FR Field Report 9/30 - Hook then overconfident

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Field Report 9/30 - Hook then overconfident


Opening strong tonight, hooking easily but doing too much after hooking and resulting in girls have harder time to relate to or just too shy / can’t handle it.




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3 set young 18yos, sitting outside on a bench with bottles, early night 10:30pm





Three things I did well:

• I see, I go. Before saying anything, let them notice I’m there and solid opened

• Changed topic like a machine gun, didn’t keep on the same topic 1 second longer after my reaction to their reply

• Kept composure and just gave value and they complied and was happy I was there

Three things that I will do better next time:

• Stay longer in the interaction, although first set, I could at least exchange insta for extra followers noticing their eagerness once opened

• Yeah stay longer..

• Use ftc, then play fun games with them like have you ever… leading the game towards kissing

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2 set, sitting, cafe/bar





Three things I did well:

• Opened strong, opened when only one of the girls was at the table

• Hooked fast, her friend came back who was more my type, engaged her and she told me what she did and I said, you don’t look like a abc, in a confident, fun and challenging way.

And she was qualifying herself massively after, saying she’s almost offended. So cute…

• At the end when the girl I liked went back up to get shots, I talked with the first girl but she stopped looking at me while talking. I told her why are you not looking at me when you talk? In an inquisitive but chill way and then I looked over and saw she was having eye contact with a guy on another table. It was her way of getting more self-esteem again. I didn’t let this phase me

Three things I will do better next time:

• I often approach the “wrong” girl in 2 sets, sometimes I didn’t know her friend is much more my type and then her friend comes and I switch over to her, making the first girl jealous and she cockblocks.. next time, either do proper observation before going in or when already in set, try to get a guys attention nearby and say meet abc, guess where she’s from and then I switch to her friend

• Despite the girl I liked qualified massively and complied to my high-five after she told me all of that her friend cockblocked by keep speaking their local language where they are from. Ignoring me. To be fair, I did a ftc and took a chair, sitting with them, so no problem.

Should definitely have brought a guy in for this kind of set.

• When the girl I liked went back up to buy shots, I started talking to the first girl and she didn’t look at me at 90% of the time while talking

Just focus on myself and my world next time and fully enjoy just sitting there





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1 set, isolated hallway to toilet, on the phone


Three things I did well:

• Opened her with body language only, no talking, she loved it.. expressed in joy.. whoo are yooouu..

• When I started talking, I switched topics again fast as a machine-gun and I was physical combined with rewarding

• Body language, energy, present to the moment, self-esteem was all on good point

Three things I will do better next time:

• There was a point soon after talking before I hugged her that I felt I could have just grabbed her head and kissed her, it was a slight instinct and then the moment was gone.

When a girl is so happy you open her, be extra fast when there’s moments like this again.

• Was too much pull and hugged her one extra time too much. This led her to bounce after. Instead I should just be more chill and a little more challenging

• When I hugged her the first time, transition to holding her and say, “you are my new gf for the next two minutes. Tell me how much you love me babe”

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1 set, queue to bar


Three things I did well:

• Although not the most strong open, I was authentic and she was open for the open

• Was more physical and body language was strong towards her. Noticed she wasn’t too comfortable with it after a bit so I went more side to side with her

• Self amused with weird sh!t and she was like listening but was like ok, if that’s what you like.. so I doubled down and had some extra fun with that

Three things I will do better next time:

• I was doing too much after she hooked and she got shy or started to avoid me a bit

Strange thing was when I stopped doing, she re-engages. I re-engage back and she goes back to not looking at me while talking with each other. Could be more commanding and say, focus girl, look at me

• Continue physicality after spinning her while talking to her

• I think a theme for tonight is I come off too strong after hook and it makes girls who aren’t that confident, shy and a little defensive. So to be authentic with this kind of strong, overt display of confidence, I will have to either be more leading and commanding or stop myself in my tracks and just chill and playfully challenge the girl less

Leeeeeeeet’s goooooooo!