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Frost

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Intro

It's been 2 weeks since I've moved to Paris to study for the next 2 years, and I'm staying in a huge international campus in paris that has many "houses" that represent different countries in the world.

The Approach

So after coming home from university in the afternoon I notice a cute girl sitting in the common room where people usually sit and chill, and she was alone on her phone. But I had to go to my room and come back to the front desk to ask them something. After finishing what I had to do I went into the common room. The girl looked at me and I said hi and sat on a different couch to check out something on my phone for like 30 seconds, then I went to her and asked for her name. As soon as she gave me hers she asked me my name too, and was clearly very happy that I approached her. So I sat next to her and we had a short conversation. She was very responsive and smiling with positive body language so I knew it was going well.

She told me she was in the room to get WiFi so that she can do her homework, and after a few minutes I told her that I will let her finish her work, and asked for her number so that we can do something soon. She happily agreed (first she said that she didn't have a french number yet, so I took her turkish number since she still has whatsapp on it) and after I got her number she told me to text her and I said goodbye and left.

She has a nice body and a pretty average face, but nevertheless I'm excited about making my first successful cold approach in Paris!
 
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Lucky

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Nice job Frost maybe when you get back you can teach me a bit of french :) anyway i wish you luck in Paris
 

Marcellus

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Yo Frost,

Nice work my man! You should have patted the seat next to you and told her to come and sit. Seems like she would have happily complied.

By the way, Why did you eject so early? It seems to me like you could have kept talking to her for even longer.

Other than that, very smooth approach and keep it up man.

Marcellus
 

Frost

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Thanks for the feedback guys!

Marcellus said:
By the way, Why did you eject so early? It seems to me like you could have kept talking to her for even longer.

Honestly it was because I felt the conversation running out (check out my question about running out of things to say) but it also just felt like the right time to take her number.
 
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