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On judgemental people, they tend to just live lifes and blame other people using religion, morals but trust me, Most of everything i learn are all BS, COmplete BS. Most of the arguments this judgemental people use are base on personal interest, taking power, and being vengeful.
So what do you do? I recommend reading Chase and Ross articles on judgement. "Brain Hack: Using Moral Superiority To Turn Arguments....." and "Make Judgemental People Stop Judging You Right Now".
Anyway here's what i found out, Humans operate from their own template, their own thoughts. So basically arguing with "righteous people" with logic is stupid. So i realize this when i quarrel with a certain person and he was being "righteous" and being "responsible". When they attack you by being specific, you go general, and when they attack you in general, you go specific. Now, this is mindfucking. It's not about being "right". Because in a Moral Superiority context, people think they are right.
But what is "right"?
What is "right" really? IT's just perspective. It's just guiding lights, for you to go to Heaven (that is if you religious). You know how rich people, successful or even yourself cannot call a girl "stupid"? because it's "wrong". Society, women, judgemental people can't see that way, and you certainly do not want to reward them with warmness. All you do is keep doing the general and specific switch, until it ends up in a fight and you defend yourself or you walk away after you banter them a few lines.
Take that, Screwing Judgemental people at their own views.
Zac
So what do you do? I recommend reading Chase and Ross articles on judgement. "Brain Hack: Using Moral Superiority To Turn Arguments....." and "Make Judgemental People Stop Judging You Right Now".
Anyway here's what i found out, Humans operate from their own template, their own thoughts. So basically arguing with "righteous people" with logic is stupid. So i realize this when i quarrel with a certain person and he was being "righteous" and being "responsible". When they attack you by being specific, you go general, and when they attack you in general, you go specific. Now, this is mindfucking. It's not about being "right". Because in a Moral Superiority context, people think they are right.
But what is "right"?
What is "right" really? IT's just perspective. It's just guiding lights, for you to go to Heaven (that is if you religious). You know how rich people, successful or even yourself cannot call a girl "stupid"? because it's "wrong". Society, women, judgemental people can't see that way, and you certainly do not want to reward them with warmness. All you do is keep doing the general and specific switch, until it ends up in a fight and you defend yourself or you walk away after you banter them a few lines.
Take that, Screwing Judgemental people at their own views.
Zac
