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- Sep 7, 2014
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Firstly I am very proud that I've finally done it. And there is no better feeling when you can actually see progress such as this. But being honest and critical I did receive a large amount of help from a friend. As usual my thoughts after the night are in brackets. So let's get to it:
Venues Visited
Student Flat (the flat was upstairs from mine so I had excellent logistics)
People With
I joined the party with my flat so (3 guys and 2 girls)
New People met
Scottish Girl, Dark hair, good body but slightly chubby (only slightly)
There are other people but their not worth mentioning (because there was virtually no interaction)
What Happened
My flat mates pre drunk in our flat.
I drank a bit too much (I'll explain why this is worth mentioning later)
We then headed upstairs to the flat party.
I then mingled. Gained some social momentum.
Noticed a drinking game with cards (and I love cards and drinking), so I headed over to play
Played for a bit, 4 or 5 girls were playing with 2 guys (now 3 if you include me)
Played for a bit but got bored.
Then returned to one of my flat mates to talk a little.
Then went back to the drinking game. Only the game was now just a cards game.
Noticed the scottish girl sitting opposite me.
She was curious. Asked me questions. I can't remember much of the dialogue. (thank you alcohol)
Then she got up for a bit.
5 minutes later she was back and the new game was another drinking game.
I motioned her over to sit next to me.
Now I started flirting with her. She was flirting back hard. Leaning in a lot. Touching.
(A problem I've had with earlier encounters is that I waste or take too much time talking and the girl loses patience and leaves which means I move to slow. So this time I knew I couldn't make the same mistake and so
I asked to move with me, using indirect methods
Me: So this party's a bit too loud. I know a better place, cheap drinks and good music.
Girl: How far is it?
Me: really close?
Girl: Where?
Me: Just downstairs
And i can't remember the dialogue again but the gist was that she is interested but not ready yet (she said maybe when I asked her).
And then shit.. Gotta pee (thank you alcohol)
So I excuse myself
Sprint to toilet and back.
Too late, she is now talking to my roommate alone. (fuck, shouldn't have left her alone.
And here is where my friend helps me. He see's them talking and see's me. So he gets me to sit one sit next to her but not to break their circle. Then he throws a balloon at the two and breaks their circle. And I naturally re from my circle with her.
We talk some more. Get to know her. Where she's from, what she likes and what she's studying. All good.
Then she gets up to talk to friends and I go to pee again (fuck you alcohol).
It's a lot later now and majority of the flat are leaving or have left to go the the club down the road.
"My" girl is no talking to some other guy.
And then I see them kiss a bit. (FUCK!!!!!) I lost her.
She then sits down again though, near where I'm sitting.
The guy she kisses comes as well.
And now my friend really saves me here.
He see's me and gets the other guy (my competition) to leave us (me and the girl) alone. (clearly the guy feels he has a shot with her so that's why he lingered around her but my friend convinced him to go).
So now it's me and this girl, sitting alone.
Party has died down.
I want to wait for the rest of the people to leave.
BUT THERE Not going.
So I talk to her a little bit more but I know, I can feel or sense that the time to move her to my place is now (and is running out).
So i realize she drinks Malibu and coke and likes dark rum. I use this as an opportunity to tell her to try a drink at my flat (i'm a cocktail bartender). I stand up, take her hand and lead her to my flat.
We enter the kitchen and I make the shitty drink. She says she needs the toilet, so I point her to the ensuite of my room.
I then enter my room just as she finishes with the drink and a film to "watch."
She sits on my bed and she notices my posters.
I sit next to her and tell her a bit about them.
I then slowly lean in, she leans in and we start kissing.
Then I get her lying on the bed and boom; begin physical escalation and sex.
This was my first time having sex so I was new. And being 18 and missing having sex like all the other kids at 16-17 put me at a natural disadvantage. However I had read the sex articles from Chase here and wow, that was very helpful.
I knew what to do in other words.
We had sex for 30 minutes but was interrupted by another roommate, telling me that our 3rd roommate had passed out.
so I had to stop and carry the passed out buy back to his bed. My girl put her dress on and helped. ( At first I though, fuck she dressed up again, she probably is ready to go home, damn I must have been bad)
But after we get the passed out guy back to his room. She goes into my room again and starts undressing (maybe I'm not as bad as I thought)
Anyway we continue fucking for another 30-50 minutes and I think she came a couple of times. I hope she did. But had had way to much to drink and couldn't finish (again fuck you alcohol).
We then stayed in be for a bit.
She checked the time and realized she had kept her friends waiting for 30 minutes.
She asked for my number and I walked her outside and she kissed me goodnight.
Reflection
I'll be concise.
One. Don't drink so much, it numbs your senses and makes you pee a lot which makes you break circle.
Two. Don't let her go. Just because she's talking to someone else doesn't mean it's over. Go back their and smoothly re enter. Trump the competition.
Three. Don't give up. This ties into number two but is essentially the same thing.
Four. Move fast. I've really understood the importance of this today
That's what I learnt from my own reflection. If you think I've missed anything or just want to share your thoughts; please do. I would be very grateful to hear any of your opinions.
I feel great and very confident now. Like I've really hit a milestone. But I still know that i've got a long way to go. I still need to get my body to be big and powerful (masculine). I need to get my sexy vibe down and create sexual tension. And I also know that I need to work on sexual techniques.
And just a little side note to anyone new reading this. Girls chase works. People are skeptical about the internet and they have every right to be; there is a lot of bullshit out there. But Girls Chase isn't bullshit. It actually requires you to work. To learn and analyse your mistakes. I can tell you now that I was very inexperienced. I was 18 and hadn't even kissed a girl. But thanks to Girl Chase, within one month of me being in uni, the first time I kissed a girl is also the first time I had sex with one. (But I had been working on "me" for around 2 or 3 years. The majority of progress has been this year 2014.)
So once again. Any feedback would be great.
Rookie
Venues Visited
Student Flat (the flat was upstairs from mine so I had excellent logistics)
People With
I joined the party with my flat so (3 guys and 2 girls)
New People met
Scottish Girl, Dark hair, good body but slightly chubby (only slightly)
There are other people but their not worth mentioning (because there was virtually no interaction)
What Happened
My flat mates pre drunk in our flat.
I drank a bit too much (I'll explain why this is worth mentioning later)
We then headed upstairs to the flat party.
I then mingled. Gained some social momentum.
Noticed a drinking game with cards (and I love cards and drinking), so I headed over to play
Played for a bit, 4 or 5 girls were playing with 2 guys (now 3 if you include me)
Played for a bit but got bored.
Then returned to one of my flat mates to talk a little.
Then went back to the drinking game. Only the game was now just a cards game.
Noticed the scottish girl sitting opposite me.
She was curious. Asked me questions. I can't remember much of the dialogue. (thank you alcohol)
Then she got up for a bit.
5 minutes later she was back and the new game was another drinking game.
I motioned her over to sit next to me.
Now I started flirting with her. She was flirting back hard. Leaning in a lot. Touching.
(A problem I've had with earlier encounters is that I waste or take too much time talking and the girl loses patience and leaves which means I move to slow. So this time I knew I couldn't make the same mistake and so
I asked to move with me, using indirect methodsMe: So this party's a bit too loud. I know a better place, cheap drinks and good music.
Girl: How far is it?
Me: really close?
Girl: Where?
Me: Just downstairs
And i can't remember the dialogue again but the gist was that she is interested but not ready yet (she said maybe when I asked her).
And then shit.. Gotta pee (thank you alcohol)
So I excuse myself
Sprint to toilet and back.
Too late, she is now talking to my roommate alone. (fuck, shouldn't have left her alone.
And here is where my friend helps me. He see's them talking and see's me. So he gets me to sit one sit next to her but not to break their circle. Then he throws a balloon at the two and breaks their circle. And I naturally re from my circle with her.
We talk some more. Get to know her. Where she's from, what she likes and what she's studying. All good.
Then she gets up to talk to friends and I go to pee again (fuck you alcohol).
It's a lot later now and majority of the flat are leaving or have left to go the the club down the road.
"My" girl is no talking to some other guy.
And then I see them kiss a bit. (FUCK!!!!!) I lost her.
She then sits down again though, near where I'm sitting.
The guy she kisses comes as well.
And now my friend really saves me here.
He see's me and gets the other guy (my competition) to leave us (me and the girl) alone. (clearly the guy feels he has a shot with her so that's why he lingered around her but my friend convinced him to go).
So now it's me and this girl, sitting alone.
Party has died down.
I want to wait for the rest of the people to leave.
BUT THERE Not going.
So I talk to her a little bit more but I know, I can feel or sense that the time to move her to my place is now (and is running out).
So i realize she drinks Malibu and coke and likes dark rum. I use this as an opportunity to tell her to try a drink at my flat (i'm a cocktail bartender). I stand up, take her hand and lead her to my flat.
We enter the kitchen and I make the shitty drink. She says she needs the toilet, so I point her to the ensuite of my room.
I then enter my room just as she finishes with the drink and a film to "watch."
She sits on my bed and she notices my posters.
I sit next to her and tell her a bit about them.
I then slowly lean in, she leans in and we start kissing.
Then I get her lying on the bed and boom; begin physical escalation and sex.
This was my first time having sex so I was new. And being 18 and missing having sex like all the other kids at 16-17 put me at a natural disadvantage. However I had read the sex articles from Chase here and wow, that was very helpful.
I knew what to do in other words.
We had sex for 30 minutes but was interrupted by another roommate, telling me that our 3rd roommate had passed out.
so I had to stop and carry the passed out buy back to his bed. My girl put her dress on and helped. ( At first I though, fuck she dressed up again, she probably is ready to go home, damn I must have been bad)
But after we get the passed out guy back to his room. She goes into my room again and starts undressing (maybe I'm not as bad as I thought)
Anyway we continue fucking for another 30-50 minutes and I think she came a couple of times. I hope she did. But had had way to much to drink and couldn't finish (again fuck you alcohol).
We then stayed in be for a bit.
She checked the time and realized she had kept her friends waiting for 30 minutes.
She asked for my number and I walked her outside and she kissed me goodnight.
Reflection
I'll be concise.
One. Don't drink so much, it numbs your senses and makes you pee a lot which makes you break circle.
Two. Don't let her go. Just because she's talking to someone else doesn't mean it's over. Go back their and smoothly re enter. Trump the competition.
Three. Don't give up. This ties into number two but is essentially the same thing.
Four. Move fast. I've really understood the importance of this today
That's what I learnt from my own reflection. If you think I've missed anything or just want to share your thoughts; please do. I would be very grateful to hear any of your opinions.
I feel great and very confident now. Like I've really hit a milestone. But I still know that i've got a long way to go. I still need to get my body to be big and powerful (masculine). I need to get my sexy vibe down and create sexual tension. And I also know that I need to work on sexual techniques.
And just a little side note to anyone new reading this. Girls chase works. People are skeptical about the internet and they have every right to be; there is a lot of bullshit out there. But Girls Chase isn't bullshit. It actually requires you to work. To learn and analyse your mistakes. I can tell you now that I was very inexperienced. I was 18 and hadn't even kissed a girl. But thanks to Girl Chase, within one month of me being in uni, the first time I kissed a girl is also the first time I had sex with one. (But I had been working on "me" for around 2 or 3 years. The majority of progress has been this year 2014.)
So once again. Any feedback would be great.
Rookie
