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Guys,
Help or support I guess? I don't know why I'm feel this. I *shouldn't* be feeling it, but I kinda am...
I've made several posts about it so I won't get into the how's or why's again but I have a decent amount of interest from women in the 6-8 range. It's not like I'm failing miserably, I'm doing my thing and able to meet women. But it's making me a bit off in my mood. Like... is this my level? I could be with a girl in this range right now, but it's just not doing it for me. I don't feel any sort of spark or excitment even if they are nice enough women.
I can get dates with girls I personally consider 9 or 10 (I try not to rank like this too much but to me a 9 or 10 is just a girl who can pique my interest, give me a little excitement or little flutter when I think of seeing them be it through, looks, personality, etc, etc.) but I've said before, I don't seem to keep these girls around for very long.
Today I took a walk through town. Admittedly, I just wasn't feeling in a super good mood. I did spot a girl, just my type, really pretty and I wanted to go say Hi and....
Guess what I thought to myself? "Why bother..."
I guess you could call it approach anxiety but I really should be past that. It was more a feeling of "Sure, I could stop her and I could do this and that and get her number, but ultimately, I know I can't keep a girl like that...."
I don't know what's up with me. I'm just feeling a bit off. I don't feel really satisfied just getting a number, or a date, or a lay with any girl. I feel like I want something really good, but at the same time feeling like, I'm reaching out of my league or something, in hoping for that. I even took a girl home on Friday, and she was cute, but while I should have woken up with a smile on my face and a bounce in my step the next day... it was almost the total opposite feeling.
This is really odd. I don't know how to snap myself out of it and just meet these girls again. Been feeling like this has been creeping on for a little while now.
Help or support I guess? I don't know why I'm feel this. I *shouldn't* be feeling it, but I kinda am...
I've made several posts about it so I won't get into the how's or why's again but I have a decent amount of interest from women in the 6-8 range. It's not like I'm failing miserably, I'm doing my thing and able to meet women. But it's making me a bit off in my mood. Like... is this my level? I could be with a girl in this range right now, but it's just not doing it for me. I don't feel any sort of spark or excitment even if they are nice enough women.
I can get dates with girls I personally consider 9 or 10 (I try not to rank like this too much but to me a 9 or 10 is just a girl who can pique my interest, give me a little excitement or little flutter when I think of seeing them be it through, looks, personality, etc, etc.) but I've said before, I don't seem to keep these girls around for very long.
Today I took a walk through town. Admittedly, I just wasn't feeling in a super good mood. I did spot a girl, just my type, really pretty and I wanted to go say Hi and....
Guess what I thought to myself? "Why bother..."
I guess you could call it approach anxiety but I really should be past that. It was more a feeling of "Sure, I could stop her and I could do this and that and get her number, but ultimately, I know I can't keep a girl like that...."
I don't know what's up with me. I'm just feeling a bit off. I don't feel really satisfied just getting a number, or a date, or a lay with any girl. I feel like I want something really good, but at the same time feeling like, I'm reaching out of my league or something, in hoping for that. I even took a girl home on Friday, and she was cute, but while I should have woken up with a smile on my face and a bounce in my step the next day... it was almost the total opposite feeling.
This is really odd. I don't know how to snap myself out of it and just meet these girls again. Been feeling like this has been creeping on for a little while now.
As in all things follow the master 