- Joined
- Nov 22, 2012
- Messages
- 70
Field report 12 - Slow night ending with trying to pull a model
Met
1 one set
4 two sets
Felt exhausted tonight. Thoughts about staying home and going to sleep popped up. They seem so reasonable. I was tired from an extra long two hour gym session which I haven’t had for years and my body after dinner was just like melted cheese.
Fvck it. Stand up and put your shoes on. Boom. We out of the door.
=======
Three things I did well:
Three of those sets were very positive after opening while two of them were negative.
The last set I opened was on my way home walking past a club and last second I see a two set at a table, talking a little close outside, so I stopped in my tracks and boom went in. Not super strong but as long as I passed their test, it was ok. It turned out to be a 1 hour long set with one of the girls who was a model with lots of life experience and talked to me like I was her bf or smt.
Instead of being gamey all the time I joined her deeper topics (don’t know if it was a mistake), she really wanted to go deeper.. therefore the 1 hour long interaction. I also tried to keep it light in between but when I pulled her to my car, she didn’t wanna get in. Tried to push it a little with a reason to get in and got a no second time, so I stopped. We got into deep fvcking talk outside my car for like 15 mins.
Three things that I will do better next time:
Every time I would talk about something I’m passionate about, she would show signs of attraction.. and whenever I didn’t know what to DHV with, she would shut it down like it was shit.
I had a I don’t give a fvck attitude that was the main thing that got her hooked.. There were times where I felt I wasn’t as manly/purposeful/dominant as I could have been with her, leading it to some loss of attraction.
She would even say, “you are very cute”. A punch right to my stomach but I took it as a test. I also know that if she can say that, I definitely had moments where I wasn’t dominant/purposeful enough.
Like if she keeps going deep about something I say what I feel “fvck that.. let’s talk about the stars… or let’s talk about the color red”.
Leeeeeet’s fvcking gooooo!
Met
1 one set
4 two sets
Felt exhausted tonight. Thoughts about staying home and going to sleep popped up. They seem so reasonable. I was tired from an extra long two hour gym session which I haven’t had for years and my body after dinner was just like melted cheese.
Fvck it. Stand up and put your shoes on. Boom. We out of the door.
=======
Three things I did well:
- Although exhausted and not feeling very purposeful tonight, also walking past lots of potential sets, I still opened 5 sets
Three of those sets were very positive after opening while two of them were negative.
The last set I opened was on my way home walking past a club and last second I see a two set at a table, talking a little close outside, so I stopped in my tracks and boom went in. Not super strong but as long as I passed their test, it was ok. It turned out to be a 1 hour long set with one of the girls who was a model with lots of life experience and talked to me like I was her bf or smt.
- Took my time to gather myself and feel a bit more purposeful before going in to some of the sets. Sometimes I really didn’t feel like talking to some girls but then I see the girls have a nice ass and body and it gives me energy to go in stronger.
- With the experienced model, her friend went inside the club after 5 minutes of talking to them. The model was decided to want to sit and talk to me. I gamed as I normally would do and she reacted only to some of it and she was trying to lead the conversation most of the time. (she stayed with me after all of her friends left the club and said bye to her.. of course I think she likes me)
Instead of being gamey all the time I joined her deeper topics (don’t know if it was a mistake), she really wanted to go deeper.. therefore the 1 hour long interaction. I also tried to keep it light in between but when I pulled her to my car, she didn’t wanna get in. Tried to push it a little with a reason to get in and got a no second time, so I stopped. We got into deep fvcking talk outside my car for like 15 mins.
Three things that I will do better next time:
- The model was DHVing all the time and testing me all the time throughout the interaction. Should have done more DHVing myself. I only did some at the start.
Every time I would talk about something I’m passionate about, she would show signs of attraction.. and whenever I didn’t know what to DHV with, she would shut it down like it was shit.
- Could have been more dominant as she’s been around many guys who were bigger and taller than me.
I had a I don’t give a fvck attitude that was the main thing that got her hooked.. There were times where I felt I wasn’t as manly/purposeful/dominant as I could have been with her, leading it to some loss of attraction.
She would even say, “you are very cute”. A punch right to my stomach but I took it as a test. I also know that if she can say that, I definitely had moments where I wasn’t dominant/purposeful enough.
- Stay focused in my own world more even when going a little deeper with a girl. If I really want to lead the interaction to sex, then I better lead the interaction more.
Like if she keeps going deep about something I say what I feel “fvck that.. let’s talk about the stars… or let’s talk about the color red”.
Leeeeeet’s fvcking gooooo!
