Recently a girl entered my social circle last week, but I thought she was attractive and made sure not to be slotted as a friend, and have barely talked to her besides introductions and some flirty banter.
She has initiated very brief texting conversations (2-4 texts) with me asking about how my night was and saying our social circle missed me when I wasn't there one night, and I took that as a sign of interest and asked her to hang out at my place for an "easy date" as chase calls it (the date that is just at your place).
She accepted. Most of the articles here talk about how to escalate assuming you pulled a girl to your place from some other event at a club or a bar (and therefore you have already been connecting with them), but she will just be coming to my place right off the bat and we haven't really gotten to know each other that well yet.
I'm assuming it's on though...girls don't just come over to your place as friends like this to my knowledge especially if we really don't know each other that well, right? What should be my process here? get past small talk/deep dive/connect and then escalate, or just escalate right away?
I suppose my concern is that the escalation window will close if I don't make a move, but it won't have been open in the first place if I don't get her comfortable enough with me first.
Many thanks in advance,
Clarity
She has initiated very brief texting conversations (2-4 texts) with me asking about how my night was and saying our social circle missed me when I wasn't there one night, and I took that as a sign of interest and asked her to hang out at my place for an "easy date" as chase calls it (the date that is just at your place).
She accepted. Most of the articles here talk about how to escalate assuming you pulled a girl to your place from some other event at a club or a bar (and therefore you have already been connecting with them), but she will just be coming to my place right off the bat and we haven't really gotten to know each other that well yet.
I'm assuming it's on though...girls don't just come over to your place as friends like this to my knowledge especially if we really don't know each other that well, right? What should be my process here? get past small talk/deep dive/connect and then escalate, or just escalate right away?
I suppose my concern is that the escalation window will close if I don't make a move, but it won't have been open in the first place if I don't get her comfortable enough with me first.
Many thanks in advance,
Clarity
