First date set, but concerns...

[ocantu1987]

I finally got my first date since 2008 haha wow! I got a few concerns though, girlschase teaches to bed women on the first date, but what if you don't want to do that because you think a girl is sweet?

this girl i met seems like such a sweet girl and I feel having sex with her on the first date is wrong haha. Wouldn't mind making her my GF if she turns out not to be a psycho.

 

[Ryan]

I don't think GC teaches you HAVE TO bed her on the first date. It's not a totally unbreakable rule, but it's just something Chase wants you to aim for.

If you don't feel comfortable going for first date sex, and it doesn't seem natural to progress to that stage, then at least give a good, sexy impression for the first date to set-up the second date so you can hit the ground running.

Though you should really be having sex with her on the second date. If it still seems awkward to proceed, gradually decrease your investment from there (if she doesn't want to by the third date, you're wasting your time as a 'lover' and you're in 'boyfriend' territory at most. Something Chase doesn't encourage).

Hope this helps,

ryan

 

[ocantu1987]

changed my mind, will do my best to escalate tonight, wish me luck!