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I've met so many guys over the years who fit the bill of the type of guy who entered their 20s as virgins and weren't that experienced with women, even read posts by some of the ones on this forum. The ones I've met and known in real life, I noticed that there wasn't really anything that significantly wrong with them. A good number of these guys were decent looking and some were even handsome.
After getting to know them and talk to some of them, I started noticing some common trends.
A lot of these guys had overbearing parents which slowed down their development. I notice things like having a mother that is always on their shit, parents that yell at them for the slightest of offense, shelter their kids, and try to keep the kid on a tight lease.
Then there is the issue of money and social class. While many naturals I have met where either your typical suburban kid or a kid raised in the hip part of town. it isn't the case with the guys I am talking about. I mean that makes sense since that is where the parties are and those are areas where the lifestyle is made for all the hedonism.
The guys I am talking about were raised in conservative countries and even conservative areas of the US where sleeping around was highly frowned up when it got out and often led to trouble.
Then there is one other thing, the quality of girls where you were raised.
I notice that some of these guys were raised in impoverished areas where the average girl looked and acted like the women off of Worldstarhiphop videos, they say they didn't even bother with dating in their adolescence because of it. Compare that to the naturals I meet who were raised in suburbs where the typical girl looked like an Arizona St party girl, different story!
It gets me that we never mention how big this is in forming a guy and truly explaining his situation.
After getting to know them and talk to some of them, I started noticing some common trends.
A lot of these guys had overbearing parents which slowed down their development. I notice things like having a mother that is always on their shit, parents that yell at them for the slightest of offense, shelter their kids, and try to keep the kid on a tight lease.
Then there is the issue of money and social class. While many naturals I have met where either your typical suburban kid or a kid raised in the hip part of town. it isn't the case with the guys I am talking about. I mean that makes sense since that is where the parties are and those are areas where the lifestyle is made for all the hedonism.
The guys I am talking about were raised in conservative countries and even conservative areas of the US where sleeping around was highly frowned up when it got out and often led to trouble.
Then there is one other thing, the quality of girls where you were raised.
I notice that some of these guys were raised in impoverished areas where the average girl looked and acted like the women off of Worldstarhiphop videos, they say they didn't even bother with dating in their adolescence because of it. Compare that to the naturals I meet who were raised in suburbs where the typical girl looked like an Arizona St party girl, different story!
It gets me that we never mention how big this is in forming a guy and truly explaining his situation.
