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Girl #1:
So on Monday night there was an introduction party in my university. I go there, have a couple beers (I drink nothing when I'm only out to game, but I allow myself some if I'm with friends in a major event). I spot lots of cute as fuck new freshmen walking around but they're all in big social groups already. I invite one of my wings to join me, and we walk towards the main stage with another female classmate as a chick wing. As we're just dancing and having a good time, my friend takes out his phone to take a selfie of our classmates and a nearby girl just lets herself fall on me as I'm leaning back for the picture. So I grab her by the waist and make a funny face. After we take a couple of pics, I push her off playfully and then get her close to me to whisper in her ears "Do you photobomb often?" with a smirk. It's like nowadays I know in 1 second if a girl is receptive, with a combination of doe eyes, posture, if she's holding me back and other things. So I knew she was into me. We start dancing together, and I kiss her about 15 seconds lates. We make out for a minute while dancing, and grind a bit. Then I lead her to get more drinks together, and that's my favorite excuse to get fresh air and move away from the loud crowd. We sit down on a bench and I talk with her a bit about who she is and what she's doing, not really a deep dive as she's too tipsy and high energy for that. But I keep being playful and put her legs over mine and we kiss sporadically in the conversation. So I remember the technique "Baby step your way into the pull" and I propose to her, "let's go sit by the pond". Which is 50 meters to where we were but the important thing was we had to leave the festival/party borders to get to it. She resists a bit saying "I came with friends" and I tell her to text her friends goodbye and that she'll see them again. Then she says she needs to pee, so I take her to the restroom and wait outside. When she comes out she sees her classmates and of course guys seeing this girl "in state" start talking to her, first I let her do her thing but she's too inexperienced/drunk to eject herself so after talking to her female classmates I build some basic rapport with the guy she's talking with and later on tell him "Hey man we're going to get some drinks but it was nice talking to you!" while I grab my girl and head back to get some last round of drinks, this time I take soda and advise her to do the same. So I spend some 20 to 30 minutes slowly walking with her to the outside of the festival and talking about random shit in the meantime to extract her. Literally baby stepping my way. And finally we go out of the festival, but then she says she has to pee again, so I say I know of a close place
And then after walking for a couple of minutes she says "I know you want to take me home but I don't want to go, let's just go back to the festival and I'll go to the bathroom there". I persist calmly but in the end we agree that first we'll go to the festival, use the bathroom and then head back to my place right after.
Thankfully, they didn't allow us to enter back into the festival. So I pulled her to me and told her to walk fast as I knew the closes damn bathroom she could find. The next 15 minutes was just typical light banter and fun conversation as we walked back to my place. But god damn there were drunk guys everywhere and this girl would respond to the random bullshit questions that they would ask... But I kept on leading and thinking in my head that if a random guy tried to mug us/ mess up my pull I would tear his fucking head off at the end. She's almost peeing her pants as we enter my room and BAM, my fucking roommate brought home a guy that night and someone is using the bathroom. 99% of the time the bathroom is free at midnight...but everything was working against me that night. Finally she goes to the bathroom and comes back to my room and we start making out again. I open some music but then she stops and says "I know what you're trying to do, but I don't want to have sex tonight" and I say "No, girl. We can NOT have sex tonight, I'm on my period!". And she starts cracking up at that and continues kissing me. I tell her that she can sleep over when she starts talking about how early she has to wake up and stuff... I should have also told her that dirty jeans weren't allowed in my bed, but didn't dare to this time. But after I turn the lights off I start escalating and take her bra and my shirt off. But everytime I'd get close to her pussy she'd stop me. I tried different tactics, pattern interrupts and stuff but after 3 times I slowly stopped and we spooned. I assumed that I could just shatter through LMR in the morning. But I got the same resistance in the morning, even as I did 2 steps forward 1 back. And even giving her a massage. At the end we had breakfast together and I kissed her goodbye. I tried every technique and mindset I knew with her, but she's recently 18 and seemed to be very inexperienced. I'll see what comes of it later, but I'm happy that I was able to take a girl I met at night directly home FINALLY. Those of you who live in normal cities/college towns might think this is nothing unusual but if you saw the fierce competition due to the overwhelmingly large majority of guys in my technical university, you'd understand what I'm talking about.
Girl #2:
So this girl I met last Saturday at a nice hipster bar. I had done zero opens that night and I think it was the first girl I "negged" without realizing it. Haha. I told her that her blouse looked beautiful, so she smiled, then I added it reminded me of my grandma. And she started laughing but trying to look mad, so I added that in a good way and that it looked hand-crafted, rather than mass-produced crap. And I really don't use open girls with negative stuff, nor do I plan before what I say to them, so I guess she saw how genuine and honest my words were. Or simply, acting like a dick is fun too. After I role played with her a bit (since she's studying medicine, I told her I need her for my army and she can be the medic, bla bla, she loves Game of Thrones, so I add a bit of fantasy), if a girl plays along with my roleplays it's 90% guaranteed that I get a date. And besides, I enjoy girls who have a sense of humor. Then since this is my first open of the night, I feel like I'm coming off a bit unpolished and thinking I should eject. But then I realize how retarded that would be, so I tell myself there's nothing to lose so I tell her, "You know, I think my friend is a bit drunk, I've got to get going and find him". BAM her underlying aloofness melts away, she subtly holds onto me and her body turns to me, and I can feel her breasts brushing up on me. At that moment I knew I had to propose the date, since she was there with 3 friends and I knew I couldn't pull that night. I said "let's get some drinks sometime" and she enthousiastically said "yes" so I set the day and time and exchanged numbers, I then hugged her goodbye and left.
Yesterday I met up with her in the city, then took her to my favorite spot by the lake as the sun was setting. I deep dive her for an hour or so, and I kiss her passionately. Now it's pretty dark so I take her hand and tell her "let's go and watch the stars!". I just lead her and she follows, well, until 10 minutes into our bike ride, then she says: "where exactly are we going?" I say to the rooftop. I avoid mentioning words such as "my home, place, room" like the plague. And then I first take her to my room, and kiss her there, then we head to the roof, but alas, the maintenance workers have locked the door there so we head back to my balcony and kiss there and watch the stars a bit. 5 mins later I take her to my bed and start kissing her everywhere, neck, belly etc. I undress her so she's only got her shorts and I've got my pants on. I get her really turned on and she starts kissing my neck and my body, I thought all was going well, and she would finally not take my hand away when I would massage her pussy from the outside and I'd take her hand to stroke my cock. But 10 minutes later she stops and asks the time... I tell her what time it is and she says she's got to wake up at 6. I respond that I also have to get up early and that we could have an early breakfast together and she says "no" with a teasing smile. I persist calmly and playfully... trying everything technique I knew. As I knew that she wanted to stay. I told her, I know you want to and she said "but I'm not going to" So I told her that friends, family, and life could interfere and heck an asteroid could wipe us off before our next meet up, but she replied with "Oh, that'd be too bad for you", so I had a 'bitch please' look on my face, and she broke under the pressure and admitted she enjoyed the time too. So we kissed passionately at the end again and she left to sleep at home. I mean I haven't written all the small things I did and ways I persisted here because it would be boring, but I really didn't want to "let her go", especially because deep down she wanted to stay too. But I couldn't just shout at her and said, "nope, you're not going anywhere", as I didn't want to sound creepy or turning the situation confrontational. This DEFINITELY wasn't being coy or light resistence or anything, I wonder if she felt self conscious about having sex that night because I noticed she hadn't shaved her armpits recently and from what I could see her panties weren't "extra sexy" or something. I don't know...
I don't care. I'm not a lucky guy. I never get girls just by "going out" in this city. There are 90% dudes in my department but I don't care. I make my own fucking luck. I'm going on another date today, and I'm going to escalate with her too. Either I die an old crazy man that could barely take women (properly) as lovers or I find my way through this shit.
I appreciate if you read through this, and I'd like any tips and advice.
So on Monday night there was an introduction party in my university. I go there, have a couple beers (I drink nothing when I'm only out to game, but I allow myself some if I'm with friends in a major event). I spot lots of cute as fuck new freshmen walking around but they're all in big social groups already. I invite one of my wings to join me, and we walk towards the main stage with another female classmate as a chick wing. As we're just dancing and having a good time, my friend takes out his phone to take a selfie of our classmates and a nearby girl just lets herself fall on me as I'm leaning back for the picture. So I grab her by the waist and make a funny face. After we take a couple of pics, I push her off playfully and then get her close to me to whisper in her ears "Do you photobomb often?" with a smirk. It's like nowadays I know in 1 second if a girl is receptive, with a combination of doe eyes, posture, if she's holding me back and other things. So I knew she was into me. We start dancing together, and I kiss her about 15 seconds lates. We make out for a minute while dancing, and grind a bit. Then I lead her to get more drinks together, and that's my favorite excuse to get fresh air and move away from the loud crowd. We sit down on a bench and I talk with her a bit about who she is and what she's doing, not really a deep dive as she's too tipsy and high energy for that. But I keep being playful and put her legs over mine and we kiss sporadically in the conversation. So I remember the technique "Baby step your way into the pull" and I propose to her, "let's go sit by the pond". Which is 50 meters to where we were but the important thing was we had to leave the festival/party borders to get to it. She resists a bit saying "I came with friends" and I tell her to text her friends goodbye and that she'll see them again. Then she says she needs to pee, so I take her to the restroom and wait outside. When she comes out she sees her classmates and of course guys seeing this girl "in state" start talking to her, first I let her do her thing but she's too inexperienced/drunk to eject herself so after talking to her female classmates I build some basic rapport with the guy she's talking with and later on tell him "Hey man we're going to get some drinks but it was nice talking to you!" while I grab my girl and head back to get some last round of drinks, this time I take soda and advise her to do the same. So I spend some 20 to 30 minutes slowly walking with her to the outside of the festival and talking about random shit in the meantime to extract her. Literally baby stepping my way. And finally we go out of the festival, but then she says she has to pee again, so I say I know of a close place
And then after walking for a couple of minutes she says "I know you want to take me home but I don't want to go, let's just go back to the festival and I'll go to the bathroom there". I persist calmly but in the end we agree that first we'll go to the festival, use the bathroom and then head back to my place right after. Thankfully, they didn't allow us to enter back into the festival. So I pulled her to me and told her to walk fast as I knew the closes damn bathroom she could find. The next 15 minutes was just typical light banter and fun conversation as we walked back to my place. But god damn there were drunk guys everywhere and this girl would respond to the random bullshit questions that they would ask... But I kept on leading and thinking in my head that if a random guy tried to mug us/ mess up my pull I would tear his fucking head off at the end. She's almost peeing her pants as we enter my room and BAM, my fucking roommate brought home a guy that night and someone is using the bathroom. 99% of the time the bathroom is free at midnight...but everything was working against me that night. Finally she goes to the bathroom and comes back to my room and we start making out again. I open some music but then she stops and says "I know what you're trying to do, but I don't want to have sex tonight" and I say "No, girl. We can NOT have sex tonight, I'm on my period!". And she starts cracking up at that and continues kissing me. I tell her that she can sleep over when she starts talking about how early she has to wake up and stuff... I should have also told her that dirty jeans weren't allowed in my bed, but didn't dare to this time. But after I turn the lights off I start escalating and take her bra and my shirt off. But everytime I'd get close to her pussy she'd stop me. I tried different tactics, pattern interrupts and stuff but after 3 times I slowly stopped and we spooned. I assumed that I could just shatter through LMR in the morning. But I got the same resistance in the morning, even as I did 2 steps forward 1 back. And even giving her a massage. At the end we had breakfast together and I kissed her goodbye. I tried every technique and mindset I knew with her, but she's recently 18 and seemed to be very inexperienced. I'll see what comes of it later, but I'm happy that I was able to take a girl I met at night directly home FINALLY. Those of you who live in normal cities/college towns might think this is nothing unusual but if you saw the fierce competition due to the overwhelmingly large majority of guys in my technical university, you'd understand what I'm talking about.
Girl #2:
So this girl I met last Saturday at a nice hipster bar. I had done zero opens that night and I think it was the first girl I "negged" without realizing it. Haha. I told her that her blouse looked beautiful, so she smiled, then I added it reminded me of my grandma. And she started laughing but trying to look mad, so I added that in a good way and that it looked hand-crafted, rather than mass-produced crap. And I really don't use open girls with negative stuff, nor do I plan before what I say to them, so I guess she saw how genuine and honest my words were. Or simply, acting like a dick is fun too. After I role played with her a bit (since she's studying medicine, I told her I need her for my army and she can be the medic, bla bla, she loves Game of Thrones, so I add a bit of fantasy), if a girl plays along with my roleplays it's 90% guaranteed that I get a date. And besides, I enjoy girls who have a sense of humor. Then since this is my first open of the night, I feel like I'm coming off a bit unpolished and thinking I should eject. But then I realize how retarded that would be, so I tell myself there's nothing to lose so I tell her, "You know, I think my friend is a bit drunk, I've got to get going and find him". BAM her underlying aloofness melts away, she subtly holds onto me and her body turns to me, and I can feel her breasts brushing up on me. At that moment I knew I had to propose the date, since she was there with 3 friends and I knew I couldn't pull that night. I said "let's get some drinks sometime" and she enthousiastically said "yes" so I set the day and time and exchanged numbers, I then hugged her goodbye and left.
Yesterday I met up with her in the city, then took her to my favorite spot by the lake as the sun was setting. I deep dive her for an hour or so, and I kiss her passionately. Now it's pretty dark so I take her hand and tell her "let's go and watch the stars!". I just lead her and she follows, well, until 10 minutes into our bike ride, then she says: "where exactly are we going?" I say to the rooftop. I avoid mentioning words such as "my home, place, room" like the plague. And then I first take her to my room, and kiss her there, then we head to the roof, but alas, the maintenance workers have locked the door there so we head back to my balcony and kiss there and watch the stars a bit. 5 mins later I take her to my bed and start kissing her everywhere, neck, belly etc. I undress her so she's only got her shorts and I've got my pants on. I get her really turned on and she starts kissing my neck and my body, I thought all was going well, and she would finally not take my hand away when I would massage her pussy from the outside and I'd take her hand to stroke my cock. But 10 minutes later she stops and asks the time... I tell her what time it is and she says she's got to wake up at 6. I respond that I also have to get up early and that we could have an early breakfast together and she says "no" with a teasing smile. I persist calmly and playfully... trying everything technique I knew. As I knew that she wanted to stay. I told her, I know you want to and she said "but I'm not going to
" So I told her that friends, family, and life could interfere and heck an asteroid could wipe us off before our next meet up, but she replied with "Oh, that'd be too bad for you", so I had a 'bitch please' look on my face, and she broke under the pressure and admitted she enjoyed the time too. So we kissed passionately at the end again and she left to sleep at home. I mean I haven't written all the small things I did and ways I persisted here because it would be boring, but I really didn't want to "let her go", especially because deep down she wanted to stay too. But I couldn't just shout at her and said, "nope, you're not going anywhere", as I didn't want to sound creepy or turning the situation confrontational. This DEFINITELY wasn't being coy or light resistence or anything, I wonder if she felt self conscious about having sex that night because I noticed she hadn't shaved her armpits recently and from what I could see her panties weren't "extra sexy" or something. I don't know...I don't care. I'm not a lucky guy. I never get girls just by "going out" in this city. There are 90% dudes in my department but I don't care. I make my own fucking luck. I'm going on another date today, and I'm going to escalate with her too. Either I die an old crazy man that could barely take women (properly) as lovers or I find my way through this shit.
I appreciate if you read through this, and I'd like any tips and advice.
