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FR: First "Day" Game in Ages
So I've been saying to myself that i would do some day game for a while now and my first attempt came when i was on the tube one evening after having gone to the pub. I'm not sure if this counts as day game but it was a cold approach in a public area. Would appreciate any feedback on my process because i kind of just winged it and haven't done much of this before so if there is anything i could do to improve let me know!
I clocked a relatively pretty girl and went in the tube and sat down next to her. I grabbed a newspaper and flicked through it absentmindedly for a couple of seconds. I then get to an article i found might be quite interesting to lay a objectively sexual frame on.
We chat a bit more before my stops comes along. I stand up and tell here it was very nice to meet her. As luck would have it its her stop too. Perfect situation to deplo a chase frame!
We banter a bit more and she agrees to get her shopping with me.
During shopping i make some light jokes about the state of modern society by taking the piss out of the hash tag phenomenon. Something like saying #(something stupid). I was hoping this would be a bit of an us versus the world frame because I' m joking about society and she found it relatively funny, but this may also be defusing sexual tension so its a double edged sword.
We then start walking along the road and we must live very close! I use another chase fame:
The way she said we must part made me think she was THINKING about us hooking up or at least going back to mine. This was an interesting moment for me because i considered that if i was more advanced i would have tried to pull her back to my house 15 minutes into a day game approach. Which is still pretty mind boggling.
Anyway she got to her street and stopped saying that she lived down there. Waiting for my response. I probably could have kissed her but i just stuck with a number close.
The next day I didn't use an icebreaker. Went straight to the point.
Unfortunately i never got a response. O well! I number closed on my first day game interaction in almost a year and it made me appreciate the possibilities of doing it more often. Other takeaways include:
+Was pretty drunk (need to try this sober)
+Was lucky we lived so near each other
+Situation (non-direct) works better where i live i believe
+I relied on my fundamentals to be sexual and wasn't too explicitly sexual in the interaction, how does this compare with other peoples approach?
Feedback welcome.
So I've been saying to myself that i would do some day game for a while now and my first attempt came when i was on the tube one evening after having gone to the pub. I'm not sure if this counts as day game but it was a cold approach in a public area. Would appreciate any feedback on my process because i kind of just winged it and haven't done much of this before so if there is anything i could do to improve let me know!
I clocked a relatively pretty girl and went in the tube and sat down next to her. I grabbed a newspaper and flicked through it absentmindedly for a couple of seconds. I then get to an article i found might be quite interesting to lay a objectively sexual frame on.
We chat a bit more before my stops comes along. I stand up and tell here it was very nice to meet her. As luck would have it its her stop too. Perfect situation to deplo a chase frame!
We banter a bit more and she agrees to get her shopping with me.
During shopping i make some light jokes about the state of modern society by taking the piss out of the hash tag phenomenon. Something like saying #(something stupid). I was hoping this would be a bit of an us versus the world frame because I' m joking about society and she found it relatively funny, but this may also be defusing sexual tension so its a double edged sword.
We then start walking along the road and we must live very close! I use another chase fame:
The way she said we must part made me think she was THINKING about us hooking up or at least going back to mine. This was an interesting moment for me because i considered that if i was more advanced i would have tried to pull her back to my house 15 minutes into a day game approach. Which is still pretty mind boggling.
Anyway she got to her street and stopped saying that she lived down there. Waiting for my response. I probably could have kissed her but i just stuck with a number close.
The next day I didn't use an icebreaker. Went straight to the point.
Text: Hello "Bridget" or whatever your fake name was. It's HipHop. I enjoyed our little conversation yesterday and think we should continue it sometime over a drink. When are you free? X
Unfortunately i never got a response. O well! I number closed on my first day game interaction in almost a year and it made me appreciate the possibilities of doing it more often. Other takeaways include:
+Was pretty drunk (need to try this sober)
+Was lucky we lived so near each other
+Situation (non-direct) works better where i live i believe
+I relied on my fundamentals to be sexual and wasn't too explicitly sexual in the interaction, how does this compare with other peoples approach?
Feedback welcome.
