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Space Monkey
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Sunday field report BEGINNING 1 SHORT

Long story short:

By the persistent recommendation from a great friend to do field reports of my outings, I’m gonna give it a try for a month or so. Then we’ll decide if I’m going to continue doing them.
Gamed 4-5 times a week last year October and November. Then lockdown happened. Then everything opening again just recently and I’m out gaming again. This time, with more fire similar to what I had back in the days, where at first went out with ballers and at the end went solo. My back was to the wall and it helped brightening the fire.
Can’t say my back is to the wall as back then.. but I want it BADLY this time. I’ve seen the crazy effects you can have on cute, sexy girls and experiences that are so worth it. It’s a commitment I’ve made to myself.
I wonder if I’ll be able to make such a strong commitment to a partner/wife in the future.
Because ultimately, I feel game is what keeps my soul burning and I’ve experienced too many ups and downs in my years not to make this commitment to go out and game every day.
Sidenote: my goal is to save money up and travel to a low expense country with abundance of hot girls. Live there in the middle of the city.
Live there for 1 year and the only things I would be doing every day is eating out, working out, meeting cute chicks and having great times with friends

That’s enough. The report is below:

2 set outside club/pub



Warmup set. Not my types. Girl I talk to is open. Her friend went inside to buy them drinks.


Three Things I did well:


  • Opened although I walked past them at first
  • Applied new verbal and body language stuff out and the girl liked it. Asking me questions, first one was where do you live.
  • Kept the interaction going, when there were moments about to be awkward




Three things I will do better next time:

  • Open as soon as you see them instead of hesitating and checking out the club/pub from the outside first
  • Say hi to the friend faster because she came back once to ask what she wanted to drink and second time to ask me to leave (girl I talked with told me they haven’t seen each other in a while and her friend had a really bad day at work)
  • Insta close just for an extra follow before leaving them and going inside the club/pub

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2 set dance floor


Cute young brunettes, just my type, 19yos

They openly receive my arrival on the dance floor

Took hand with brunette1, Britney, then bartender walk past, she grabbed his hand with her other hand, I let go and dance with brunette2, Sofia.

Guy immediately bumps into me a bit. I ask her, do you know him?

She’s like “Yeah.. he’s with me. I mean he came with us”.


I’m like ok.. She could see in my body language I found him a little weird. Guy is trying to dance with her a lot but she’s evading him.


Guy is bumping into me again. I look in his direction with grounded and positive energy and he backs off for the rest of the night.

Too long to write about everything that happened between Sofia, Britney and me. So many reapproaches.

Sofia was giving me lots of eye contact, she was open and also eventually started asking me a question but I felt I was missing sexual hookpoint.

She told me Britney is single and I should go for her, I told her that’s cool but I saw you first.

I took her hand to pull her away to the other side of the floor and she followed. She wasn’t sure about it though when we were there.

Soon after Britney comes and she’s eyeing me. Right after I address her, she’s looking somewhere else. This happened a couple of times when I was interacting with Sofia, she would come and eye me.


Britney was looking to hookup with bartender. Whenever I was dominant and leading her on the floor she was a little bit engaged and quickly bounced from me. She would give in eventually because I was persistent, carefree, positive and dominant but she was still almost always looking around.

In between all this, the 2 most Alpha looking tall, good-looking, athletic dudes approached the girls.. got the girls to invest a little and even had them up to the bar.


But they were too fvcking serious and girls bounced from them.


Anyway..

Three things I did well:


  • Applied new stuff that have the girls learn about who I am and also applied more leadership and physicality balanced with saying things so I become more real

  • I didn’t get phased and stayed positive and grounded when Britney avoided me and was looking around all the time when we danced. The same with Sofia, when I tried to be more physical at the end and she avoided it.

I’m trying to understand where and when I could have done something differently to have better sexual/intimate compliance from them. Isolation is definitely one key

  • Re-approached them many times as if nothing happened and bringing good energy and also push pulling Sofia with reactions


Three things I will do better next time:


  • Be more commanding, when Britney looks around or doesn’t do what I want her to do, say: hey! Look at me! Look at me! Eyes here! She’s the kind of girl that needs a little more oomph when you aren’t her target. A little wilder.

  • Be more controlled when leading Sofia to the other side of the floor. My grip on her hand wasn’t perfect or strong enough. Also instead of other side of the floor, say: hey, lets go over there, it’s too loud here. So I can isolate her better further away from Britney.

Also once isolated, keep leading and talking or it becomes awkward, like it did a little bit on the other side of the floor.


  • At the end when Britney opened up to my reproach, and told me what she did, I challenged it instead of rewarding it. Honesty I don’t know if it was a good move. It was habit that told me because she has been avoiding me so much, I better spike her more to get her to pay attention. Don’t know for certain because I put myself out of the interaction after that instead of keep talking with her.

It must be an old habit when a girl has been avoiding me many times, I will eject myself if she keeps talking to me. Although on the surface I’m positive, grounded, dominant, playful.. in that situation, I just ejected to go to toilet and get some water. Very strange.




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2 set early twenties brunette, ok sexy for most, not my type but not bad either


I took a break from floor, stood and gathered my energy, look over my shoulder once, hit eye contact with brunette sitting with her brunette friend by themselves away from the crowd.


Didn’t think much about it.


Soon after I notice them right in front of me, dancing with each other, laughing and making a presence.


The petite one is very close to me and then suddenly another petite black haired girl stands very close to my right.


I felt a little awkward being cornered like that and didn’t put my attention on them because they were not my types and I would give them false hopes.


Felt like if I left, I would make them feel rejected, so I stood some more and eventually they left.


Later I caught the two brunettes looking at me while on my phone writing.


Three Things I did well:


  • Did what I wanted to do specifically. Standing there, gathering my energy.

  • Kept my composure and not be distracted by girls I’m not into

  • Not needing or wanting attention, to look cool or anything.



Three things I will do better next time:


  • Just open the brunette I like the most and practice hooking and sexual hooking. I don’t have to go all the way.

  • Interact with them to get into a more sexual state by going for dance floor technique, try go for a make-out and then go find Britney or Sofia and instantly isolate one of them

  • It’s all about what usefulness the current situation can have on what you ultimately want. I better start using every situation in the environment to help me go and get the ultimate goal in the venue



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3 set toilet, not my types



Three Things I did well:



  • Began talking to girl without thinking. Aware and acknowledging of the situation of her friend in the toilet needing toilet paper.

  • She asked me questions and I replied with jokes but I didn’t continue joke joke joke and made myself more real for example “ooookk, you caught me, it’s not vodka” she just saw me fill the cup with water before lol

  • Being cool in the situation about everything


Three things I will do better next time:


  • Be more controlling, demanding and commanding to make it more fun and interesting. Although not my types, it’s good practice.

  • Girlfriend who came out of the toilet was instantly wanting to ask me something. She couldn’t spit it out, so there were so many possibilities to say what she was going to say.

Next time a girl is trying to say something, I will put words in her mouth like, yeah.. you can say master, just say how amazingly attractive I am.. stuff like that for self amusement.


  • They were on the floor later and noticed the first girl looking. As practice, try to open her and isolate her, like pulling her outside of the club/pub and then go back inside. Not sure about this one as it would take more time and it was limited to the girls that excited me the most



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