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- Nov 4, 2021
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Tuesday:
Went out closer to the “daytime”, meaning I went out on the streets at around 6:30 when it was still light out. I had a couple shots before hand (3) and then headed out. I immediately passed a cute girl walking by herself and asked her if she was from around here and then asked if there were any cool bars. We talked for about 30 seconds and then she left. I walked around the outskirts of the downtown area but there wasn’t any sets to approach for about 20 minutes so I decided to head back to where I was before. I get back to my apartment and on the way to taking the elevator I ran into another girl I had talked with before and I got her number. Anyways after taking a few more pulls back at my apartment I decided to head back out. I made my way over to a bar and it was really dead inside, maybe like 5 people total and no women, so I dipped and headed over to another bar. I get to this said bar and come up to a girl and ask if I can sit there and she says yes (it was one seat away from her). I was about to talk to her but her boyfriend/date came up and sat next to her so I decided not to. I then left this bar and decided to go to the final bar of the night. On the way there so stopped near an intersection and saw a girl walking my way while I was stopped. I said “excuse me” and she just kept walking and then I said it again and she still kept walking lol. Honestly don’t really blame her though since it was nighttime in the city.
I get to the final bar and sit down. I immediately recognize this one girl I know from high school so I go up and give her a hug and we talk. She introduces me to a couple of her friends who were okay looking. I walk around and then this one really cute short chick gets on stage and starts signing (she’s in a group of about 7 people) and once she’s done I go up to her and tell her she did a good job and I start trying to “”deep dive” her, but she’s like you should talk to my friend so and so, who’s a guy lol. I took that as my cue and moved along.
I approached another two set with one guy who were playing an arcade game and asked them if they wanted to join me for some karaoke. They just said no lol and I moved along. Finally I went up to a milf who also sang some Karoke and I told her she did a good job (she was with a group of people). She said thanks and she was pretty receptive to me because she was asking me questions and we had some good conversations. Anyways her friends told her that they had to go and then they took off.
Overall, approached/ talked to 7 women total, and got one phone number from that girl in the elevator.
Thursday:
Went out at about 7 pm and had about 3 shots beforehand. Didn’t really have a particular destination in mind but I knew the streets were gonna be crowded for st. Patrick’s day. Anyways on my way towards the area in my area of my city with a lot of bars I saw two potentially cute women walking together so I decided to catch up to them and once we were both stopped at a light, I opened them with “are you guys from around here by chance”, and from there we talked and walked for about 3 minutes and then they were going a different way then I was so I dipped. Anyways I’m pretty proud that I ran up and approached them. It’s now about 8 pm and most bars are packed and have long lines, so I decided to go to a club that’s not the best venue for women but it had a short line. Inside there was probably about 15-20 people total. I ordered a drink at the bar and danced/went on my phone so It wouldn’t look too weird that I was by myself (although I honestly didn’t really care).
I noticed a 4 set sitting down at a booth, but I ultimately chickened out and didn’t approach, and instead, I went to a different part of the bar. At this section of the bar, I see a guy sitting by himself so I decided to go over and introduce myself to hopefully build some social value. We talk for a bit and head over to the bar area, and at which point a chick who I was not attracted to starts singing a song with me and starts asking me questions, to which I gave her brief and short answers because I wasn’t interested in her.
At this point I decided to dip and call my buddy to see what he was doing. I ended up walking back to my apartment and met him there to have a couple more drinks and then we decided to head out. On the way back to the club that I was at previously, I decided to go up to a girl and her group of friends who were walking past us and asked them “are you guys coming with us” lol, and they said something along lines of hell no. It honestly didn’t hurt at all and it built my confidence up a bit lol.
We eventually get into that same club I was in before and I see a group of 4 women dancing in front of me and my friend. I decided to go up to one of the hotter ones and compliment her tattoo and she said thanks. After about a minute, she switched positions with her friend so she was directly in front of me and started shaking her ass like two inches from me lol. I ended up chickening out and didn’t grind on her because I didnt wanna look like a weirdo if I did end up getting rejected.
We then end up leaving to another bar and wait in line for about 10 minutes. I open a girl in front of me asking if this is the line for the bar and she said yes (wasn’t too receptive). Anyways after deciding to go to a different venue, we arrive and there’s tons of people but the ratio of men to women is pretty bad. Meaning that there were a lot of guys, and the girls who were there were for the most part talking to other guys. Anyways I walk around without my friend and while I’m walking I spot a girl with tattoos again and say “nice tattoos”, from there she walks away but I tell her blonde friend to stay for a second. I ask her blonde friend a couple questions and she’s feeling my abs and shit while answering and then I ask for her number but she pulls out her Snapchat, to which I told her” I don’t do Snapchat” so she ended up giving me her phone number instead. We then ended up going back to my apartment because it was at that point 1 am.
Overall, approached 6 women and got one number. I texted her later that night and never heard back lol.
Saturday:
Had a couple drinks at my place and then decided to head out. Walked over to a bar I had never been to and it was packed inside. I was a little overwhelmed but decided to stick it out. Anyways while waiting in line I decided to approach these two ladies who were seated next to me. I asked them what drink they got and then talked with them for a few minutes while waiting for my drink. They were somewhat receptive and asked me a couple questions but I could tell they weren’t that into me.
I end up getting a seat at the bar and make some conversation with the guys next to me. The bars layout mostly consists of people sitting down at tables, so it was difficult to approach. However, after about 35 minutes sitting down at the bar, I spot this cute lady in overalls and a nose ring waiting for a drink. I open her over my shoulder and compliment her overalls and start talking with her. She’s decently receptive and when I go for the number close, she tells me that’s probably not the best idea because her boyfriend is here with her lol. I respect it and say nice meeting you.
I then leave and decide to head over to a dance/night club. While there, I get a drink at the bar and talk to this guy who I follow on Instagram and a couple girls around him. The girl asks for my name and asks a couple questions, and I definitely should have continued talking to her but I just decided to keep it chill instead.
I go over to the dance floor and I’m dancing for about 20 minutes and then this cute Asian chick who was by herself earlier comes to dance near me. I ended up turning to her and commented on something about how the place didn’t smell very good lol. She wasn’t too receptive either so I said fuck it and left lol.
At the end of the night, I approached 4 women and didn’t get any numbers.
Overall, am I doing something wrong or is it generally this difficult to get a lay from nightgame? Over the last year, I’ve approached/talked to about 50 different women during “nightgame” and have gotten probably like 6-7 numbers total and no dates/lays at all.
At this point I’m seriously just considering doing day game and see if my results are any better. So overall,
Should I have a goal to talk to x amount of women per night?
Should I open with something witty “I love those dad jeans” or “what drink are you getting me”
Should I stick through the sets even if they’re not that into me?
I’m pretty lost right now and any insight would be much appreciated, thanks!
Went out closer to the “daytime”, meaning I went out on the streets at around 6:30 when it was still light out. I had a couple shots before hand (3) and then headed out. I immediately passed a cute girl walking by herself and asked her if she was from around here and then asked if there were any cool bars. We talked for about 30 seconds and then she left. I walked around the outskirts of the downtown area but there wasn’t any sets to approach for about 20 minutes so I decided to head back to where I was before. I get back to my apartment and on the way to taking the elevator I ran into another girl I had talked with before and I got her number. Anyways after taking a few more pulls back at my apartment I decided to head back out. I made my way over to a bar and it was really dead inside, maybe like 5 people total and no women, so I dipped and headed over to another bar. I get to this said bar and come up to a girl and ask if I can sit there and she says yes (it was one seat away from her). I was about to talk to her but her boyfriend/date came up and sat next to her so I decided not to. I then left this bar and decided to go to the final bar of the night. On the way there so stopped near an intersection and saw a girl walking my way while I was stopped. I said “excuse me” and she just kept walking and then I said it again and she still kept walking lol. Honestly don’t really blame her though since it was nighttime in the city.
I get to the final bar and sit down. I immediately recognize this one girl I know from high school so I go up and give her a hug and we talk. She introduces me to a couple of her friends who were okay looking. I walk around and then this one really cute short chick gets on stage and starts signing (she’s in a group of about 7 people) and once she’s done I go up to her and tell her she did a good job and I start trying to “”deep dive” her, but she’s like you should talk to my friend so and so, who’s a guy lol. I took that as my cue and moved along.
I approached another two set with one guy who were playing an arcade game and asked them if they wanted to join me for some karaoke. They just said no lol and I moved along. Finally I went up to a milf who also sang some Karoke and I told her she did a good job (she was with a group of people). She said thanks and she was pretty receptive to me because she was asking me questions and we had some good conversations. Anyways her friends told her that they had to go and then they took off.
Overall, approached/ talked to 7 women total, and got one phone number from that girl in the elevator.
Thursday:
Went out at about 7 pm and had about 3 shots beforehand. Didn’t really have a particular destination in mind but I knew the streets were gonna be crowded for st. Patrick’s day. Anyways on my way towards the area in my area of my city with a lot of bars I saw two potentially cute women walking together so I decided to catch up to them and once we were both stopped at a light, I opened them with “are you guys from around here by chance”, and from there we talked and walked for about 3 minutes and then they were going a different way then I was so I dipped. Anyways I’m pretty proud that I ran up and approached them. It’s now about 8 pm and most bars are packed and have long lines, so I decided to go to a club that’s not the best venue for women but it had a short line. Inside there was probably about 15-20 people total. I ordered a drink at the bar and danced/went on my phone so It wouldn’t look too weird that I was by myself (although I honestly didn’t really care).
I noticed a 4 set sitting down at a booth, but I ultimately chickened out and didn’t approach, and instead, I went to a different part of the bar. At this section of the bar, I see a guy sitting by himself so I decided to go over and introduce myself to hopefully build some social value. We talk for a bit and head over to the bar area, and at which point a chick who I was not attracted to starts singing a song with me and starts asking me questions, to which I gave her brief and short answers because I wasn’t interested in her.
At this point I decided to dip and call my buddy to see what he was doing. I ended up walking back to my apartment and met him there to have a couple more drinks and then we decided to head out. On the way back to the club that I was at previously, I decided to go up to a girl and her group of friends who were walking past us and asked them “are you guys coming with us” lol, and they said something along lines of hell no. It honestly didn’t hurt at all and it built my confidence up a bit lol.
We eventually get into that same club I was in before and I see a group of 4 women dancing in front of me and my friend. I decided to go up to one of the hotter ones and compliment her tattoo and she said thanks. After about a minute, she switched positions with her friend so she was directly in front of me and started shaking her ass like two inches from me lol. I ended up chickening out and didn’t grind on her because I didnt wanna look like a weirdo if I did end up getting rejected.
We then end up leaving to another bar and wait in line for about 10 minutes. I open a girl in front of me asking if this is the line for the bar and she said yes (wasn’t too receptive). Anyways after deciding to go to a different venue, we arrive and there’s tons of people but the ratio of men to women is pretty bad. Meaning that there were a lot of guys, and the girls who were there were for the most part talking to other guys. Anyways I walk around without my friend and while I’m walking I spot a girl with tattoos again and say “nice tattoos”, from there she walks away but I tell her blonde friend to stay for a second. I ask her blonde friend a couple questions and she’s feeling my abs and shit while answering and then I ask for her number but she pulls out her Snapchat, to which I told her” I don’t do Snapchat” so she ended up giving me her phone number instead. We then ended up going back to my apartment because it was at that point 1 am.
Overall, approached 6 women and got one number. I texted her later that night and never heard back lol.
Saturday:
Had a couple drinks at my place and then decided to head out. Walked over to a bar I had never been to and it was packed inside. I was a little overwhelmed but decided to stick it out. Anyways while waiting in line I decided to approach these two ladies who were seated next to me. I asked them what drink they got and then talked with them for a few minutes while waiting for my drink. They were somewhat receptive and asked me a couple questions but I could tell they weren’t that into me.
I end up getting a seat at the bar and make some conversation with the guys next to me. The bars layout mostly consists of people sitting down at tables, so it was difficult to approach. However, after about 35 minutes sitting down at the bar, I spot this cute lady in overalls and a nose ring waiting for a drink. I open her over my shoulder and compliment her overalls and start talking with her. She’s decently receptive and when I go for the number close, she tells me that’s probably not the best idea because her boyfriend is here with her lol. I respect it and say nice meeting you.
I then leave and decide to head over to a dance/night club. While there, I get a drink at the bar and talk to this guy who I follow on Instagram and a couple girls around him. The girl asks for my name and asks a couple questions, and I definitely should have continued talking to her but I just decided to keep it chill instead.
I go over to the dance floor and I’m dancing for about 20 minutes and then this cute Asian chick who was by herself earlier comes to dance near me. I ended up turning to her and commented on something about how the place didn’t smell very good lol. She wasn’t too receptive either so I said fuck it and left lol.
At the end of the night, I approached 4 women and didn’t get any numbers.
Overall, am I doing something wrong or is it generally this difficult to get a lay from nightgame? Over the last year, I’ve approached/talked to about 50 different women during “nightgame” and have gotten probably like 6-7 numbers total and no dates/lays at all.
At this point I’m seriously just considering doing day game and see if my results are any better. So overall,
Should I have a goal to talk to x amount of women per night?
Should I open with something witty “I love those dad jeans” or “what drink are you getting me”
Should I stick through the sets even if they’re not that into me?
I’m pretty lost right now and any insight would be much appreciated, thanks!
