First date ideas, not a whole lot of options

[randy__bobandy]

Short version: Girl is very into me. She lives in the apartment building next to mine. There are a few bars, but nothing like a chill coffee shop or anything. Not sure what I should do.

Long version: So I matched with this girl Whitney on Tinder. She must think I'm super attractive because when she passed me, she pulled her friend aside saying "omg, you've got to see this guy!" How do I know this? Because her friend is my roommate's (Barry's) girlfriend Mary. So naturally, anything that Whitney asks about me will eventually be relayed to Mary, to Barry, to me. Mary said that I'm an awesome guy and I guess sung a few praises. Mary tells me that Whitney was asking about some details on my personal life, like do I work out, and wanted to know my last name to check me out on FB. I initially declined to give my last name because 1) I like toying with Mary, and 2) I like to keep the air of mystery about me, hoping it would heighten Whitney's excitement. Mary then simply cheated and looked me up on Barry's facebook friends list.

I texted her saying we should hang out this weekend. We set up for Sunday sometime after 8PM. I usually like to go to a low-key quiet place, like coffee or something where we can just sit and talk. But there aren't any places like that around us. There are a couple of bar/lounges around that have live music, but I'd like to save the alcohol for my or her place. What do you guys suggest?

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Also, I'm a bit rusty on my game since my research lab restricts me to the same office from 9-5 in a basement with little, if any, time for socializing. Is there a page on GC that has like a last-minute checklist of stuff to make sure you remember?

 

[Troy]

Hey Randy,

I haven't seen a template on here. Though you should read the articles on date compression, asking her out, and simplifying dates. If finding a good place to go is a problem do something simple.

1) Have a clean apartment/house
2) Go buy a bottle of liquor (optional) and snacks (chocolate is good)
3) Meet her at or outside a shop
4) Go for a walk with her. Keep the conversation flirty. Get her laughing
5) Take her home. First thing you do is take off your shoes and tell her to do the same
6) Ask her if she wants a drink. If she says no, still get yourself a drink
7) Slowly escalate on her. And use lots of push pull. Kiss her then push her away. She will get confused. Remember one step backward and two steps forward. Be the first to push her away. If she does something you like then pull her back in.
8) Keep flirting with her, kissing her all over, taking breaks when she resists then go back and be more dominant.

After all that you'll more than likely get sex and that's your date bro! Afterwards you can get food together or chill.

All the best. I hope all your questions are answered.

Troy

 

[jdoc]

I think if you invited the Tinder girl over to yours in a cool discrete way, that could well, given how into you she is! Are their any nearby places in which you can get some juice? You could probably grab some and have a seat in a nearby grassy area. If all is well, then take her back to yours

 

[randy__bobandy]

Thanks for the replies guys, but I went with Drexel's recommendation. Had her over, shared a bottle of wine, went to my room, badda bing, badda boom.