Feel like a boss around most girls but limiting beliefs about White girls

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Hello Chase it is me again, Fuji Follower, as you can tell by my name the first PUA I started following when I was getting into PUA and seduction back early in my high school years (long time ago) is DJ Fuji because he is East Asian just like me and gave me some inspiration. A friend of mines recommended him to me when we were talking about race one day.

I grew up in North Carolina and was one of the very few people in my high school who was Asian while most of the kids were White. Made a lot of friends with the White guys I met but not so much luck with White girls. Most at parties would sometimes actively avoid me or make it clear that they wanted nothing to do with me. I would eventually get into a relationship with a Latina my junior year of high school but as soon as I went away to college we broke up.

Even now (college) due to a lot of bad interactions I had with White females in high school and reading PUA related stuff that would talk about being Asian as being a disadvantage, I have some limiting beliefs about being as confident as I can be around White girls. I worry about this because 8 out of 10 girls I run into are White.

I read your article about being Asian where one of your Asian friends talked about how he helped a handsome Asian man in NYC hook up with a White girl but I am at an ACC school and I have not felt that way even when I have tried. It's like my friends who are White and good looking automatically get a leg up with girls who are White while I do not get that same treatment even if I have seen the girls at multiple parties and talked to them, it's like I don't really exist.

Some girls have told me they prefer White only and even at the big college I go to, I don't see too many interracial couples that involve pretty White girls with Asian guys (I haven't seen any).

I just have all these limiting beliefs about White girls after bad experiences with them and hearing about how they care more about race than girls of other races do. With girls of other races those limiting beliefs are not there at all and I feel at ease.

Is there any way I can get over this?

 

[Nuncle]

Just keep approaching white girls until you get the vibe down and learn what they like/dislike.

I have known a fair few Asians who were good with women, including white women.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Just keep approaching white girls until you get the vibe down and learn what they like/dislike.

I have known a fair few Asians who were good with women, including white women.

I know of some too but I am in college right now.

My limiting beliefs about White girls get much much worse when the girls I run into are blonde and a part of a popular group like a cheerleader or a sorority. This is due to bad experiences with them.

 

[Nuncle]

Sorry to hear that, Dude.

Any disrespect is on them, not you. Anyway, there is obviously a lot of variety out there in terms of attitudes held.

 

[The Byronic Man]

I'm Asian of below average height, and most of the girls I've slept with were white (I like all races...I just happen to vibe better with white girls). I've stopped judging people by race, but by their personality and accomplishments. Judging people by race is a limiting frame, so I recommend dropping it. You can try to hide with body language, but you'll never really, and people will pick up on your insecurity. That's what's holding you back. Also, if your fundamentals/style/looks are weak, they will hold you back. People will look at you as just a "cool guy" once you've got this stuff handled. If someone is racist, then it's good you've learned that so you know not to waste your time with him/her. In my experience though, I've frequently made racists question their racists beliefs because I disprove them so strongly.

If you're not a match for someone (sexually and/or emotionally), then don't force it because she's not a match for you as well. It is what it is. So don't sweat it. Focus on bettering yourself, and you'll naturally increase your pool of matches.

The last time I saw a video of DJ Fuji, I had to laugh because he just looked ridiculous. Not a fan of peacocking. Dress confidently, not boldly. The latter screams overcompensation if you're not congruent (e.g. you wear rockstar clothing because you're in a rockband), but even if if you were, I still think it's silly.