So I needed to reach out to the experts for this one.
I used to be a really good seducer. Used to be because lately I find myself getting too comfortable. I have a girlfriend, my abundance mentality is low and I find it difficult to create that sexual tension.
I met some other girl a few weeks ago and we really hit it off. It was a friend's party and I was invited (duh!). She said I was cute and all and wanted to know what my deal was. We exchanged numbers, starting texting and then it got really sexual. Invited her over one weekend when my girlfriend wasn't in town. We got freaky and all but she started resisting. Ended up giving me a handjob.
After that night, I noticed she started withdrawing and this is where I fucked up. I tried asking her what was wrong but she kept saying there was nothing.
Tonight my friend (whose gf is her friend btw) and his gf came to my place to have drinks and his gf called up this girl to come over. She did but kept acting up and being rude to me. I asked her what her deal was and she gave the classic "nothing" answer. We all eventually decided to go to the club since things were getting awkward and she kept on acting strange.My mind was screwed up at this moment because I already saw what was coming. We left the club and when I got home, I saw a text from her saying "I think we should just be friends and leave it at that".
You know when you have braced yourself for impact but still feel the shock? Yeah. That's what happened. I said ok and she said that there are things I do that make her feel uncomfortable. I replied "ok then" and that was it.
I'm angry with myself because I let my guard slip.
So I need your help, guys. I need to get back to being that seducer I used to be.
HELP!
I used to be a really good seducer. Used to be because lately I find myself getting too comfortable. I have a girlfriend, my abundance mentality is low and I find it difficult to create that sexual tension.
I met some other girl a few weeks ago and we really hit it off. It was a friend's party and I was invited (duh!). She said I was cute and all and wanted to know what my deal was. We exchanged numbers, starting texting and then it got really sexual. Invited her over one weekend when my girlfriend wasn't in town. We got freaky and all but she started resisting. Ended up giving me a handjob.
After that night, I noticed she started withdrawing and this is where I fucked up. I tried asking her what was wrong but she kept saying there was nothing.
Tonight my friend (whose gf is her friend btw) and his gf came to my place to have drinks and his gf called up this girl to come over. She did but kept acting up and being rude to me. I asked her what her deal was and she gave the classic "nothing" answer. We all eventually decided to go to the club since things were getting awkward and she kept on acting strange.My mind was screwed up at this moment because I already saw what was coming. We left the club and when I got home, I saw a text from her saying "I think we should just be friends and leave it at that".
You know when you have braced yourself for impact but still feel the shock? Yeah. That's what happened. I said ok and she said that there are things I do that make her feel uncomfortable. I replied "ok then" and that was it.
I'm angry with myself because I let my guard slip.
So I need your help, guys. I need to get back to being that seducer I used to be.
HELP!
