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Field report 2 Hooking
Dg gym
1 set, fit cute, confident
Three things I did well:
Three things I will do better next time:
I realize now that she's having it on private and haven't accepted my request yet. Plan was to text her what she's doing tn, maybe go on a date and then do ng. (Accepted request at 23, wrote maybe *tongue out sloppy face X 2, while I was at club)
Will stop girl if she reapproaches me to just leave and make plans instead of planning to do it over text.
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NG
2 set blondes, at underground club/bar
Three things I did well:
Three things I will do better next time:
I will stay longer in the interaction next time and instead of leaving the place right after, just take a round and warm up some more with any other girl
I’ll give it 5-10 more minutes in situations where there’s low stimuli and only few girls to try and see how much fire and awesomeness I can inject and sustain before leaving
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2 set blondes, outside at corner cafe/bar, 18yos
Long interaction lasting 30-45 mins. or so
Three things I did well:
Three things I will do better next time:
Will be more creative next time, definitely try and move one of the girls or at least not sit there with them the whole time. They are just fvcking 18yo cute girls who doesn’t know what they want…
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1 set brunette, not ideal type but ok, club/pub
Three things I did well:
Three things I will do better next time:
The friend of the girl I opened was standing below us, like take me, for some time but eventually left. I will engage a girl whos open like that next time to have more fun and have her have more fun too
Will try to see next time how to cut through scenarios like that with a purpose of moving one of the girls and see what I can get away with
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Mixed set 1 guy, 3 girls, club/pub
Three things I did well:
Approached guy standing by himself when the 3 girls finally weren’t around him and confidently, positively said hi
Three things I will do better next time:
Since they were having their own little party at their table the whole time I was in the club/pub, I thought she was maybe a little more shy and insecure about leaving her friends.
The limited time I had.. maybe next time just go with her and just say hi to the friends quickly, have them qualify her, get back focused on her, take her to dance floor away from friends - dance for one song, be sexual and entitled, kiss her neck and then isolate her again and try to pull her with vodka at my place
Do spikes first when it seems vanilla when closing insta on girls next time
Let’s fvcking go!
Dg gym
1 set, fit cute, confident
Three things I did well:
- Stayed cool. Walked over to her after some time and had her in my mind every now and then. Wanted to get her out of my mind so finally approached.
- Tried to make it more self amusing, like slapping myself suddenly. It is SO out of my old identity that I still don't really believe I actually did it.
- Made everything happening like it's no big deal, bit of physicality and her being confident and at ease also made it very easy. Closed Insta. Although should have taken WhatsApp.
Three things I will do better next time:
- Be more man to woman in my tonality. Felt it was limited space, silence in the room and other guys around us that if I turned more dominant, it would be uncalibrated
- Be more entitled and fun, ask her for compliance, have her do things because I want to and make it more fun, like I'm all sexy and sweaty right now, take her hand and put it on my chest.. do you like wine? It's a perfect combination. Wyd after?
- Bc. My phone was further away, she gave me her phone and I added my insta.
I realize now that she's having it on private and haven't accepted my request yet. Plan was to text her what she's doing tn, maybe go on a date and then do ng. (Accepted request at 23, wrote maybe *tongue out sloppy face X 2, while I was at club)
- When she left, she came all the way to me to quickly say bye, caught me by surprise and I just responded see you man.
Will stop girl if she reapproaches me to just leave and make plans instead of planning to do it over text.
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NG
2 set blondes, at underground club/bar
Three things I did well:
- Opened them, although again.. I felt it would be much nicer to just keep sitting in my car once I arrived at the city.
- Set the rhythm of interaction although it was a pretty dead place tonight and music was low
- Kept cold-reading with short statements to engage the girl sitting at the bar and the bartender girl
Three things I will do better next time:
- I ejected pretty fast as the girl at the bar was in this shitty mood and they were also sisters.
I will stay longer in the interaction next time and instead of leaving the place right after, just take a round and warm up some more with any other girl
- The energy was just so low that I didn’t want to stay and get sucked into it. An interesting challenge for next time nonetheless.
I’ll give it 5-10 more minutes in situations where there’s low stimuli and only few girls to try and see how much fire and awesomeness I can inject and sustain before leaving
- Follow simple structure, especially on the first sets. Especially when you go out and don’t feel on top
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2 set blondes, outside at corner cafe/bar, 18yos
Long interaction lasting 30-45 mins. or so
Three things I did well:
- Kept being dominant although it was the first real set of the night. Did lots of self-amusement things. Didn’t get phased when they were looking around at guys a lot throughout the interaction. They were all going to the same high-school.
- Was entitled to open blonde1, Crystal, by herself, who was waiting for blonde2, Sara. Used ftc and Crystal was yeah you can take a seat.
- Kept non-reactive most of the time. Although Sara was talking like a waterfall. She was curious about me and very curious about what I thought about her. She was trying to stifle me and I didn’t let her by not falling into her frame. At a point I’m dominantly commanding her about something when she was trying to make me fall into her frame. She giggled like a little girl and Crystal too
Three things I will do better next time:
- At some points I reacted to Saras questions and gave her too much satisfaction. She was talking 90% of the time. I will engage more next time to make it more 50/50
- I definitely needed some more carefreeness and be more risky. To try and lead and command one of them to isolate her because the whole 30-45 mins. I was talking with both except when I opened. I liked Crystals looks more but her personality just faded when Saras personality shined through and Sara was ok. Hard situation though without a wing tn or someone to occupy one of them.
- At the end, I felt not so purposeful or dominantly flowing and had Sara add me on insta. I was hesitating at first and the reason being was I didn’t feel I was physical enough with them after such a long interaction. We were sitting around a square table and I could only reach Crystal with an extended arm.
Will be more creative next time, definitely try and move one of the girls or at least not sit there with them the whole time. They are just fvcking 18yo cute girls who doesn’t know what they want…
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1 set brunette, not ideal type but ok, club/pub
Three things I did well:
- Kept being at ease while engaging her, I was very comfortable talking to her. Part because she looked open, part because I gave less of a fvck
- Did some self-amusing stuff about her name that I found funny and she loved it
- When her friend came, I confidently said hi to her to address her. She was party mood and I danced a little with her. Then she was like “take me” in her body language. Not anime eyes but the more subtle body positioning and presence
Three things I will do better next time:
- Bit later on the floor, they see me and are like COOOME! I’m like heeey! Walking through crowd but get sidetracked because they weren’t really my types. Instead I take a step up a patio and dance facing the crowd with a cool looking alpha guy on my right side. We acknowledge each other and a great song comes on and we are igniting, yelling to the lyrics and the crowd goes fvcking wild.
The friend of the girl I opened was standing below us, like take me, for some time but eventually left. I will engage a girl whos open like that next time to have more fun and have her have more fun too
- When I opened the brunette although feeling very comfortable, should try and see what I could get away with faster, like being even more entitled.. be more physical from the get go and be like the coolest pimp
- Soon after the friend came in after my approach with first brunette I ejected.
Will try to see next time how to cut through scenarios like that with a purpose of moving one of the girls and see what I can get away with
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Mixed set 1 guy, 3 girls, club/pub
Three things I did well:
Approached guy standing by himself when the 3 girls finally weren’t around him and confidently, positively said hi
- One girl came back to the guy and took his attention, guy wanted to introduce me but girl kept his attention. Another girl which was my type, yes!, came shortly after and we see each other, she was about to leave and I said hi and she moved towards me like a moth to a flame
- Tried to isolate her away from the friends, she was complying but not fully. Was trying to have her face away from them but she kept changing position so she could see them lol.
Short sexual hooked her at a point. Saw her looking at my crotch in the sexual way after I laughed my ass of doing some self amusement stuff
Three things I will do better next time:
- Was about to leave the club.. tbh. got lots of work to do tomorrow and also ng later. It’s gonna be fire and fun. The girl at the end said she wanted to go back to her friends and she looked at me with strong eye contact and said that I should come.
Since they were having their own little party at their table the whole time I was in the club/pub, I thought she was maybe a little more shy and insecure about leaving her friends.
The limited time I had.. maybe next time just go with her and just say hi to the friends quickly, have them qualify her, get back focused on her, take her to dance floor away from friends - dance for one song, be sexual and entitled, kiss her neck and then isolate her again and try to pull her with vodka at my place
- Was being dominant too much and didn’t let my tonality be more interesting. I was also too pushy at times with commanding questions and didn’t give her much space to invest.
- Closed insta but with the 2 points above, it’s not very solid. Should have spiked her more before instantly going for insta close when she mentioned going to her friends.
Do spikes first when it seems vanilla when closing insta on girls next time
Let’s fvcking go!