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First Insta-Date. Damn wifi.

Kvothe

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So I was walking home, and I saw this gorgeous girl in a dress. For the longest time, I was sure that I would not approach her, but I decided fuck it, and went for it. Super glad I made the decision.

She was this german girl who had been in the city for about a week, and was leaving tomorrow back for Germany. I talked to her for a bit, and suggested we go grab a coffee, and she agrees. We walk over, and I'm deep diving her on stuff. She wants to go into fashion, and has wanted to ever since she was little. We go to the coffee place, and I get us some drinks. We sit side by side and talk for about an hour and half. Really nice conversation, I think we're really connecting. I'm touching her, and touch her legs too, which she's totally fine with. She touches me too. Her pupils are dilated as well. She tells me she needs to meet this person to get pictures from him for her instagram, and that they're meeting at night for her to get them. I suggest that she do that, and then meet me at my apartment for some wine, to which she eagerly agrees. The only issue is that she is international, and she uses whats app, and she has had trouble getting wifi. I know this, and for some reason, I trust that she'll find wifi, and she says so too. Looking back, I should have told her that we should meet at X landmark at 11 or 12, instead of relying on her to find wifi and get back to me. Super disappointed because I should have thought ahead. Next time.

Still, it was my first insta-date, and I think it went really well. Foreign girls/tourists respond fairly well to me, I think because I'm also well traveled. I'm also working on setting up some other dates this week.

If anyone has advice for these kinds of sticky situations where you meet a girl, and plan to meet her after she does some chores, and then getting her to come back, I would really appreciate it.

I know for a fact that the whats app messages did not get to her phone, so it's not that she's ignoring me, rather that wifi is cockblocking me.
 
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foggy

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Kvothe said:
I'm touching her, and touch her legs too, which she's totally fine with. She touches me too. Her pupils are dilated as well.

Sounds like she was horny here. I'm just wondering why you didn't bring her back to your place right then, instead of waiting till after she did her chores?

Good job on the insta-date and escalation though. You are doing well. :)
 

Kvothe

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@Backstory yeah I definitely should have moved faster, I just didn't realize she had chores until she told me, plus her coffee was still basically full so I thought it would be weird. She essentially gave me a 30 min heads up, so I didn't think that would be enough time for anything, so I thought planning for later would be better. Never again :/
 

Kvothe

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So the girl went back to Germany. I had sent a bunch of texts on the day she left trying to meet her before the flight, but that didn't happen. She added me on instagram (since she's an instagram model, I assume adding somebody else is a good sign). I sent her a message yesterday asking how she found my instagram, and she sent me a 51 second voice message. I sent her back this as a reply:

"That's the most unique way I've ever gotten a message :) Glad you're settling back into things well! The Instagram will make it easier for sure to tell if we're ever in the same place (I'm sure that's why you added me ;) )-hopefully it will happen :)"

Not sure whether I should have sent a voice message back or what, or whether this means that I could still have a shot in the future. She travels a lot, so she may end up in the same city as me again someday, so that would be nice. Not really expecting much, but I'm feeling more regret than anything else at my mess up by not inviting her home.

Just curious on others' opinion on this last part of the interaction, and see what the mixed text signals mean.

Thanks,

Kvothe
 
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