FR Field report 5/30 - Fasting, chill night

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Field report 5 - Fasting, chill night

Felt vulnerable before going out tonight as I was fasting today

Ate a decent meal, went out while the body was restoring energy

First time fasting since a few months. Felt like didn’t want to engage with the outside world and just withdraw within and nurture myself.


Next time, I will try and have the perspective of this being a good challenge/mission. Although much easier said than done.. when you are in that situation and your body and mind is grabbing your attention.

Anyway…

2 set lesbian/bisexual pair, outside cocktail lounge bar

Three things I did well:

• Situational opened, felt carefree

• Talked to them pretty chill. Just doing what I wanted to do and they just happened to be there. The hot one started asking questions, while the less hot one was testing me

• Self amused a bit and it hooked the hot one

Three things I will do better next time:

• It was ok. Warmup set. Thick jackets, didn’t know what the hot one had beneath

• There was a small lull in the interaction. The less hot one got jealous, she started to caress the hot ones neck. That’s when I realised they might be a couple / seeing each other. Then I heard kissing and soon after the less hot one led her away.

• Could be more polarising and physical

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2 set, floor, club





Three things I did well:

• Spotted blondes friend dancing with a fun guy wanting to hook up tonight that we also met tonight, so I went in on blondie and winged him

• Led the dance with her, was being physical, I wasn’t excited about her though as she was thicker than my taste. Despite this, I was leading the dance and she followed well. Danced a little sexually close like it was the most normal thing

• Noticed when I was being too cool, dancing to the music. I refocused on her and leading

Three things I will do better next time:

• Could let go of judging her for being thicker than my taste and have more oomph and escalate more to get into a more sexual state

• At the end when I noticed her look over my shoulder, I should have known it was her friend. Next time, isolate her or position her so she’s facing away from her friend

• Talk a little more during the dancing to have a more solid interaction

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2 set french brunettes, getting air outside club





Three things I did well:

• Hit short eye contact with hotter one, seconds after I went over to them with situational opener

• Was playful when being commanding in my tonality, also saying random stuff. Made the girls enjoy staying

• When wing, who was a bit drunk, focused on the hotter one, the less hot one already saw she added me on insta and was about to tell hotter one to go back inside, I engaged her harder and she was holding unbreakable eye-contact and biting her lips

Three things I will do better next time:

• Sometimes, I’m self-amusing in the wrong times or maybe too early and it made the hotter one in the beginning of interaction, 1-2 minute in, back off and call over an extra guy to join the interaction

• Tell a new wing beforehand the one who approaches gets to choose the girl he wants, to make sure he knows that’s what a wingman do

• When she gave me phone and I added myself, I forgot to send myself a text.. Her profile is private. Also reason she gave me her phone was to send a video she made of us. Should have told her to send me the video after I added myself “here, text me the video”

Lets go!!!!!!!!!!!