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Field report 13 - Going through the motions
Met
4 one sets, all opened while friends were nearby or coming back soon
1 mixed three set, two guys and one girl. The girl opened me while walking down the streets talking to me from my side
Last 2 days, today and a few days ahead, my normal schedule is different than usual.
Makes it a test to follow through my commitment when things aren’t going like it normally does.
Tonight I’m still feeling not very purposeful or being awake, not feeling frisky and just kind of going through the motions. The first set I met was an 8.5 just my type, 19yo who were behaving more mature for her age. The rest of the sets I met tonight were very chaotic and too low purpose. I opened them more to see what’s up instead of opening them because they were just my type. It also showed in the interactions that the girls were also more blasé to my presence.
Somehow the first set girl was just perfect to summon in me purpose and I went straight to her when she appeared at the bar to order drinks for her and her two friends sitting behind her.
The points below will have focus on this specific set.
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Three things I did well:
What I did well was to not look too much around and just own what I was feeling
At first I could see she was testing me and soon after we hit it off.
She was flirting and giving me compliments and I happily rewarded her for it.
At a point she got her drinks about to go back to her friends but kept talking a little prolonged and I told her to stay for 2 minutes and talk with me. She did easily and we continued.
Three things that I will do better next time:
Next time when I notice this kind of stuff, just kiss her to give her a taste and pull back and continue talking like nothing happened. Her buying temperature was high and I should have recognised that. Also should have moved her and isolated her after she decided to stay after getting their drinks.
Next time do not break tension like that suddenly. Unless I had pushed some more FIRST by kissing her. Having not pushed far enough and pulling back like this makes me seem too cool or not serious enough to make things happen. Fvcking postie song…
Next time stop myself from the postive, positive, positive track and tingle with her emotions a little.. tease her a little because it’s fun for me.
Leeeeeet’s fvcking gooooooooo!
Met
4 one sets, all opened while friends were nearby or coming back soon
1 mixed three set, two guys and one girl. The girl opened me while walking down the streets talking to me from my side
Last 2 days, today and a few days ahead, my normal schedule is different than usual.
Makes it a test to follow through my commitment when things aren’t going like it normally does.
Tonight I’m still feeling not very purposeful or being awake, not feeling frisky and just kind of going through the motions. The first set I met was an 8.5 just my type, 19yo who were behaving more mature for her age. The rest of the sets I met tonight were very chaotic and too low purpose. I opened them more to see what’s up instead of opening them because they were just my type. It also showed in the interactions that the girls were also more blasé to my presence.
Somehow the first set girl was just perfect to summon in me purpose and I went straight to her when she appeared at the bar to order drinks for her and her two friends sitting behind her.
The points below will have focus on this specific set.
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Three things I did well:
- Although feeling like just going through the motions, I had an attractive aura that was noticed by girls when I entered the bar. I could feel slightly their attention on me. Slightly because I was so focused in my own world, going through the motions.
What I did well was to not look too much around and just own what I was feeling
- When I saw this girl appearing at the bar, 3 meters away, we hit eyecontact, I went straight to her and opened strong like you are exactly what I want. I don’t do this often because it is rare the opportunities are presented in that way and she’s exactly my type, although a little taller than me.
At first I could see she was testing me and soon after we hit it off.
- There was sexual tension between us almost from the start. I could recognise it and it was great to play around with while holding eye-contact and talking
She was flirting and giving me compliments and I happily rewarded her for it.
At a point she got her drinks about to go back to her friends but kept talking a little prolonged and I told her to stay for 2 minutes and talk with me. She did easily and we continued.
Three things that I will do better next time:
- Soon into our interaction, she was looking at my lips and I thought about kissing her but didn’t because the thought of it being too fast would not be good. It was like 2 minutes in the interaction. Also I thought this would validate her too fast.
Next time when I notice this kind of stuff, just kiss her to give her a taste and pull back and continue talking like nothing happened. Her buying temperature was high and I should have recognised that. Also should have moved her and isolated her after she decided to stay after getting their drinks.
- The whole interaction was, sexual tension, her complimenting me, us talking about what we do, me complimenting her, talking about most courageous thing we did. Then I broke the tension by moving to a postie song and she looked back to her friends and then a bit after told me she gotta get back to her friends (one of them was her little sister) and they had joined some other guys at a different table.
Next time do not break tension like that suddenly. Unless I had pushed some more FIRST by kissing her. Having not pushed far enough and pulling back like this makes me seem too cool or not serious enough to make things happen. Fvcking postie song…
- One main reason it was so easy for her to leave as well was because the interaction was, (although infused with sexual tension and her giving me lots of compliments) always positive, positive, positive. There was no spike to catch her off-balance. I needed to tingle with her emotions more.
Next time stop myself from the postive, positive, positive track and tingle with her emotions a little.. tease her a little because it’s fun for me.
Leeeeeet’s fvcking gooooooooo!
