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Field report 25/30 - Pull interrupted.. feedback welcomed, inner game solid
Met 3 sets
My goal for every outing has been to meet at least 3 sets.
Tonight there was many sets I could have met BUT did not. I felt very confident in myself.
I passed SO many girls holding eyecontact for 3 or more seconds tonight. Nearly every girl I looked at. Inner game was on point.
The three sets I opened was open to meet. I saw them say no to guys a bit before I went in.
The last set and the interrupted pull was a 1 set. Feedback welcomed for what could have been more solid for the pull.
1 set cutie, sitting by herself in a bit isolated area on her phone, bar/club
She was one of the many girls who, besides long eyecontact, also smiled genuinely to me. We must have been passing each other 2 times before.
I see her sitting by herself on her phone, texting. A guy had just left after trying to talk to her.
I go in and make sure she notices me first before I say anything by bumping her leg. She looks up, sees it’s me, big smiles, I sit beside her and it was assumed we already know each other. This led me to believe for a moment that it was a girl I had hooked up with before.
So I ask her name and she tells me and it got disconfirmed. Good.
She’s real happy I opened her, we sit close beside each other, our bodies touching. She reminded me of a girl I used to have a crush on in high school, who fvcked my buddy and later was really into me when I was on top of my game and met my ex.
Anyway.. we talk a little about what we do.. then I lead by asking how spontaneous she’s feeling and she’s like 10/10
I look her in the eyes, grab her face and we make out a bit. She could be a better kisser. I stop it slowly. She grabs me and kiss me more. I ask her how old she is, then use that as a reason to say, you could be a better kisser. She’s like omg.. how old are you? I say guess, she guessed 7 years younger than I am. I say thx, hugs her, then says I like you and kiss her to not having to say real age bc. It could be an extra obstacle that’s not necessary.
I do a little bit of sexual vibing and she loves it. I find out logistics. She’s 10 min in car but still living home. So I seed with my place, got some cherry vodka, it’s fvcking good.
A little bit more of kissing, making it a good experience for her, she’s chasing.
It’s funny how the chaser feels much more intense energy than the chased. Like the girl I pulled 2 nights ago was not as hot as her and yet it felt much more intense with that girl (who btw. was in the club with her bf tn). It’s obvious when you write it and I’ve experienced it many times before.. but it can easily be forgotten.
So she’s just waiting for me to lead and I already told her when I met her that I’m going soon because I was. Didn’t want to stay out too long and really need some quality sleep lately.
She asked me when I needed to wake up and I said 12. She’s like ok, looking like she’s thinking it wasn’t the best time if she would spend night with me.
Anyway, we kiss a little more I make sure to not overdo it. Kiss her neck, she loves it.. I then tell her, let’s go. She agrees.
I get up and walk towards the exit. On the way there, you walk past the bar in a narrow line with many people standing at the bar.
I didn’t look back until at the end of the bar, then I see her almost being stopped by 2 guys trying to grab her.. she was feeling uncomfortable and motioned that she was going to me. Btw. she works as a waitress/bartender for the group who also runs this club/bar so she knew some people there.
When she came to me she stopped and said, “I can’t leave. I have some friends here”
I was surprised by that but said “It’s okay.. we will be back”
“Noo.. can’t you give me your number?”
I looked a little disappointed of her
“I’m not really a numbers guy.. let’s go”
She’s found another reason:
“I can’t.. it’s my best friends birthday”
Then I stupidly repeated “we will be back”. Even though I was confident in everything, the outer game lacked here to address her objections. She looked at me and left.
The whole interaction was about 8 minutes.
I went to bathroom, not feeling affected by it. Went back up and saw her standing talking with one of the guys who tried to stop her.
A thought of going into the set and taking the girl from the guy came up.. but I was just feeling soo confident about myself that it was MY WAY or THE HIGHWAY and I saw her leaving me as she chose the highway.
I know 3 things I could have done better to make the pull or have sex with her happen. See below. Also feedback welcomed!
Three things I did well:
Three things that I will do better next time:
Leeeeeeet’s fvcking goooooo!
Met 3 sets
My goal for every outing has been to meet at least 3 sets.
Tonight there was many sets I could have met BUT did not. I felt very confident in myself.
I passed SO many girls holding eyecontact for 3 or more seconds tonight. Nearly every girl I looked at. Inner game was on point.
The three sets I opened was open to meet. I saw them say no to guys a bit before I went in.
The last set and the interrupted pull was a 1 set. Feedback welcomed for what could have been more solid for the pull.
1 set cutie, sitting by herself in a bit isolated area on her phone, bar/club
She was one of the many girls who, besides long eyecontact, also smiled genuinely to me. We must have been passing each other 2 times before.
I see her sitting by herself on her phone, texting. A guy had just left after trying to talk to her.
I go in and make sure she notices me first before I say anything by bumping her leg. She looks up, sees it’s me, big smiles, I sit beside her and it was assumed we already know each other. This led me to believe for a moment that it was a girl I had hooked up with before.
So I ask her name and she tells me and it got disconfirmed. Good.
She’s real happy I opened her, we sit close beside each other, our bodies touching. She reminded me of a girl I used to have a crush on in high school, who fvcked my buddy and later was really into me when I was on top of my game and met my ex.
Anyway.. we talk a little about what we do.. then I lead by asking how spontaneous she’s feeling and she’s like 10/10
I look her in the eyes, grab her face and we make out a bit. She could be a better kisser. I stop it slowly. She grabs me and kiss me more. I ask her how old she is, then use that as a reason to say, you could be a better kisser. She’s like omg.. how old are you? I say guess, she guessed 7 years younger than I am. I say thx, hugs her, then says I like you and kiss her to not having to say real age bc. It could be an extra obstacle that’s not necessary.
I do a little bit of sexual vibing and she loves it. I find out logistics. She’s 10 min in car but still living home. So I seed with my place, got some cherry vodka, it’s fvcking good.
A little bit more of kissing, making it a good experience for her, she’s chasing.
It’s funny how the chaser feels much more intense energy than the chased. Like the girl I pulled 2 nights ago was not as hot as her and yet it felt much more intense with that girl (who btw. was in the club with her bf tn). It’s obvious when you write it and I’ve experienced it many times before.. but it can easily be forgotten.
So she’s just waiting for me to lead and I already told her when I met her that I’m going soon because I was. Didn’t want to stay out too long and really need some quality sleep lately.
She asked me when I needed to wake up and I said 12. She’s like ok, looking like she’s thinking it wasn’t the best time if she would spend night with me.
Anyway, we kiss a little more I make sure to not overdo it. Kiss her neck, she loves it.. I then tell her, let’s go. She agrees.
I get up and walk towards the exit. On the way there, you walk past the bar in a narrow line with many people standing at the bar.
I didn’t look back until at the end of the bar, then I see her almost being stopped by 2 guys trying to grab her.. she was feeling uncomfortable and motioned that she was going to me. Btw. she works as a waitress/bartender for the group who also runs this club/bar so she knew some people there.
When she came to me she stopped and said, “I can’t leave. I have some friends here”
I was surprised by that but said “It’s okay.. we will be back”
“Noo.. can’t you give me your number?”
I looked a little disappointed of her
“I’m not really a numbers guy.. let’s go”
She’s found another reason:
“I can’t.. it’s my best friends birthday”
Then I stupidly repeated “we will be back”. Even though I was confident in everything, the outer game lacked here to address her objections. She looked at me and left.
The whole interaction was about 8 minutes.
I went to bathroom, not feeling affected by it. Went back up and saw her standing talking with one of the guys who tried to stop her.
A thought of going into the set and taking the girl from the guy came up.. but I was just feeling soo confident about myself that it was MY WAY or THE HIGHWAY and I saw her leaving me as she chose the highway.
I know 3 things I could have done better to make the pull or have sex with her happen. See below. Also feedback welcomed!
Three things I did well:
- Inner game solid, combination of being proud of what I stand for, being honest, stopping a guy and his friends from stealing bottles from a bar I frequent and feeling grounded from a jog with bare upper body in 1 degrees
- Nearly 80% of sets of girls in the club/bar held 3 or more seconds eyecontact, I didn’t let it mean anything or tell myself negative things, that I should have done X or Y which I’ve done a lot of in the past
- The sets I opened, I didn’t try to force anything. It came from grounded, present to the moment, I’m a high-value guy kind of vibe
Three things that I will do better next time:
- The girl I was pulling. I talked with a friend and he said why not the toilet? Definitely should have pulled her to toilet on our short interaction of 8 mins. Sex was a no-brainer with her.
- When I said lets go, I should have grabbed her hand and led her instead of walking in front of her. This would discourage guys trying to open her and she also feels more safe going home with me. The short 8 minutes interaction makes it easier for distractions to catch her attention.
- Lastly, I could have just vibed more with her, make her chase harder, spend more time with her and make it a more solid interaction, upping her trust and lust for me, before pulling.
Leeeeeeet’s fvcking goooooo!
