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Field report 10 - Focused fast escalation
Switching template of how the FR is being written to a shorter version by the recommendation of a great friend. It will make it easier to read for you and also save me some time.
Met 8 sets tonight.
4 one sets
2 two sets
2 three sets
Felt naturally relaxed and more purposeful again tonight.
With the openness the girls had and me feeling extra frisky I tested stuff out and see what I could get away with
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Three things I did well:
Three things that I will do better next time:
Example one girl was playing along that she’s my gf, was being physical back, asking me questions. We were holding each, I pulled her in, “tell me how much you love me”, she did and I pulled her in closer and almost kissed her but she let go and took the brunette friend that was right beside us seeing it all and said “that’s how people are in this country.. so friendly” while walking back into the a bar/club.
(Funny sidenote.. she had just met this brunette and took her back to their table to meet her friends, which was two other guys, so now she had a “wing”)
Anyway, when I feel this frisky another time, always, always, always remember to move the girl and isolate her before making it happen. Exceptions are girls who signals they wanna kiss or have high buying temperature. Could also include more vibing as well for a more solid interaction after isolation. So focus is to move the girl I like after open and say come just 2 seconds, tell the friend she’ll be right back or whisper to her to tell her friend that she’ll be right back in 2 minutes.
Focus on having more patience after open and try to feel the girls headspace more.. when doing a push, take a little longer to gauge her reaction before moving on to the next thing. Say I’m just kidding if it’s too much for her and then quickly move on to the next thing
Leeeeet’s gooooo!!!!!
Switching template of how the FR is being written to a shorter version by the recommendation of a great friend. It will make it easier to read for you and also save me some time.
Met 8 sets tonight.
4 one sets
2 two sets
2 three sets
Felt naturally relaxed and more purposeful again tonight.
With the openness the girls had and me feeling extra frisky I tested stuff out and see what I could get away with
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Three things I did well:
- I was relaxed and purposeful. Most sets were hooked fast and I was physical
- Whenever a little thought popped up of me being above the girl, I caught it and didn’t let it occupy my mind. I can’t believe this habitual thought has been the root to so many bad interactions.. I wonder what other habitual thoughts I don’t know about, that I have, that’s preventing me from achieving what I want
- I was leading all of the interactions, machine gun topic switching and tried to kiss two different girls fast with playfulness because I was feeling frisky. Fast as in 3 mins in the interaction
Three things that I will do better next time:
- From an eagle eyes perspective, it was not good game I was doing tonight because I skipped vibing and the girls were less invested. They reacted well and was compliant. I was just too strong/fast with the level of escalation compared to her buying temperature
Example one girl was playing along that she’s my gf, was being physical back, asking me questions. We were holding each, I pulled her in, “tell me how much you love me”, she did and I pulled her in closer and almost kissed her but she let go and took the brunette friend that was right beside us seeing it all and said “that’s how people are in this country.. so friendly” while walking back into the a bar/club.
(Funny sidenote.. she had just met this brunette and took her back to their table to meet her friends, which was two other guys, so now she had a “wing”)
Anyway, when I feel this frisky another time, always, always, always remember to move the girl and isolate her before making it happen. Exceptions are girls who signals they wanna kiss or have high buying temperature. Could also include more vibing as well for a more solid interaction after isolation. So focus is to move the girl I like after open and say come just 2 seconds, tell the friend she’ll be right back or whisper to her to tell her friend that she’ll be right back in 2 minutes.
- I overdid and doubled down on fun and commanding, so the girl would either feel too much pressure or couldn’t relate and found it too weird and bounced
Focus on having more patience after open and try to feel the girls headspace more.. when doing a push, take a little longer to gauge her reaction before moving on to the next thing. Say I’m just kidding if it’s too much for her and then quickly move on to the next thing
- Combine better acknowledging the girl for replying or qualifying, together with physicality. Have stronger emotions in the moment when acknowledging, like I really mean it
Leeeeet’s gooooo!!!!!
