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Field report 6 - Sneaky thoughts
Did not want to go out at all tonight. Last night was a long night going to bed at 6AM. Then I had a quick gym session today with deadlift where I fucked up my lower back a little so I was walking slower and a little strange.
I also felt vulnerable in the way where you feel you are about to get sick and coughing and it's also -3* Celsius. If I get sick, I'll not be able to game for a week or more said my thoughts.
All of these reasons and more, came to mind to take a day off and just go home after work.
They were whispering and I heard them like most people would but in the end I didn't listen to them
Your thoughts are reasonable but you cannot be fvcking reasonable if you commit to do something every day. You'll have to be the weird person and do the weird things and learn to be ok with it
Anyway..
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2 set, outside cocktail lounge bar
Three things I did well:
I don’t know why I forget this sometimes (I’m not above the girl, she’s just a human being like me). It’s an essential thing to believe to be more real and hook more sets naturally
Three things I will do better next time:
Should do something else here because after that, she got a little distant and looked for their public transportation to get home on her phone.
I took it as a sign of disinterest which was a mistake because this partly led me to not engage with them much more (besides her not being real). Should take this fact objectively, spike her a little, engage more to her friend and once she finally sees that she can open up and get validated, I will reward her for it and not go the toilet like I did in the, Sunday field report BEGINNING 1, with Britney.
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2 set brunettes 7s, cocktail lounge bar, sitting at the bar
Three things I did well:
Three things I will do better next time:
I think I didn’t have enough sexual value or just value in general besides being confident enough to come over and talk to them and passing the verbal shit test. Also the timing of doing a push was not good, almost right after she qualified.
Don’t do hard polarisation with bodylanguage when the girls aren’t feeling very energetic. Just keep interaction moving and continue be self-amusing
There was one more 2 set coming from another bar to the cocktail bar that I met outside. I wanted to write about it but I’m slow today and have already spent lots of time writing the field report so yeah.. better with a shorter report with more sleep than getting even more overworked on this!
Leet’s goooo!!!!!
Did not want to go out at all tonight. Last night was a long night going to bed at 6AM. Then I had a quick gym session today with deadlift where I fucked up my lower back a little so I was walking slower and a little strange.
I also felt vulnerable in the way where you feel you are about to get sick and coughing and it's also -3* Celsius. If I get sick, I'll not be able to game for a week or more said my thoughts.
All of these reasons and more, came to mind to take a day off and just go home after work.
They were whispering and I heard them like most people would but in the end I didn't listen to them
Your thoughts are reasonable but you cannot be fvcking reasonable if you commit to do something every day. You'll have to be the weird person and do the weird things and learn to be ok with it
Anyway..
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2 set, outside cocktail lounge bar
Three things I did well:
- After looking at one of the girls I found attractive for maybe 30-60 seconds, I opened with curiosity opener. Better late than never.
- Social hooked soon after because I was comfortable being there with no need to push things. Someone perceptive gave me a tip yesterday about I’m not above the girl, neither is she above me.
I don’t know why I forget this sometimes (I’m not above the girl, she’s just a human being like me). It’s an essential thing to believe to be more real and hook more sets naturally
- I blurted out thoughts that were related to the topics talked about in a non show-off way. My mind was clear and sharp. Made myself look human. The girls enjoyed the interaction
Three things I will do better next time:
- I felt pretty comfortable although the girls were not telling me where they were from and instead I was playing their game of guessing and cold-reading them. My initial instinct was to direct interaction to be on my terms.. make it playful and more commanding, “tell me where you are from.. now!” but it would feel a tad try-hard .. I guess it’s ok to play along with their little game. Next time though look at them like they are little girls who just wants to have a little fun with daddy
- The hotter one kept joking around like a little brat although I was trying to have her be more real. At the end when she kept lying/joking (which was too easy to see through) I felt this energy directed towards her like, “you little brat!” and grabbed her arm a little.
Should do something else here because after that, she got a little distant and looked for their public transportation to get home on her phone.
I took it as a sign of disinterest which was a mistake because this partly led me to not engage with them much more (besides her not being real). Should take this fact objectively, spike her a little, engage more to her friend and once she finally sees that she can open up and get validated, I will reward her for it and not go the toilet like I did in the, Sunday field report BEGINNING 1, with Britney.
- The less hot one liked me after my interesting cold-read on her and passing her shit tests. She later made an “us” statement so if I stayed and kept talking, then leading or going with her where she’s going and use reason that I have a friend living around there too, get into a more sexual topic along the way.. qualify her.. do some spikes and close.
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2 set brunettes 7s, cocktail lounge bar, sitting at the bar
Three things I did well:
- When I walked over to them and stood in between them, I opened them by having eye contact first before saying hey to not scare them. This is astronomically better than saying something before eye contact, when you are close to them
- Held relaxed laser-eyecontact and self-amused with a little lie I revealed afterwards
- I felt relaxed being there and after revealing the little lie, one of the girls asked me if this was my pickup thing I say to girls, which caught me off guard. I managed to turn it around quickly and have her qualify by saying, she looked international, that’s why I spoke English at first. I’m sure you’ve had guys come and talk English to you at first.. She’s like yeah.. there’s actually been two earlier.
Three things I will do better next time:
- I tried to spike to polarise the interaction. It backfired and ended the interaction.
I think I didn’t have enough sexual value or just value in general besides being confident enough to come over and talk to them and passing the verbal shit test. Also the timing of doing a push was not good, almost right after she qualified.
- I was only hooked a little and tried to polarise too much. Also the girls were not so high energy, so doing push like that made them feel uncomfortable and probably also looked a little try-hard
Don’t do hard polarisation with bodylanguage when the girls aren’t feeling very energetic. Just keep interaction moving and continue be self-amusing
- Play more with fun scenarios, like “what would you do if” or “I love, I hate”.
There was one more 2 set coming from another bar to the cocktail bar that I met outside. I wanted to write about it but I’m slow today and have already spent lots of time writing the field report so yeah.. better with a shorter report with more sleep than getting even more overworked on this!
Leet’s goooo!!!!!
