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Hello All,
My name is Cook and I started my first day of transforming myself into the man that I want to be. To let you guys know I am a beginner but not to unfamiliar with girls. I have always been with a girl from elementary to high school. It wasn't till college that I knew I had a problem. See there have always been girls in my life but I feel it is because of how I look or my status at some point during school. I on the outside appear to be a handsom guy who knows what he is doing when it comes to women. However, I know on the inside that this could not be farther from the truth. I have developed a pretty bad case of approach anxiety from not having to approach women all of my life. Most of the girls that I have been with almost always throw themselves at me. With me being an introvert for the most part they never really even get to know the real me. These girls too me just like what they see until they realize after the sex and a car to ride in. I don't really have much else to offer them. Well to keep it short lets just say I wanna be able to hold a conversation turn a woman on and have her chasing me for me. So I have been studying up on GC and well here I am.
Day 1
For the first day of my transformation from dunce to suave I have set out to talk to more girls whenever and however I can. I try to not focus on the content so much right now and just want to get down the approach along with a good opener. Today my first stop once I got off work was Walmart where I saw a handful of good looking women that I would like to get to know. Once I entered the building I immediately see a cute Caucasian girl (Im black by the way if that matters lol) in a sundress who was showing off all of the right curves. I went to approach while she was coming out of line as I was coming into the store. I tried to pull off a half decent smile and then just froze. I couldn't think of anything to say. This made me quite angry at myself. If I am going to do something I must do it at one hundred percent is what I told myself at the time. So I walk the store as I was looking for some stuff around the store. Constantly keeping an eye out for potential prospects to approach. This is when I see another cute Caucasian girl with blonde hair tied up in a bun with what seemed to be here work attire that was just a little bit to tight. She was pretty good looking, so I thought to myself this is it. My chance came around again. Once I spotted her I made sure to circle around so that when I walked up it would be face to face. I come around the corner see her and then poof. I freeze again. She was just too gorgeous, I thought that there was no way she would be into me. Even though my mission was not to get these girls into me I still didn't approach. ( AA is a bitch).
I left Walmart in search of greener pastures since to me it felt like I couldn't accomplish anything more than shopping here. I headed to an outdoor shopping mall down the street just to see what was out there since it is not far. I get there and soon see a girl who seems to be mid twenty's walking my way. She may have been the best looking girl I have seen all day. The main thing that concerned me once I spotted her was that she had the biggest frown coming across her face. And to be honest I may have been checking her out kind of hard which I am sure she noticed. She was walking at a pretty fast pace when I realized and the words just couldn't seem to come out. At this point I am ready to punch myself in the face. It just seemed like I would never be able to approach a girl. Then I just told myself that I can do anything just keep trying. I begin to circle the block a few times when I see two girls who seemed more on the punk side of life. One of the girls really caught my eye with thick thighs, sensual lips, and a ass out of this world I had to say something to her. As the two where heading out I approach and finallly say, " Hey how are you guys doing?" The girls look at each other and giggle then both reply with good. At the moment I deliver the line I think to myself these girls look kind of young minus the body but in the face. So the next question I ask is how old are you guys? This is when the cute one replies with we are 16. I tell the girls goodbye and walk away. There was nothing else to be said there. I tell myself to do one more approach before I leave and I will at least have some experiences to reflect on and try and get better. I walk up to the park in the middle of the mall when I see a beautiful brunette in a cute green dress whose had the nicest pair of breast that I have seen in a while. As I spot her she notices me and quickly turns her head the other way. I really didn't mind it at this point I had my goal set on approaching. I pick my nutts up and walk over and say, " Hey your kinda cute." She replies with a snicker and a, "Thanks." While never missing a beat and keeps on walking leaving me standing there looking like a DA. I was still proud of myself for doing it though. Just seems that there are fundamentals I need to work on.
If anyone has anything that they can point out to me to help out please do. It will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks all,
Cook
My name is Cook and I started my first day of transforming myself into the man that I want to be. To let you guys know I am a beginner but not to unfamiliar with girls. I have always been with a girl from elementary to high school. It wasn't till college that I knew I had a problem. See there have always been girls in my life but I feel it is because of how I look or my status at some point during school. I on the outside appear to be a handsom guy who knows what he is doing when it comes to women. However, I know on the inside that this could not be farther from the truth. I have developed a pretty bad case of approach anxiety from not having to approach women all of my life. Most of the girls that I have been with almost always throw themselves at me. With me being an introvert for the most part they never really even get to know the real me. These girls too me just like what they see until they realize after the sex and a car to ride in. I don't really have much else to offer them. Well to keep it short lets just say I wanna be able to hold a conversation turn a woman on and have her chasing me for me. So I have been studying up on GC and well here I am.
Day 1
For the first day of my transformation from dunce to suave I have set out to talk to more girls whenever and however I can. I try to not focus on the content so much right now and just want to get down the approach along with a good opener. Today my first stop once I got off work was Walmart where I saw a handful of good looking women that I would like to get to know. Once I entered the building I immediately see a cute Caucasian girl (Im black by the way if that matters lol) in a sundress who was showing off all of the right curves. I went to approach while she was coming out of line as I was coming into the store. I tried to pull off a half decent smile and then just froze. I couldn't think of anything to say. This made me quite angry at myself. If I am going to do something I must do it at one hundred percent is what I told myself at the time. So I walk the store as I was looking for some stuff around the store. Constantly keeping an eye out for potential prospects to approach. This is when I see another cute Caucasian girl with blonde hair tied up in a bun with what seemed to be here work attire that was just a little bit to tight. She was pretty good looking, so I thought to myself this is it. My chance came around again. Once I spotted her I made sure to circle around so that when I walked up it would be face to face. I come around the corner see her and then poof. I freeze again. She was just too gorgeous, I thought that there was no way she would be into me. Even though my mission was not to get these girls into me I still didn't approach. ( AA is a bitch).
I left Walmart in search of greener pastures since to me it felt like I couldn't accomplish anything more than shopping here. I headed to an outdoor shopping mall down the street just to see what was out there since it is not far. I get there and soon see a girl who seems to be mid twenty's walking my way. She may have been the best looking girl I have seen all day. The main thing that concerned me once I spotted her was that she had the biggest frown coming across her face. And to be honest I may have been checking her out kind of hard which I am sure she noticed. She was walking at a pretty fast pace when I realized and the words just couldn't seem to come out. At this point I am ready to punch myself in the face. It just seemed like I would never be able to approach a girl. Then I just told myself that I can do anything just keep trying. I begin to circle the block a few times when I see two girls who seemed more on the punk side of life. One of the girls really caught my eye with thick thighs, sensual lips, and a ass out of this world I had to say something to her. As the two where heading out I approach and finallly say, " Hey how are you guys doing?" The girls look at each other and giggle then both reply with good. At the moment I deliver the line I think to myself these girls look kind of young minus the body but in the face. So the next question I ask is how old are you guys? This is when the cute one replies with we are 16. I tell the girls goodbye and walk away. There was nothing else to be said there. I tell myself to do one more approach before I leave and I will at least have some experiences to reflect on and try and get better. I walk up to the park in the middle of the mall when I see a beautiful brunette in a cute green dress whose had the nicest pair of breast that I have seen in a while. As I spot her she notices me and quickly turns her head the other way. I really didn't mind it at this point I had my goal set on approaching. I pick my nutts up and walk over and say, " Hey your kinda cute." She replies with a snicker and a, "Thanks." While never missing a beat and keeps on walking leaving me standing there looking like a DA. I was still proud of myself for doing it though. Just seems that there are fundamentals I need to work on.
If anyone has anything that they can point out to me to help out please do. It will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks all,
Cook
