FU Fear costing me the lay. Or not having a male friend.

[readjusting]

Meeting this girl at the mall. I invited her to coffee, but then she invited me to her place.
(She lived alone so that was good logistics).

But on the way, I was thinking: That was too easy. I just met her the other day and she already invited me home. Something can go wrong. What if she setup to rob me?

But I don’t want to miss out the lay.

How can I insure against it?

I thought of an idea. I call mom, said: Hey, I’m about to enter my friend’s home. Call me after 30 minutes, if I don’t answer something is wrong.

Long story short, she says no, go home immediately.

And then I call the girl, she comes out.

I said: Let’s grab a coffee.

Game over.

The rest is going downhill. At that point it’s already game over.

If only I enter her place, my chance of getting laid is 80-90%

And yeah, her home doesn’t look like a robber’s lair. She has a dog.

So my irrational fear cost me that lay.

The solution is having a MALE friend. I could just call him and say: “Hey bro, I’m about to enter a girl’s place. She’s kinda suspicious, so call me back after 30 min, if I don’t answer call the police.”

 

[Big Daddy]

But on the way, I was thinking: That was too easy. I just met her the other day and she already invited me home. Something can go wrong. What if she setup to rob me?

God damn I can relate so bad to this. I either think they have a setup to rob me or want to get impregnated just to get monthly greens from me...

I have said friend, but he can't do anything to save me from a impregnation setup, so... I want to do way too much with my life to engage in riskier situations like this, unless we're talking a once in a lifetime supermodel lay. But chances are it isn't. I'd be happier sleeping well during the night.

 

[Sandman]

I do the same if I encounter such a situation. I text my location to a friend tell him what the deal is.

I don't think it's that irrational. If you are getting a bad vibe, best to take precautions. Instincts are there for a reason.

 

[Sandman]

Wrote this by mistake wish there was a delete option...

 

[readjusting]

BD, mrre,
Probably my spider sense is right.
For now I’ll make a few male friends and try again with another girl.

 

[rfjt]

But on the way, I was thinking: That was too easy. I just met her the other day and she already invited me home. Something can go wrong. What if she setup to rob me?

God damn I can relate so bad to this. I either think they have a setup to rob me or want to get impregnated just to get monthly greens from me...

I have said friend, but he can't do anything to save me from a impregnation setup, so... I want to do way too much with my life to engage in riskier situations like this, unless we're talking a once in a lifetime supermodel lay. But chances are it isn't. I'd be happier sleeping well during the night.

Use your own condom? Or you not about that life?

As for the other thing, I'd only be worried if there was another guy or if she drugs your ass. I'd say you'd be able to overpower a girl if she tried to do anything to you. As for the drugging just don't drink or eat anything you don't see her make.

 

[Big Daddy]

I use my own but dem girls be crazy. I once read in one of these forums (reddit maybe) that this guy fucked a girl and came on a condom. The girl then takes the condom, drops the cum in her pussy and start fingering herself with her fingers full of cum so the guy got his shit and ran away saying she was crazy.

I almost never cum on the first time, but that still doesn't free me from FRAs for example. The added stress of a sketchy situation makes the whole thing lose its purpose, which is to have fun, at least for me. Again, if it was a once in a lifetime lay I most likely would go there, but on the few occasions I had to deal with this they were very passable.

 

[rfjt]

I use my own but dem girls be crazy. I once read in one of these forums (reddit maybe) that this guy fucked a girl and came on a condom. The girl then takes the condom, drops the cum in her pussy and start fingering herself with her fingers full of cum so the guy got his shit and ran away saying she was crazy.

I almost never cum on the first time, but that still doesn't free me from FRAs for example. The added stress of a sketchy situation makes the whole thing lose its purpose, which is to have fun, at least for me. Again, if it was a once in a lifetime lay I most likely would go there, but on the few occasions I had to deal with this they were very passable.

Ah yeah I think I've heard of that as well. I remember back in college my friend when we were on Spring Break said that is why he flushed it down the toilet afterwards, haha.