15 November 2016: Hanoi, Vietnam.
I matched with 20 year old Tu on Tinder. She was working late that night, so we met at midnight outside my hostel. She was wearing a white shirt, jeans and sneakers. She had chin length hair with bangs, glasses, tattoos, and a couple of ear piercings. She was taller than me, probably around 5'7.
The date:
She texted me that she'd arrived, and I met her outside of my hostel. I clasped her hands, and leaned with my cheek to cheek-cheek kiss her. She instead kissed my cheek with her lips.
We walked around for a minute to a nearby bar. I held her hand as we walked along. We grabbed smoothies at the bar, and we seated. I deep dived her about a bunch of stuff. The details are a little hazy, but I got her talking about her travels, her work, and whether or not she liked Hanoi.
She was a very shy girl and this was evident through her darting eyes, submissive eye contact and general coyness. I called her out on her shyness and told her it was cute.
We finished around drinks pretty quickly in around 15 to 20 minutes. It was getting kinda stale sitting around in the bar so I pulled.
The pull:
"It's a bit too loud in here. Let's go back to my hostel where it's less noisy. We can watch some TV," I said. She complied. She paid for our drinks, which I thanked her warmly for.
We walked hand in hand towards my hostel. We walked through the entrance and I walked towards the elevator. The receptionist stopped Tu and spoke to her in Vietnamese. I'd already gotten in the elevator, assuming that she'd come along with me, but she was held up talking to the receptionist. I don't know what they were talking about, but I figure it was something along the lines of making sure she wasn't a prostitute and that there'd be an extra charge for having a guest over.
Escalation into sex:
Soon enough we were in my room. I turned on the TV and got her to pop off her shoes and join me in bed. We were flicking through channels trying to find something good. We eventually settled on an English movie on HBO. She was sitting up on the bed, and we talked. I don't remember exactly what we were talking about. I landed kisses to her cheek which was initially met with resistance, but she eventually got used to it. I eventually transitioned to kissing her lips, which she initially resisted, but soon became used to. She didn't really kiss me back.
I was vocal with my escalation. I told her how I thought she was really cute. I was passionate.
Whenever I tried to move my hand to her pussy, she resisted. I rubbed my body all over hers and it got pretty hot, but she refused to let me take off any of her clothes or touch her pussy.
I decided that I would give her a massage, but she would not let me remove her pants. At this point I was wearing nothing but my jocks.
We eventually decided to just fall asleep. I told her to take off her shirt and pants because it was uncomfortable for me to cuddle her when clothed. She resisted and insisted to keep on her clothes. I kept on persisting and I eventually out-framed her. She stripped down to her panties and bra. We fell asleep. The game plan was to escalate again upon waking.
About 3 hours later, both of us woke up and I started to kiss her. It was easier to escalate now that she was half naked. She said that she should head on hone, but I told her to stay for longer. I persisted for a long time despite resistance whenever I touched her pussy through her panties. Eventually I tried to whisper dirty things to her ear. I told her that I wanted to touch her pretty pussy. "I wanna feel you baby. I wanna make you wet. I wanna make you cum," I moaned. She seemed to enjoy my dirty talk. She allowed me to rub her pussy through her panties. She resisted a little bit, but seemed to enjoy it. Eventually I slid my fingers underneath her panties and rubbed her pussy. "Does that feel good baby?" I moaned. "Yes," she moaned back. I asked her whether anyone had ever touched her pussy before. She revealed that I was the first guy.
I continued to finger her pussy a little bit. I then proceeded to tell her that I wanted to eat her out. I reached down to remove her panties, but she strongly resisted and said she had to head off. I told her to stay and little while longer. I laid down next to stay and guided her hand to my cock through my jocks. She pulled back a little, but kept her fingers on me. I grabbed her hand and pushed it up against me. After a short while, I took off my jocks, and got her to jack me off. I was the first guy she'd ever jacked off. She kept jacking me off until till I came. I probably could've escalated even further after she had touched my cock, but I got carried away with the pleasure and I let her finish me off.
She then packed her stuff and left the room. I kissed her goodbye. I received a call from reception a minute later saying that there was an incurred fee because Tu stayed the night. Tu told the receptionist that I would pay for it, and I told the receptionist I was happy to cover the fee.
I messaged her later that day to say that I was glad to have met her. She never responded back to my message. Maybe she had regrets about the experience with me? Perhaps it was embarrassment from the walk of shame and being confronted by the receptionist? Who knows.
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Finishing thoughts:
I think I did pretty well with my date with Tu. This was the fastest I'd ever pulled. She was definitely the shy type, and I probably could've done more to make her feel more comfortable. Even though she gave me compliance, she seemed quite nervous at times. At several instances she told me she was shy and nervous. I could've made a greater effort to make her feel comfortable, especially consideringan how short the actual date was. I think that would've helped to reduced LMR as well. I did a couple of things well with escalation, such as dirty talk and placing her hand on my dick.
I've noticed that whenever I talk dirty to as girl, she usually laps it right up, even if she'd given me resistance. I may have been too forceful with escalation with Tu, and it might’ve been better to keep aloof for a while to give her some room to relax and chase me. My frame control with getting her to remove her clothes was good and definitely made escalation into sex easier later. I think if I calibrated a few things better, I might’ve been able to lay her. Considering that I was the first sexual partner that she had, I think I did pretty well to unlock her sexual desire. I managed to allow her to let me finger her, and got a hand job out of it too.
Peace out dudes.
Jeffrey
I matched with 20 year old Tu on Tinder. She was working late that night, so we met at midnight outside my hostel. She was wearing a white shirt, jeans and sneakers. She had chin length hair with bangs, glasses, tattoos, and a couple of ear piercings. She was taller than me, probably around 5'7.
The date:
She texted me that she'd arrived, and I met her outside of my hostel. I clasped her hands, and leaned with my cheek to cheek-cheek kiss her. She instead kissed my cheek with her lips.
We walked around for a minute to a nearby bar. I held her hand as we walked along. We grabbed smoothies at the bar, and we seated. I deep dived her about a bunch of stuff. The details are a little hazy, but I got her talking about her travels, her work, and whether or not she liked Hanoi.
She was a very shy girl and this was evident through her darting eyes, submissive eye contact and general coyness. I called her out on her shyness and told her it was cute.
We finished around drinks pretty quickly in around 15 to 20 minutes. It was getting kinda stale sitting around in the bar so I pulled.
The pull:
"It's a bit too loud in here. Let's go back to my hostel where it's less noisy. We can watch some TV," I said. She complied. She paid for our drinks, which I thanked her warmly for.
We walked hand in hand towards my hostel. We walked through the entrance and I walked towards the elevator. The receptionist stopped Tu and spoke to her in Vietnamese. I'd already gotten in the elevator, assuming that she'd come along with me, but she was held up talking to the receptionist. I don't know what they were talking about, but I figure it was something along the lines of making sure she wasn't a prostitute and that there'd be an extra charge for having a guest over.
Escalation into sex:
Soon enough we were in my room. I turned on the TV and got her to pop off her shoes and join me in bed. We were flicking through channels trying to find something good. We eventually settled on an English movie on HBO. She was sitting up on the bed, and we talked. I don't remember exactly what we were talking about. I landed kisses to her cheek which was initially met with resistance, but she eventually got used to it. I eventually transitioned to kissing her lips, which she initially resisted, but soon became used to. She didn't really kiss me back.
I was vocal with my escalation. I told her how I thought she was really cute. I was passionate.
Whenever I tried to move my hand to her pussy, she resisted. I rubbed my body all over hers and it got pretty hot, but she refused to let me take off any of her clothes or touch her pussy.
I decided that I would give her a massage, but she would not let me remove her pants. At this point I was wearing nothing but my jocks.
We eventually decided to just fall asleep. I told her to take off her shirt and pants because it was uncomfortable for me to cuddle her when clothed. She resisted and insisted to keep on her clothes. I kept on persisting and I eventually out-framed her. She stripped down to her panties and bra. We fell asleep. The game plan was to escalate again upon waking.
About 3 hours later, both of us woke up and I started to kiss her. It was easier to escalate now that she was half naked. She said that she should head on hone, but I told her to stay for longer. I persisted for a long time despite resistance whenever I touched her pussy through her panties. Eventually I tried to whisper dirty things to her ear. I told her that I wanted to touch her pretty pussy. "I wanna feel you baby. I wanna make you wet. I wanna make you cum," I moaned. She seemed to enjoy my dirty talk. She allowed me to rub her pussy through her panties. She resisted a little bit, but seemed to enjoy it. Eventually I slid my fingers underneath her panties and rubbed her pussy. "Does that feel good baby?" I moaned. "Yes," she moaned back. I asked her whether anyone had ever touched her pussy before. She revealed that I was the first guy.
I continued to finger her pussy a little bit. I then proceeded to tell her that I wanted to eat her out. I reached down to remove her panties, but she strongly resisted and said she had to head off. I told her to stay and little while longer. I laid down next to stay and guided her hand to my cock through my jocks. She pulled back a little, but kept her fingers on me. I grabbed her hand and pushed it up against me. After a short while, I took off my jocks, and got her to jack me off. I was the first guy she'd ever jacked off. She kept jacking me off until till I came. I probably could've escalated even further after she had touched my cock, but I got carried away with the pleasure and I let her finish me off.
She then packed her stuff and left the room. I kissed her goodbye. I received a call from reception a minute later saying that there was an incurred fee because Tu stayed the night. Tu told the receptionist that I would pay for it, and I told the receptionist I was happy to cover the fee.
I messaged her later that day to say that I was glad to have met her. She never responded back to my message. Maybe she had regrets about the experience with me? Perhaps it was embarrassment from the walk of shame and being confronted by the receptionist? Who knows.
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Finishing thoughts:
I think I did pretty well with my date with Tu. This was the fastest I'd ever pulled. She was definitely the shy type, and I probably could've done more to make her feel more comfortable. Even though she gave me compliance, she seemed quite nervous at times. At several instances she told me she was shy and nervous. I could've made a greater effort to make her feel comfortable, especially consideringan how short the actual date was. I think that would've helped to reduced LMR as well. I did a couple of things well with escalation, such as dirty talk and placing her hand on my dick.
I've noticed that whenever I talk dirty to as girl, she usually laps it right up, even if she'd given me resistance. I may have been too forceful with escalation with Tu, and it might’ve been better to keep aloof for a while to give her some room to relax and chase me. My frame control with getting her to remove her clothes was good and definitely made escalation into sex easier later. I think if I calibrated a few things better, I might’ve been able to lay her. Considering that I was the first sexual partner that she had, I think I did pretty well to unlock her sexual desire. I managed to allow her to let me finger her, and got a hand job out of it too.
Peace out dudes.
Jeffrey
