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I had met this girl through a friend not long ago. We had hit it off pretty well at first, but it ended up going nowhere. About four months later (yesterday) I'm walking around the mall after getting my hair cut, trying to pick up a few #s and I run into her.
I approach her from the side as she's browsing and say "long time no see, stranger" and give a sexy smile / warm vibe / strong eye contact as she turns to me. She lights up and asks me how I've been and all that, and asks what I'm doing at the mall- to which I actually reply: "Just trying to pick up some chicks at the mall, and thought you were looking pretty hot so..." but then I smile slowly and tell her I'm just joking and that I'm picking up a gift for my mom for her birthday and needed a haircut. She laughs/smiles and I ask her why she's shopping in the "sexy outfit" section. I joke that she's buying something because she thought she was going to see me sometime soon. Her reaction to this isn't really a great one, she does smile but just says "well, if you think sundresses are sexy outfits then yeah I suppose so". I brush it off and continue. I need to elicit a better reaction from her somehow before I do something like try to move her.
We talk just a little more, and after a couple back and forths I ask if she's about done shopping. She informs me that she's really just killing time because her girlfriend ditched her for their afternoon lunch date today and she has nothing to do. Perfect. I tell her that works out good for her, because she saw me, and I need help picking out my mom's gift. So, I tell her to come with me to the handbags / purses / etc and she says "ok sure!" with a smile and I touch her shoulder gently and turn her in that direction and we walk over there and she starts talking about how the last time she saw me we were at a concert blah blah blah. As we’re looking at things, I occasionally touch her arm, back, shoulder etc and point at something for her to look at. She’s comfortable with this level of touch. Good.
So anyway, I end up with something for my mom and it seems like we’re about to part ways so I get her number, which I had it before but deleted it. At this point, instead of bidding her farewell I tell her we should go grab Cherry Berry (frozen yogurt place). To which, she actually smirks a little and says “So, what are we best friends now?” but I remain calm and don’t react and go with a yes ladder:
Well, aren’t you glad you ran into me? ...“Yeah of course”
And you like talking to me? ...“Well yeah”
And you like ice cream, right? ...“Haha you’re silly. Ok, let’s go get some ice cream then”
Cha-ching. We walk up to the checkout counter together, and as we do I lead her through some racks of clothing with my hand on the small of her back. She asks me if she should just ride with me, and I say yes. We check out and pay and everything and I carry her bag out “where’s your car?” and we take her stuff and drop it at her car, then go to my vehicle and get in. So, to shorten this a bit- we head over, have some yogurt. I’m sitting on this bench (more of a couch thing, really) with her and we are talking and at some point she start joking around and poking me in the side and stuff. She says I’m ticklish and keeps doing it. I lightly grab her arm, and pull her into me so my face is really close to hers and I say “You had better stop that, before something bad happens” and give her a slow, sexy smile. She says “what’s that?” with a grin and I grab the back of her neck and pull her in and give her a passionate kiss.
She's taken aback, but in a good way. We sit and talk a little more (I deep dive, and we talk about some things about her family) and we kiss a few more times. I tell her we should go grab a movie and watch it or something since we both don’t have anything to do. She says she thinks it might be a better idea if she takes off, and says she wasn’t really expecting all this to happen. She just wanted to buy a couple dresses or whatever. I persist with “It’s totally ok, I promise I’ll behave myself” and also “I wasn’t expecting this to happen either. But it’s pretty cool that it did. Let’s go watch a movie or hell we don’t even have to do that. We can just chill” and finally the ultimatum “Well then, if you don’t want to I guess I can’t kidnap you. So we can either hang out a little more, because I thought this was going really well. Or, we can go ahead and call it a day and then I’ll just get a hold of you sometime and we can hang out again” and she responds that she guesses she really doesn’t have much else going on, and that she is enjoying spending time with me. We go get a movie, and head back to my place.
We arrive at my house, and I have her take her shoes off. I get us something to drink and pop the movie in. Start making out, and I begin rubbing all over her and about 5 minutes in I go between her legs with my hand. LMR. I go back to rubbing her sides and breasts and a couple minutes later I go back between her legs. LMR again. She stops and says “I just- I don’t really know you all that well” and (while smiling) “hey aren’t we going to watch this movie, mister?” and I referred back to what she said at the store and I say “You know me pretty well, we’re like best friends. Remember?” and start making out again. I get us to lay down on the couch and go for the rear stimulation, which she doesn’t stop me so I do this for a while. She is starting to breathe a little heavier now, and getting more into the making out, more tongue. I put her hand on my crotch and she starts rubbing my dick. I let her do this for a while and I unbutton my pants and put her hand down there and she gives me a HJ. I unbutton her pants and LMR again. She stops and says “I just don’t feel comfortable doing this” and “I don’t just sleep with guys like this” and I start giving her little kisses on her face and forehead and tell her that she seems plenty comfortable to me and that her body wants it and to just go with it, and start kissing her again. I go for the burst of passion this time, and this seals it- I already had her shorts unbuttoned so they come off easily with the underwear as well. I get my pants off and myself into her, and we have sex like 4 or 5 times over the next 3 hours or so.
I've done this before, but back in my younger days when I was a late teen/early 20's and probably just was able to do it because of the way 17-21 year old girls are. But- this was my first day game instant date lay since I started getting serious about pickup. I already knew this girl, though. Maybe I’m ready to take it a step further and try this process with some of the girls that I would usually be happy just getting a phone number from?
Thoughts, suggestions, feedback welcomed!
Holla!
-NarrowJ
I approach her from the side as she's browsing and say "long time no see, stranger" and give a sexy smile / warm vibe / strong eye contact as she turns to me. She lights up and asks me how I've been and all that, and asks what I'm doing at the mall- to which I actually reply: "Just trying to pick up some chicks at the mall, and thought you were looking pretty hot so..." but then I smile slowly and tell her I'm just joking and that I'm picking up a gift for my mom for her birthday and needed a haircut. She laughs/smiles and I ask her why she's shopping in the "sexy outfit" section. I joke that she's buying something because she thought she was going to see me sometime soon. Her reaction to this isn't really a great one, she does smile but just says "well, if you think sundresses are sexy outfits then yeah I suppose so". I brush it off and continue. I need to elicit a better reaction from her somehow before I do something like try to move her.
We talk just a little more, and after a couple back and forths I ask if she's about done shopping. She informs me that she's really just killing time because her girlfriend ditched her for their afternoon lunch date today and she has nothing to do. Perfect. I tell her that works out good for her, because she saw me, and I need help picking out my mom's gift. So, I tell her to come with me to the handbags / purses / etc and she says "ok sure!" with a smile and I touch her shoulder gently and turn her in that direction and we walk over there and she starts talking about how the last time she saw me we were at a concert blah blah blah. As we’re looking at things, I occasionally touch her arm, back, shoulder etc and point at something for her to look at. She’s comfortable with this level of touch. Good.
So anyway, I end up with something for my mom and it seems like we’re about to part ways so I get her number, which I had it before but deleted it. At this point, instead of bidding her farewell I tell her we should go grab Cherry Berry (frozen yogurt place). To which, she actually smirks a little and says “So, what are we best friends now?” but I remain calm and don’t react and go with a yes ladder:
Well, aren’t you glad you ran into me? ...“Yeah of course”
And you like talking to me? ...“Well yeah”
And you like ice cream, right? ...“Haha you’re silly. Ok, let’s go get some ice cream then”
Cha-ching. We walk up to the checkout counter together, and as we do I lead her through some racks of clothing with my hand on the small of her back. She asks me if she should just ride with me, and I say yes. We check out and pay and everything and I carry her bag out “where’s your car?” and we take her stuff and drop it at her car, then go to my vehicle and get in. So, to shorten this a bit- we head over, have some yogurt. I’m sitting on this bench (more of a couch thing, really) with her and we are talking and at some point she start joking around and poking me in the side and stuff. She says I’m ticklish and keeps doing it. I lightly grab her arm, and pull her into me so my face is really close to hers and I say “You had better stop that, before something bad happens” and give her a slow, sexy smile. She says “what’s that?” with a grin and I grab the back of her neck and pull her in and give her a passionate kiss.
She's taken aback, but in a good way. We sit and talk a little more (I deep dive, and we talk about some things about her family) and we kiss a few more times. I tell her we should go grab a movie and watch it or something since we both don’t have anything to do. She says she thinks it might be a better idea if she takes off, and says she wasn’t really expecting all this to happen. She just wanted to buy a couple dresses or whatever. I persist with “It’s totally ok, I promise I’ll behave myself” and also “I wasn’t expecting this to happen either. But it’s pretty cool that it did. Let’s go watch a movie or hell we don’t even have to do that. We can just chill” and finally the ultimatum “Well then, if you don’t want to I guess I can’t kidnap you. So we can either hang out a little more, because I thought this was going really well. Or, we can go ahead and call it a day and then I’ll just get a hold of you sometime and we can hang out again” and she responds that she guesses she really doesn’t have much else going on, and that she is enjoying spending time with me. We go get a movie, and head back to my place.
We arrive at my house, and I have her take her shoes off. I get us something to drink and pop the movie in. Start making out, and I begin rubbing all over her and about 5 minutes in I go between her legs with my hand. LMR. I go back to rubbing her sides and breasts and a couple minutes later I go back between her legs. LMR again. She stops and says “I just- I don’t really know you all that well” and (while smiling) “hey aren’t we going to watch this movie, mister?” and I referred back to what she said at the store and I say “You know me pretty well, we’re like best friends. Remember?” and start making out again. I get us to lay down on the couch and go for the rear stimulation, which she doesn’t stop me so I do this for a while. She is starting to breathe a little heavier now, and getting more into the making out, more tongue. I put her hand on my crotch and she starts rubbing my dick. I let her do this for a while and I unbutton my pants and put her hand down there and she gives me a HJ. I unbutton her pants and LMR again. She stops and says “I just don’t feel comfortable doing this” and “I don’t just sleep with guys like this” and I start giving her little kisses on her face and forehead and tell her that she seems plenty comfortable to me and that her body wants it and to just go with it, and start kissing her again. I go for the burst of passion this time, and this seals it- I already had her shorts unbuttoned so they come off easily with the underwear as well. I get my pants off and myself into her, and we have sex like 4 or 5 times over the next 3 hours or so.
I've done this before, but back in my younger days when I was a late teen/early 20's and probably just was able to do it because of the way 17-21 year old girls are. But- this was my first day game instant date lay since I started getting serious about pickup. I already knew this girl, though. Maybe I’m ready to take it a step further and try this process with some of the girls that I would usually be happy just getting a phone number from?
Thoughts, suggestions, feedback welcomed!
Holla!
-NarrowJ
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