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This would be my first, "Street to Sheets" lay, meaning I met her by cold approach on the street then got in her bed with her and played pelvic pea-knuckle for an hour and change
In mid December I was out meeting women at a nearby university with a high percentage of females to males (my university has a ratio of 1 female for every 5 males). I walked around engaging in some conversations with cute girls - got some rejections - got some numbers and kept it moving. At about approach 7 or 8, I was walking alongside the large pond and saw a fine black girl, roughly a 7 or an 8 walking over the bridge across it. I looked away from her to give her a chance to notice me consequence free and in my peripheral vision I noticed she did. So I looked her way and she looked away and walked away in a crowd of students. Naturally I jog over to her, get alongside her and a little ahead and turn to meet her:
We go into how she's not too sure right now what she's doing, a little art and a little graphic design but nothing too developed. I notice she's really disciplined, but in this laid back way, kind of like me and point it out to her and suggest that she must be an athlete and to my surprise, she's not but I'm still digging her vibe. After sharing a little about myself without anything particularly sexual said, (no touching either) and shooting the shit with her in general I decide to pull the trigger:
While trading, I ask when she's free and she gives me a time and I corroborate that it works for me and we part ways. I continue to rack up a couple more rejections and numbers then decide to call it a day and drive home.
I've lost the original texts as it's been a few months since I grabbed her number, but I remember she kept calling me "hubby" and "hun" in the messages which girls usually don't call me (unless they're interested I now notice).
The first two dates happened about 3 and a half months ago so I'll summarize them:
First Date
- At sunset, I arrive at her college and meet her under the same sign we chatted at and we make small talk about how she sat on a bench and it wet her ass up good. I open the door for her and we get inside my Corolla and drive over to Dairy Queen. My car is borderline a piece of shit and there's something loose in there that rattles when the engine is on or revving but I manage to make small talk with her about graphic design and her life on campus over the noise driving through the darkness.
This was my first date from cold approach so I didn't know what I was doing but just tried to wing it and play it cool. We get to the Dairy Queen and there's some other college kids around chatting and talking and I make small talk with her in line about what I normally get and what she normally gets, we both order and I pay for it all and we sit and chat for 45 minutes. We go into her past and how her parents split and she lived with her dad, then mom and got sick of her and moved out as a teen and bounced from friends house to friends house to get by and now is in college trying to figure this out as college is where people go to figure their life out... right? and I share about my sheltered life in Miami and my urges to leave that "Paradise" in search of something more.
After 45 minutes the conversation lulls and I get the feeling I need to do something, so I suggest we head back to her campus. We drive back and she asks me what I want to do now. I really don't know, but of course I try to be smooth and tell her I want to go somewhere and chill so she suggests the community center since there's some couches there. We head over and find a good spot with some TV's around and sit down, kind of spaced apart from each other... it just didn't feel right to be so far from my date so I suggested she come closer, she adjusted her hair, took off her glasses and leaned against my chest. My heart instantly begins to pound and her thigh is on mine and her hand close to my member which slowly starts to stand as I haven't had a girl this close to me in some time.
We watch some horror tv show for 10 minutes and I decide I should try to kiss her. My heart pounds more and after 6 or 7 minutes of deliberation, I thank her for giving me a good time and say " hey, give me a kiss" we plant one on each others lips and go back to watching, jackpot!
After this I decide I want to go someplace else and suggest her dorm, she tells me it's really small and a little dirty but I insist it's okay. We walk across campus to it and get to the door and there's some desk assistants there. She tells them that I'm a visitor and wants me to come with her but they refuse saying it's past visitor hours. Just like that my hopes of getting laid then and there vanish. She walks me back to my car and we hug, say goodbye and kiss once more.
That was my first date, ever.
After this she texts me telling me she had a great time with me and I respond telling her I enjoyed it too.
Second Date
This one was a shit show, the following weekend, I met her at her campus with no idea of what to do. I figured we could do something on campus but there was nothing to do, her roommate was sleeping in her room so we couldn't go there, my laptop couldn't connect to the wifi so we couldn't watch a movie on a couch. I was out of options, she suggested we watch a movie and I though that was a good idea but I didn't have any money. So I had to hop on my phone and call my big sister and tell her that I was on a date with a girl and needed some money to buy some movie tickets, my sister laughs telling me that I'm growing up finally and sends me 30 bucks.
We get to the AMC at the mall and while waiting in line, R's phone goes off and it's her mom. She tells her that she's out at the movies with a "good friend" who's taking her out and her mom makes her recap my whole approach and how we met. Kind of awkward to hear that as I wondered what "friend" could mean. I pay for the tickets and she gives me 5 dollars as she feels bad that I pay for everything but secretly I don't care about the cash, I'm just glad to spend time with a cute girl.
We cuddle together in the back of the theatre and after about 45 minutes my arm that's wrapped around her goes numb but I tough it out and give her a kiss telling her it's a good movie. After the movie we're walking out and she's ahead of me walking... in her black tights... and I'm just trying to figure out what it'll take to get in them. We use the bathroom then head back to campus and take off to her room, earlier her roommate was there so I'm kind of puzzled as to why we're going there but don't say a word as I remember her texting someone on the drive back.
She leads me through the maze of rooms and floors to her door and pull out a key and opens it and we're alone. But man, it was fucking tiny. Just two bunk beds each with a desk underneath and a small closet. And that was it. She takes a seat under the bunk and I look at it, "now how the hell am I supposed to get her all the way up there?" I ask myself while teasing her about her Detroit Lions gear (I'm a Miami Dolphins fan). After about 10 minutes I decide I should either make a move or get lost. So I tell her I've got to take off now and she gets up and gives me a hug. I figure it's now or never and peck her on the lips, she slides her lips off and buries her face into my shoulder, so I get her attention and suggest we kiss more and we begin to sloppily make out for about 15 seconds. I didn't know how to kiss a girl back then so this was a real shit show with me not sexily sucking on her lips but just kind of ramming my face into hers. I don't know what I'm doing and get a little scared and embarrassed and decide I should just give up and leave. So I lean back, smile at her and bid her farewell and open the door and walk out, I look back and saw the saddest sight I've ever seen, she was leaning against the door looking at me with longing eyes, I know now that she wanted me but I was just so chronically inexperienced that I didn't know what to do with a woman and gave up without trying. I beat myself up about this for weeks and was just so hard on myself it affected me negatively long after it happened.
She stopped responding to my texts after this and I just reasoned with myself that after that poor shitty let down of a night, she had no intention of being with a guy.. no a pussy like what I was. And slipped into a bit of a depression and just lifted heavy weights and treated some friends like shit to compensate.
A couple weeks later god handed me a horny girl on a silver platter who was VERY experienced with sex and basically taught me how to fuck and built my sexual confidence in one 2 hour session. I lost my virginity and regained confidence in myself and got in touch with my sexual side and viewed life a little differently and decided I should take another stab at R.
I texted R and to my surprise she responded, I asked how she was doing and suggested we catch up that weekend. She agreed telling me "We're gonna be on the floor, lol" because she just moved into her new place and had no furniture, just a blowup bed.
She flaked on the date that weekend and I offered her an excuse for why she flaked to help her save face and suggested we reschedule for the next weekend which actually came to pass.
Third Date
I drive 20 minutes over to her place through a light snowstorm and have to text her which apartment number she lives in, I find it and tell her I'm here. She steps out the apartment and I step out my Corolla and my jaw just dropped when I saw her, she looked amazing, wavy hair extensions, knee high boots, gray tights and a cute leather jacket, I wondered to myself if this was the same girl from a few months ago as she looked waaaay better than I remembered. I walked towards her and she stopped at her door and asked if I wanted to see inside, I walked in with her and it was a really cozy spacious place, just needed a bit of furnishing. There was a big screen TV on the floor and a blow up bed next to it.
After a brief tour of the upstairs area, she sits on the bed and I follow suit. I ask if I can take off my shoes, she says yes takes off her boots (she struggles a bit). We're about a foot apart from each other on the blowup and about 2 or 3 minutes has passed since we got in the place together; I make small talk about her job and what she'll do at college when she goes back next semester and 5 or 6 minutes in I start to feel this weird feeling that I haven't touched her yet and should do something so I tell her I want to lean on something and she throws a pillow in place for me to lay down. I do so and she lays a few inches from me, still no contact. I tell her to get closer to me and she puts her back next to my front and we lay together with my arms over her shoulder, my vision blocked from watching the TV.
I know i need to make a move at this point (10 minutes in), I'm laying in bed with this girl and need to do something, so I ask to see her nails and comment on them and hold her hand and put it on my lower stomach, then run my fingers through her extensions and tell her it looks so real. I ask to see her eyelashes and we lock eyes for a moment and that's all it took, she flipped over on top of me and wrapped her arms around me and looked at me and we started making out, she instantly gives me tongue and I just suck on her lips, the bottom then the top, nice and slowly, no more machine gun pecks like a wood pecker. I comment on how sweet her lips are then kiss her neck and shoulders.
I'm not sure on what to do here as the last girl I was with did all of the work in this instance so I just winged it. I told her I wanted her shirt off and pulled it off and I pulled mine off. I'm on top at this point and she looks at my chest and abs and feel them a bit and I comment on how in shape she is and she says she likes my body and I then suck her chest and nipples for a bit and she seems to like it, I can tell she's so chill that she won't show too much emotion in bed. Alternate grinding on her and sucking her chest and lips for a few minutes until she suggests we do more. I take off her tights and my jogger pants and we grind more intimately for a few minutes as I make suggestive comments while feeling her ass and shoulders and torso.
She grows impatient and asks if I'm hard enough, I am not but remove boxer briefs and she takes off her panties and I see a fucking forest down there (I'm well shaven) but decide to continue on and she gives me a quick hand job to get me hard enough. I grab my condom out of my jogger pants and open it and put it on (the right way this time, unlike last time) and she opens up her legs, grabs my dick and shoves it in and I begin thrusting. We go on for this for about 3 or 4 minutes and flip positions with her on top riding me and alternate every now and then. The blow up bed held up well, it flexed and made some whooshing noises as I was on top pounding her and shook and moved and hopped a bit which I think made if all the cooler.
She starts to moan and breath hard as I'm on top with her legs on my shoulders and I believe she comes at this point about 30 minutes into us getting in the apartment together and we fuck for a bit after that asking each other how our wet and warm members felt interlaced with each other. I've never had a blowjob before, I asked my last girl for one and she said she would never do it, I persist into a brick wall and get nothing. With R, I suggest she put her mouth on me and she says me first. So I look down into the black forest and notice a bit of a musty smell. Both of our sweat kind of pooled up in her hair and it smelled horrible, she just finished a shift at work and hadn't showered so was a bit dirty, I've never gone down on a girl so I just tried to ignore the smell and kissed from her nipples to above her clit (she gave me a brief anatomy lesson to find the clit) and damn, it stank and tasted funky but I ignored it and put my tongue on her clit and moved it around on it for 5 or 6 minutes until she suggested I stop. I don't know if I did good or not, she didn't come (or did silently as things did get more wet) and she proceeded to slobber all over my cock and suck it off while massaging my stones. Felt good.
We fuck for a bit more and I get her to show some emotion (she's definitely not passionate until she's really close) and then we decide that's it and I head upstairs to shower inviting her in with me, she agrees but doesn't come. I figure out her shower (no curtains in there) and bath and wipe off with her pink robe. I go back on the blowup bed and we make pillow talk and watch the Fantastic 4 and I kiss her a little as we cuddle. The movie climaxes and i decide that's it for now and kiss her and take off.
All in all a fun time here, sex felt good, she was fun and I learned a thing or two with her. Takeaways would just be that girls actually do like sex and want it to happen and will put in a bit of work to make it happen and that my ripped body is more attractive to girls than I thought. I've got to read an article on sex or something as I feel I could have been better in bed in terms of my thrust rhythm, getting the right angle and eating her out. But still, fun stuff though; you feel like a man when you make a girls blowup bed move a few inches.
-Josh
In mid December I was out meeting women at a nearby university with a high percentage of females to males (my university has a ratio of 1 female for every 5 males). I walked around engaging in some conversations with cute girls - got some rejections - got some numbers and kept it moving. At about approach 7 or 8, I was walking alongside the large pond and saw a fine black girl, roughly a 7 or an 8 walking over the bridge across it. I looked away from her to give her a chance to notice me consequence free and in my peripheral vision I noticed she did. So I looked her way and she looked away and walked away in a crowd of students. Naturally I jog over to her, get alongside her and a little ahead and turn to meet her:
We go into how she's not too sure right now what she's doing, a little art and a little graphic design but nothing too developed. I notice she's really disciplined, but in this laid back way, kind of like me and point it out to her and suggest that she must be an athlete and to my surprise, she's not but I'm still digging her vibe. After sharing a little about myself without anything particularly sexual said, (no touching either) and shooting the shit with her in general I decide to pull the trigger:
While trading, I ask when she's free and she gives me a time and I corroborate that it works for me and we part ways. I continue to rack up a couple more rejections and numbers then decide to call it a day and drive home.
I've lost the original texts as it's been a few months since I grabbed her number, but I remember she kept calling me "hubby" and "hun" in the messages which girls usually don't call me (unless they're interested I now notice).
The first two dates happened about 3 and a half months ago so I'll summarize them:
First Date
- At sunset, I arrive at her college and meet her under the same sign we chatted at and we make small talk about how she sat on a bench and it wet her ass up good. I open the door for her and we get inside my Corolla and drive over to Dairy Queen. My car is borderline a piece of shit and there's something loose in there that rattles when the engine is on or revving but I manage to make small talk with her about graphic design and her life on campus over the noise driving through the darkness.
This was my first date from cold approach so I didn't know what I was doing but just tried to wing it and play it cool. We get to the Dairy Queen and there's some other college kids around chatting and talking and I make small talk with her in line about what I normally get and what she normally gets, we both order and I pay for it all and we sit and chat for 45 minutes. We go into her past and how her parents split and she lived with her dad, then mom and got sick of her and moved out as a teen and bounced from friends house to friends house to get by and now is in college trying to figure this out as college is where people go to figure their life out... right? and I share about my sheltered life in Miami and my urges to leave that "Paradise" in search of something more.
After 45 minutes the conversation lulls and I get the feeling I need to do something, so I suggest we head back to her campus. We drive back and she asks me what I want to do now. I really don't know, but of course I try to be smooth and tell her I want to go somewhere and chill so she suggests the community center since there's some couches there. We head over and find a good spot with some TV's around and sit down, kind of spaced apart from each other... it just didn't feel right to be so far from my date so I suggested she come closer, she adjusted her hair, took off her glasses and leaned against my chest. My heart instantly begins to pound and her thigh is on mine and her hand close to my member which slowly starts to stand as I haven't had a girl this close to me in some time.
We watch some horror tv show for 10 minutes and I decide I should try to kiss her. My heart pounds more and after 6 or 7 minutes of deliberation, I thank her for giving me a good time and say " hey, give me a kiss" we plant one on each others lips and go back to watching, jackpot!
After this I decide I want to go someplace else and suggest her dorm, she tells me it's really small and a little dirty but I insist it's okay. We walk across campus to it and get to the door and there's some desk assistants there. She tells them that I'm a visitor and wants me to come with her but they refuse saying it's past visitor hours. Just like that my hopes of getting laid then and there vanish. She walks me back to my car and we hug, say goodbye and kiss once more.
That was my first date, ever.
After this she texts me telling me she had a great time with me and I respond telling her I enjoyed it too.
Second Date
This one was a shit show, the following weekend, I met her at her campus with no idea of what to do. I figured we could do something on campus but there was nothing to do, her roommate was sleeping in her room so we couldn't go there, my laptop couldn't connect to the wifi so we couldn't watch a movie on a couch. I was out of options, she suggested we watch a movie and I though that was a good idea but I didn't have any money. So I had to hop on my phone and call my big sister and tell her that I was on a date with a girl and needed some money to buy some movie tickets, my sister laughs telling me that I'm growing up finally and sends me 30 bucks.
We get to the AMC at the mall and while waiting in line, R's phone goes off and it's her mom. She tells her that she's out at the movies with a "good friend" who's taking her out and her mom makes her recap my whole approach and how we met. Kind of awkward to hear that as I wondered what "friend" could mean. I pay for the tickets and she gives me 5 dollars as she feels bad that I pay for everything but secretly I don't care about the cash, I'm just glad to spend time with a cute girl.
We cuddle together in the back of the theatre and after about 45 minutes my arm that's wrapped around her goes numb but I tough it out and give her a kiss telling her it's a good movie. After the movie we're walking out and she's ahead of me walking... in her black tights... and I'm just trying to figure out what it'll take to get in them. We use the bathroom then head back to campus and take off to her room, earlier her roommate was there so I'm kind of puzzled as to why we're going there but don't say a word as I remember her texting someone on the drive back.
She leads me through the maze of rooms and floors to her door and pull out a key and opens it and we're alone. But man, it was fucking tiny. Just two bunk beds each with a desk underneath and a small closet. And that was it. She takes a seat under the bunk and I look at it, "now how the hell am I supposed to get her all the way up there?" I ask myself while teasing her about her Detroit Lions gear (I'm a Miami Dolphins fan). After about 10 minutes I decide I should either make a move or get lost. So I tell her I've got to take off now and she gets up and gives me a hug. I figure it's now or never and peck her on the lips, she slides her lips off and buries her face into my shoulder, so I get her attention and suggest we kiss more and we begin to sloppily make out for about 15 seconds. I didn't know how to kiss a girl back then so this was a real shit show with me not sexily sucking on her lips but just kind of ramming my face into hers. I don't know what I'm doing and get a little scared and embarrassed and decide I should just give up and leave. So I lean back, smile at her and bid her farewell and open the door and walk out, I look back and saw the saddest sight I've ever seen, she was leaning against the door looking at me with longing eyes, I know now that she wanted me but I was just so chronically inexperienced that I didn't know what to do with a woman and gave up without trying. I beat myself up about this for weeks and was just so hard on myself it affected me negatively long after it happened.
She stopped responding to my texts after this and I just reasoned with myself that after that poor shitty let down of a night, she had no intention of being with a guy.. no a pussy like what I was. And slipped into a bit of a depression and just lifted heavy weights and treated some friends like shit to compensate.
A couple weeks later god handed me a horny girl on a silver platter who was VERY experienced with sex and basically taught me how to fuck and built my sexual confidence in one 2 hour session. I lost my virginity and regained confidence in myself and got in touch with my sexual side and viewed life a little differently and decided I should take another stab at R.
I texted R and to my surprise she responded, I asked how she was doing and suggested we catch up that weekend. She agreed telling me "We're gonna be on the floor, lol" because she just moved into her new place and had no furniture, just a blowup bed.
She flaked on the date that weekend and I offered her an excuse for why she flaked to help her save face and suggested we reschedule for the next weekend which actually came to pass.
Third Date
I drive 20 minutes over to her place through a light snowstorm and have to text her which apartment number she lives in, I find it and tell her I'm here. She steps out the apartment and I step out my Corolla and my jaw just dropped when I saw her, she looked amazing, wavy hair extensions, knee high boots, gray tights and a cute leather jacket, I wondered to myself if this was the same girl from a few months ago as she looked waaaay better than I remembered. I walked towards her and she stopped at her door and asked if I wanted to see inside, I walked in with her and it was a really cozy spacious place, just needed a bit of furnishing. There was a big screen TV on the floor and a blow up bed next to it.
After a brief tour of the upstairs area, she sits on the bed and I follow suit. I ask if I can take off my shoes, she says yes takes off her boots (she struggles a bit). We're about a foot apart from each other on the blowup and about 2 or 3 minutes has passed since we got in the place together; I make small talk about her job and what she'll do at college when she goes back next semester and 5 or 6 minutes in I start to feel this weird feeling that I haven't touched her yet and should do something so I tell her I want to lean on something and she throws a pillow in place for me to lay down. I do so and she lays a few inches from me, still no contact. I tell her to get closer to me and she puts her back next to my front and we lay together with my arms over her shoulder, my vision blocked from watching the TV.
I know i need to make a move at this point (10 minutes in), I'm laying in bed with this girl and need to do something, so I ask to see her nails and comment on them and hold her hand and put it on my lower stomach, then run my fingers through her extensions and tell her it looks so real. I ask to see her eyelashes and we lock eyes for a moment and that's all it took, she flipped over on top of me and wrapped her arms around me and looked at me and we started making out, she instantly gives me tongue and I just suck on her lips, the bottom then the top, nice and slowly, no more machine gun pecks like a wood pecker. I comment on how sweet her lips are then kiss her neck and shoulders.
I'm not sure on what to do here as the last girl I was with did all of the work in this instance so I just winged it. I told her I wanted her shirt off and pulled it off and I pulled mine off. I'm on top at this point and she looks at my chest and abs and feel them a bit and I comment on how in shape she is and she says she likes my body and I then suck her chest and nipples for a bit and she seems to like it, I can tell she's so chill that she won't show too much emotion in bed. Alternate grinding on her and sucking her chest and lips for a few minutes until she suggests we do more. I take off her tights and my jogger pants and we grind more intimately for a few minutes as I make suggestive comments while feeling her ass and shoulders and torso.
She grows impatient and asks if I'm hard enough, I am not but remove boxer briefs and she takes off her panties and I see a fucking forest down there (I'm well shaven) but decide to continue on and she gives me a quick hand job to get me hard enough. I grab my condom out of my jogger pants and open it and put it on (the right way this time, unlike last time) and she opens up her legs, grabs my dick and shoves it in and I begin thrusting. We go on for this for about 3 or 4 minutes and flip positions with her on top riding me and alternate every now and then. The blow up bed held up well, it flexed and made some whooshing noises as I was on top pounding her and shook and moved and hopped a bit which I think made if all the cooler.
She starts to moan and breath hard as I'm on top with her legs on my shoulders and I believe she comes at this point about 30 minutes into us getting in the apartment together and we fuck for a bit after that asking each other how our wet and warm members felt interlaced with each other. I've never had a blowjob before, I asked my last girl for one and she said she would never do it, I persist into a brick wall and get nothing. With R, I suggest she put her mouth on me and she says me first. So I look down into the black forest and notice a bit of a musty smell. Both of our sweat kind of pooled up in her hair and it smelled horrible, she just finished a shift at work and hadn't showered so was a bit dirty, I've never gone down on a girl so I just tried to ignore the smell and kissed from her nipples to above her clit (she gave me a brief anatomy lesson to find the clit) and damn, it stank and tasted funky but I ignored it and put my tongue on her clit and moved it around on it for 5 or 6 minutes until she suggested I stop. I don't know if I did good or not, she didn't come (or did silently as things did get more wet) and she proceeded to slobber all over my cock and suck it off while massaging my stones. Felt good.
We fuck for a bit more and I get her to show some emotion (she's definitely not passionate until she's really close) and then we decide that's it and I head upstairs to shower inviting her in with me, she agrees but doesn't come. I figure out her shower (no curtains in there) and bath and wipe off with her pink robe. I go back on the blowup bed and we make pillow talk and watch the Fantastic 4 and I kiss her a little as we cuddle. The movie climaxes and i decide that's it for now and kiss her and take off.
All in all a fun time here, sex felt good, she was fun and I learned a thing or two with her. Takeaways would just be that girls actually do like sex and want it to happen and will put in a bit of work to make it happen and that my ripped body is more attractive to girls than I thought. I've got to read an article on sex or something as I feel I could have been better in bed in terms of my thrust rhythm, getting the right angle and eating her out. But still, fun stuff though; you feel like a man when you make a girls blowup bed move a few inches.
-Josh
