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Last night I went to the Tuesday night college spot in town. I went with a gay male friend who is thus far the best wingman I've ever had. I'm used to short interactions with the first couple girls before getting into a groove. Not the case last night. We started out early, and two cute girls were sitting at a table nearby. I approached, opened them up, got some interest ramped up, then dipped. I love building up intrigue then bouncing and reopening later, it makes convo flow really well. After getting another drink and joking with my friend about the people there, I went back to introduce my friend to the girls since I forgot the blonde's name. The blonde was the party girl, and seemed really into me, but I'm just way more attracted to brunettes. The brunette was fit, large breasts, and a triangular shaped jaw. We chatted with them for about an hour, and I built decent compliance with my girl while my friend side-tracked the blonde. I congratulated the brunette on her goal to only drink one drink an hour and even restricted her from drinking a drink she got for 20 minutes until the hour was up. The blonde went to the bathroom, and I isolated the brunette outside. We joked about using her breasts to seduce the bartender to get us drinks next since there was a big line.
Then she dipped out shortly after. I was attempting to make eye contact with the bartender to get drinks, maybe 10 seconds goes by without convo, and she turned around and dipped. My sticking point I believe was keeping or driving the conversation more sexual. At that point in the convo, she was quite comfortable, rubbing her hips on my pelvic region. This has been a sticking point for me for some time. My sexual innuendos and conversation don't always come out sounding sexual at all, or I just don't go for it. I saw the brunette talking with her friends later and I could see from her body language showed that I missed the escalation window and progressing further would appear to be chasing.
That's what I'm going to work on next time I go out. Getting sexual convos started. I've read the articles here, but never found out any that help me in practice. If anyone has any tips, I'm all ears!
Then she dipped out shortly after. I was attempting to make eye contact with the bartender to get drinks, maybe 10 seconds goes by without convo, and she turned around and dipped. My sticking point I believe was keeping or driving the conversation more sexual. At that point in the convo, she was quite comfortable, rubbing her hips on my pelvic region. This has been a sticking point for me for some time. My sexual innuendos and conversation don't always come out sounding sexual at all, or I just don't go for it. I saw the brunette talking with her friends later and I could see from her body language showed that I missed the escalation window and progressing further would appear to be chasing.
That's what I'm going to work on next time I go out. Getting sexual convos started. I've read the articles here, but never found out any that help me in practice. If anyone has any tips, I'm all ears!
