a girls night out and I should meet her in the club... I think this is a bit weird, but whatever I'm in a different city alone so I head out to the local bars for a bit, make some friends there get distracted and end up meeting her about 2 hours after I said I would as the club is closing.
Anyway to the point of this.... We end up going back to some guys house her friend is getting with and he has a spare room that we go into as soon as we get there. Start making out immediately.. after about 10 mins her dress comes off and I'm rubbing her, she's getting into it and takes her bra off. I start figuring her and everything going well. as I take my jeans off she starts to take her underwear off but stops saying we have no protection... I had none on me so I say ill be right back, run downstairs and get one from the guy who lives there.
When I get back she starts to take them off again but stops.... and says something like I don't think I can do this, I don't really respond and we start making out again and I'm back to fingering her. But then when I go to take them off again she says 'I feel weird, I want to have sex with you but I've never done it out of a relationship' I don't really remember how it happened but the next thing I know we are lying there talking about relationships and she is apologising profusely saying she really wanted to but just cant, and sorry for leading me on. Her tone was very indecisive, like she was having some internal conflict about whether to fuck me or not.
I was confused and not really sure what was happening but the sexual vibe had pretty much gone and we were just talking and opening up about all sorts of things, I know I had fucked up at this point but I didn't feel like I wanted to have sex with her at this point, it was weird. I'm Not sure how the conversation lead to this point but I remember her saying something like are you annoyed, and I said no I just feel like a bit of a pussy now(I know, O immediately thought wtf why did O say that but O was just feeling comfortable at this point and said what O felt -.-) she then says if you were a pussy I would be lying naked with you, then jumps on top of me and starts to go down on me.
She wasn't very good so after about 5 mins I pull her up and try to escalate again but this time she grabs my hand and pulls it away when I try to touch her. At this point I'm pretty tired and become unresponsive. She asks if I'm mad I say no I'm just tired and go to sleep.
The morning after I thought would be awkward but we talked some more and kissed a bit and it was actually kind of nice... but I didn't try to escalate again at this point. Her friends wanted to get home ASAP but she stayed with me as long as possible ignoring her friends text's to leave.
She text me later that day 'oh my god..'I have love bites all over my neck'
I responded 'I guess I got a bit carried away
'no response.. I then left it for almost a week ( I intended to text her earlier but my kept putting it off)
I figures I probably left it a bit too long and tried some jokey text to start things off again which looking back I probably shouldn't have saying:
me: I have bad news for you
her: Which is?
me: North Korea is nuking us, but the good news is you can make last minute passionate love with me and we can die together
Which got no response, today, 3 days after that I figured I would send one last hail Mary.
Hey 'name', Hope your weeks been great. I enjoyed seeing you again last week - but we need to stop meeting like that
. Lets grab a drink sometime next week - what's your schedule looking like?Am I right in thinking I should have been more persistent that night? even if I wasn't was there a better way of going about it afterwards? I'm thinking now if I had just text her the next day asking her out again it might have gone better but I don't know.
