FR First date in 3 months

[thedude]

So I meet this chick at a coffee shop. We get there and she is making comments about the place, how creepy it is which is somewhat annoying, it's a cool place.

Anyway we banter for a while, I let slip that I'm in a fraternity and now she's starts joking about how I'm a frat guy and she can't trust me.

Some things in particular, she wouldn't sit next to me until I physically pulled her over to my couch(maybe went overboard here).

Her personaility was to make funny comments or jabs at me which I like. At one point I put my legs on top of hers and get comfortable.

She then starts saying how I need to hit the gym because I'm small. My first response is lame as fuck "why do you hurt me so " Then I say "I'm made of steel though". I think both equally suck lol

At some point we get onto the topic of her doing acting in high school. She tells me how she did this play blah blah, - I ask if she was scared and she looks at me and says no because she's not a pussy.

I say o really... moment of silence and I try to kiss her. She moves her face away and immediately after heads to the bathroom.

She comes back and says she has to get going because of school work blah blah. We chat on the way back and part ways.

I sent her a text saying "nice seeing you tonight Saba", no response and I don't think I'll get one.

Her personaildity was to make funny comments or jabs at me which I like. At one point I put my legs on top of hers and get comfortable. erform on dates. Might have one lined up for tomorrow though and definitely saturday.

 

[Smurf]

Yo CJ, nice date bruh!

Sounds like shit test after shit test that you didn't pass. Seems from what you wrote that she was challenging/screening the shit out of you and didn't hear the responses she wanted to hear. That's the biggest thing I'm seeing here. Someone correct me if I'm off:

We get there and she is making comments about the place, how creepy it is which is somewhat annoying, it's a cool place.

Sound like a shit test.

And here,

Her personaility was to make funny comments or jabs at me

Here.

he then starts saying how I need to hit the gym because I'm small.

Better response I think would be a smirk and looking off a bit.

she wouldn't sit next to me until I physically pulled her over to my couch(maybe went overboard here).

Did she seem more or less comfortable than before after you did this?

At some point we get onto the topic of her doing acting in high school. She tells me how she did this play blah blah, - I ask if she was scared and she looks at me and says no because she's not a pussy.

To me here it sounds like she's screening hard for a guy who "isn't a pussy" or in other words is a dominating sexy guy, perferably cocky asshole.

Sounds like tests you didn't pass to me, but otherwise, good shit going for the kiss anyways dude! Keep getting dates man!

Jake.

 

[thedude]

She was always far away from, not trying to get closer at all.

And ya, it wasn't that I cared about her shit-tests or what she said, I just didn't know how to respond.

I'll make adjustments for the next date