Calls & Texts Failing tests via text

[Godsninja]

Any advice for future tests where I fail again, like things to text backs or mindsets to be in ? I previously told her to text me if she wanted to sext, and so set it up. She later texted me later in the day, and over the course of a bunch of texts: saying she was in bed, alone, in jammies and tanktop, and was also stoned. So I said lets have some fun, take your jammies off, then she said her bf was next to her etc etc. I said i felt weird now sorry. Then was like, thefuck bf next to u and u txtin a guy at night?

I txted too much and made myself look fuckin pathetic afterwards, which I could have avoided if I just down played instead, and didn't break down over this girl and say that Im some weak guy. Should I just not text her, or should I go to redeem myself a bit by saying I didn't mean to make such a big deal outta it or w.e. ? And I don't mean redeem like that, but this girl was actually really into me before (I fucked up)..

 

[Mr. oblivious]

I said i felt weird now sorry.

This statement is kinda like judging her you made her feel like she was being judge for sexting you while in her boy friends bed (try avoiding judgement its will make it harder for girls to open up to you)

If you encounter a text you might find a bit iffy just ignore it basically and continue the sexual talk e.g. instead of going "i felt weird now sorry" tell her to start feeling her nipples or something underneath her top (act like the comment about her boyfriend didn't exist)

 

[Godsninja]

This statement is kinda like judging her you made her feel like she was being judge for sexting you while in her boy friends bed

What do you mean? Are you saying that because I said "I feel weird now, sorry" that it makes it look like what she is doing is something that I am judging?