Hey everyone,
I feel a bit awkward asking this (I usually just do all the research and figure out everything for myself) but I'm not exactly sure how to approach this. Recently, I've started asking out girls who I've known in school but never had the courage to actually ask them out.
I asked one girl out yesterday and I was surprised she agreed almost immediately. Thing is, I was chasing her a bit last year but she became quite cold to me so I just stopped. There were even times where I was talking to her on Facebook and without warning she would log off or stop talking to me. Yesterday, she decided to pick up on a conversation we started two months ago and after 10-15 minutes of catching up, she had hinted that she wanted to watch the new Twilight movie with me and some of our mutual friends. Obviously, I shut down her idea quickly since that would just be a terrible idea (we also don't really have any mutual friends per se) and proposed a meet up downtown instead a week from now. We exchanged digits and I told her I'll let her know of an alternative.
Now my question is - what should my dating template be? I was thinking of just getting some coffee and maybe walk around (Yeah I'm pretty clueless at this type of thing). I don't know if it's a good idea to invite her home since we're going to meet up at 2 in the afternoon. I had just read the good date/bad date post and I want to incorporate the 5 C's rule. It seems to me like she really wants to watch Twilight but I read somewhere else on this blog that it's a bad idea to agree to her requests when going on dates and that I should make the decisions. However, I also read that I should help her feel included in the decision-making process. Yeah, I don't really know what I should do...
I feel a bit awkward asking this (I usually just do all the research and figure out everything for myself) but I'm not exactly sure how to approach this. Recently, I've started asking out girls who I've known in school but never had the courage to actually ask them out.
I asked one girl out yesterday and I was surprised she agreed almost immediately. Thing is, I was chasing her a bit last year but she became quite cold to me so I just stopped. There were even times where I was talking to her on Facebook and without warning she would log off or stop talking to me. Yesterday, she decided to pick up on a conversation we started two months ago and after 10-15 minutes of catching up, she had hinted that she wanted to watch the new Twilight movie with me and some of our mutual friends. Obviously, I shut down her idea quickly since that would just be a terrible idea (we also don't really have any mutual friends per se) and proposed a meet up downtown instead a week from now. We exchanged digits and I told her I'll let her know of an alternative.
Now my question is - what should my dating template be? I was thinking of just getting some coffee and maybe walk around (Yeah I'm pretty clueless at this type of thing). I don't know if it's a good idea to invite her home since we're going to meet up at 2 in the afternoon. I had just read the good date/bad date post and I want to incorporate the 5 C's rule. It seems to me like she really wants to watch Twilight but I read somewhere else on this blog that it's a bad idea to agree to her requests when going on dates and that I should make the decisions. However, I also read that I should help her feel included in the decision-making process. Yeah, I don't really know what I should do...