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Me: Western European, 180 cm, blonde hair, stubble beard, skinny, dressed in blue hiking pants and a black woolen sweater.
Her: Petite asian girl with dyed blonde hair, around 150cm, glasses, beautiful face, slim body, casual clothes.
THE MEET
I'm currently travelling around the world solo, staying a few weeks in each location. This report happened in mid-December, when I was staying at a youth hostel in northern Europe.
Since it was low season, the hostel was almost empty, so I was alone in the common space couch writing my travel journal. The girl sat in another couch nearby to eat her lunch, I noticed her with my peripheral vision while writing. At this point, I was thinking, why didn't she use the table (which was empty) ? So I figured it was probably an approach invitation.
I opened her and started the conversation when we both went to the kitchen to get something. Just made basic small talk, where are you from, how long are you staying etc. She was also travelling solo, taking a break to travel after a event related to her job in Europe. After a few minutes of this, I invited her to sit together with a cup of tea, which she accepted.
THE CLOSE
While we were talking, I brought the topic of nightlife, and said there was a bar I wanted to visit in town. I invited her to go together and took her number. I could have escalated on the spot because we were completely alone, but the girl just arrived and was exhausted from the jetlag and I was also out of state, so I figured it would not be the best idea. After about 20 minutes, the convo died down and I ejected. I sent an icebreaker text 1 hour later and got the most generic response possible, didn't answer.
The day after was also my last day in town. Just in case, I sent the girl the generic "14 ways to text girls" standard scheduler in the morning. She was down to go on a date the same evening and we quickly set up the date at the bar I mentioned before.
THE DATE
We met at a cozy, upscale cocktail bar very close to the hostel (3 min by foot). The atmosphere was perfect for seduction, with dim light, good music and couches. I told the girl to sit next to me in the couch (so I could start to escalate with light touch) and she complied. The chemistry was great, I deep dived her quite a bit about her unusual but prestigious job, while also teasing her and asking for small compliance requests from time to time.
After around 30 min of normal conversation, I switched to sexual topics by asking what's the dating culture from (where she's from). She told me something unusual and said she only had sex with girls before, but not men. I was seriously doubting that but kept the conversation on this topic. We discussed about dominance dynamics, it was great for arousal. At this point, I already escalated touch as much as I could in a public place and we both finished our cocktails, so I proposed that we come back to the hostel.
On the way back, I holded hands with her. At this point I was pretty excited, which was probably visible in my body language and vibe, because the conversation became more slow-paced, with a lot of pauses. When we came back to the hostel's couch, there was a lot of tension : still no one in the common room so I switched to heavier touch. After 5 minutes, I kissed her and she reciprocated immediately.
THE PULL
The girl was not resisting at all and was completely into it, so I proposed to move to "somewhere more intimate", i.e. my room. She mentioned having tattoos before so I asked her to take off her clothes to show me. After about 10 minutes of pussy-centric escalation, we had sex with no resistance.
AFTER SEX
She admitted afterwards that she, in fact, had been with other men before, to the surprise of no one. We talked a bit and had a shower, then we went to bed early because I had to take my plane, and she also had plans early in the morning.
I send an after-sex text early in the morning the next day, which she replied with a heart reaction and a short goodbye message. It's pretty clear that it was a one-night stand for both of us.
KEYS TO THE LAY
-LOGISTICS (booking a separate room in a hostel close to the bars, which was a deliberate choice)
-Opening despite not being "ready" and in state
-The "14 ways to text girls" texting template
-Leading the conversation to sexual topics (could have been better because "dating history" as a topic can backfire but got the job done)
-Smooth escalation until the pull
LESSONS
-Day game works ! Great first experience that will serve as a positive reference point.
-I'm guilty of not planning dates as much as I could have... But sometimes it's enough.
-Having a solid process and good logistics is almost everything. The better my process will be, the smoother the dates. I will try to progressively add more advanced stuff like SAC pings, gambits, nonverbal reactions, and the "questions to ask on dates"
Her: Petite asian girl with dyed blonde hair, around 150cm, glasses, beautiful face, slim body, casual clothes.
THE MEET
I'm currently travelling around the world solo, staying a few weeks in each location. This report happened in mid-December, when I was staying at a youth hostel in northern Europe.
Since it was low season, the hostel was almost empty, so I was alone in the common space couch writing my travel journal. The girl sat in another couch nearby to eat her lunch, I noticed her with my peripheral vision while writing. At this point, I was thinking, why didn't she use the table (which was empty) ? So I figured it was probably an approach invitation.
I opened her and started the conversation when we both went to the kitchen to get something. Just made basic small talk, where are you from, how long are you staying etc. She was also travelling solo, taking a break to travel after a event related to her job in Europe. After a few minutes of this, I invited her to sit together with a cup of tea, which she accepted.
THE CLOSE
While we were talking, I brought the topic of nightlife, and said there was a bar I wanted to visit in town. I invited her to go together and took her number. I could have escalated on the spot because we were completely alone, but the girl just arrived and was exhausted from the jetlag and I was also out of state, so I figured it would not be the best idea. After about 20 minutes, the convo died down and I ejected. I sent an icebreaker text 1 hour later and got the most generic response possible, didn't answer.
The day after was also my last day in town. Just in case, I sent the girl the generic "14 ways to text girls" standard scheduler in the morning. She was down to go on a date the same evening and we quickly set up the date at the bar I mentioned before.
THE DATE
We met at a cozy, upscale cocktail bar very close to the hostel (3 min by foot). The atmosphere was perfect for seduction, with dim light, good music and couches. I told the girl to sit next to me in the couch (so I could start to escalate with light touch) and she complied. The chemistry was great, I deep dived her quite a bit about her unusual but prestigious job, while also teasing her and asking for small compliance requests from time to time.
After around 30 min of normal conversation, I switched to sexual topics by asking what's the dating culture from (where she's from). She told me something unusual and said she only had sex with girls before, but not men. I was seriously doubting that but kept the conversation on this topic. We discussed about dominance dynamics, it was great for arousal. At this point, I already escalated touch as much as I could in a public place and we both finished our cocktails, so I proposed that we come back to the hostel.
On the way back, I holded hands with her. At this point I was pretty excited, which was probably visible in my body language and vibe, because the conversation became more slow-paced, with a lot of pauses. When we came back to the hostel's couch, there was a lot of tension : still no one in the common room so I switched to heavier touch. After 5 minutes, I kissed her and she reciprocated immediately.
THE PULL
The girl was not resisting at all and was completely into it, so I proposed to move to "somewhere more intimate", i.e. my room. She mentioned having tattoos before so I asked her to take off her clothes to show me. After about 10 minutes of pussy-centric escalation, we had sex with no resistance.
AFTER SEX
She admitted afterwards that she, in fact, had been with other men before, to the surprise of no one. We talked a bit and had a shower, then we went to bed early because I had to take my plane, and she also had plans early in the morning.
I send an after-sex text early in the morning the next day, which she replied with a heart reaction and a short goodbye message. It's pretty clear that it was a one-night stand for both of us.
KEYS TO THE LAY
-LOGISTICS (booking a separate room in a hostel close to the bars, which was a deliberate choice)
-Opening despite not being "ready" and in state
-The "14 ways to text girls" texting template
-Leading the conversation to sexual topics (could have been better because "dating history" as a topic can backfire but got the job done)
-Smooth escalation until the pull
LESSONS
-Day game works ! Great first experience that will serve as a positive reference point.
-I'm guilty of not planning dates as much as I could have... But sometimes it's enough.
-Having a solid process and good logistics is almost everything. The better my process will be, the smoother the dates. I will try to progressively add more advanced stuff like SAC pings, gambits, nonverbal reactions, and the "questions to ask on dates"
