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NaturallySmooth

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Hey guys,

I've been reading this site for a bit and I think that it would help me analyze my own game to write up field reports from time to time. Since it's Sunday night and I don't have much to do, I figured that I would start now.

Some background: I go to college at a fairly large school in America. I've never been great with girls, only kissed my first girl as a senior in high school and got laid for the first time toward the end of freshman year in college. Nevertheless I think that i've made great improvements since entering college and am a totally different person from when i started.


OK time to start


LR--- Cute little blonde


Last night, first of all, I was feeling TERRIBLE. I was tired as fuck, didn't want to drink any alcohol, all I wanted to do was watch some netflix and sleeeeep. I couldn't let this happen though! I wanted to practice game and decided to go up to a few girls even if I died from exhaustion while doing it. This is super important guys; even if you are not feeling up to it, it's important to go out and practice anything that you want to improve in or else you'll never get better.

I decided to check out a frat party that I was invited to. I got in, grabbed a beer (to look the part haha), said hi to my friends that were there, and went out looking for girls to talk to. I didn't have to look far as I saw a group of two cute girls standing next to me ( the blonde was def cuter so I had to isolate her). I got that second of nervous anxiety that I always get before approaching girls, but said "fuck it" and went up to them.


Opener: "Hey what's up, what are you two drinking and why are two girls standing alone at a party? You look way too bored" (said with a smile) - The girls loved it and it immediately placed me in a more dominant position where I could give them shit for being boring at a fun frat party.

I then proceeded to ask them if they were freshmen because clearly they didn't know how to party if they were standing alone talking to each other (again said with a smile) and again they loved it and laughed. After this I asked them some basics about themselves, where are they from etc. blah blah blah and chimed in whenever I could relate to something or push them a bit more to give longer answers or to tease them about something. Honestly I don't remember what they said - all of this was on autopilot.

It is important here to note that I was consciously trying to talk a bit more to the cute blonde girl instead of her friend and soon her friend got the message and "went to get a beer" (cool, that was easy).

I then deep dived a bit, asking this girl what she did and why and what she wanted to do in the future. Again, this is boring stuff and I was super exhausted so I probably didn't exude an extremely interested vibe but I made sure to look into her eyes and smile and TRY to act interested as much as I could.


When I knew I would fuck her
This one is great, really hilarious. This girl was wearing a necklace that she thought matched her eyes or something and I thought she would look better without. Obviously all girl choose their outfits extremely carefully and spend hours planning that shit so I decided to compliment her on the necklace by telling her how unique it was and how I never saw a necklace like it. But then right after I told her this (and saw how happy she was), I told her that it didn't really match her outfit and she would look better without it because there wouldn't be any competition to distract anyone (uhh me) from staring into her eyes. This wasn't a lie on my part. I truly thought that the necklace was a bit too tacky and she probably knew it too because girls probably think about how every single piece of clothing that they put on looks 10 times over. You know what she did after I said this? She took off the necklace and put it in her purse!!! --- Ok, I said to myself, it's over. I might as well take her back now after this crazy form of compliance.


Before taking her back
I knew I had her now, but I was still pretty tired and would have preferred to sleep instead of have sex, but I thought it over and said, "fuck it, it can't hurt to practice" and started to plan my exit. I positioned myself to lean against a barrier during this whole conversation so I was very comfortably standing facing her while she was in a bit more awkward position and started to lean closer and closer to me in order to be more comfortable. Soon after this thing with the necklace I kissed her for a bit (5 min) on and off. I never kissed her for longer than 10 seconds at a time and I would be the one pulling away to talk a bit more and then i would let her kiss me again when I felt like it. I thought that 5 min was enough kissing ( i HATE kissing in public btw, it's useless and aside from showing a girl that you're probably at least decent in bed if you are a good kisser it has no purpose) so I asked her to go back to my place. Super easy, no messing around. There was also no messing around on her part and she agreed right away. As we were leaving she said - "I want you to know that I don't usually do this!" (yeaaaaah sure, whatever).


Finally
I took her back to my place and as soon as we got to my room I threw her on the bed and started making out with her and fingering her. Not really anything too crazy happened. She asked if I had a condom and once I assured her that I did, I banged her. She left right after because it wasn't that late and she got to catch up with her friends and go home with them. Perfect for me, I went to sleep exhausted but happy that I went out a practiced my game.


Total time: 40 minutes of talking max, maybe even closer to half an hour


Whew, that took a while to write. If you have any advice or comments or anything, please let me know! I'm not sure if I focused on the right things when writing a LR so please let me know if i did because this will hopefully be helpful to others
 

Hector Papi Castillo

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Re: First LR

NaturallySmooth said:
Hey guys,



Opener: "Hey what's up, what are you two drinking and why are two girls standing alone at a party? You look way too bored" (said with a smile) - The girls loved it and it immediately placed me in a more dominant position where I could give them shit for being boring at a fun frat party.

Good shit. I love using this opener at parties or even the bar. Super high success rate; I actually consider it closer to "direct" in the "indirect direct" spectrum. It asserts your dominance, even jokingly (i.e., "why are you alone not socializing? Now you're lucky to be talking to me").

NaturallySmooth said:
When I knew I would fuck her
This one is great, really hilarious. This girl was wearing a necklace that she thought matched her eyes or something and I thought she would look better without. Obviously all girl choose their outfits extremely carefully and spend hours planning that shit so I decided to compliment her on the necklace by telling her how unique it was and how I never saw a necklace like it. But then right after I told her this (and saw how happy she was), I told her that it didn't really match her outfit and she would look better without it because there wouldn't be any competition to distract anyone (uhh me) from staring into her eyes. This wasn't a lie on my part. I truly thought that the necklace was a bit too tacky and she probably knew it too because girls probably think about how every single piece of clothing that they put on looks 10 times over. You know what she did after I said this? She took off the necklace and put it in her purse!!! --- Ok, I said to myself, it's over. I might as well take her back now after this crazy form of compliance.

Yep, could have pulled very soon after this.

NaturallySmooth said:
I never kissed her for longer than 10 seconds at a time and I would be the one pulling away to talk a bit more and then i would let her kiss me again when I felt like it. I thought that 5 min was enough kissing ( i HATE kissing in public btw, it's useless and aside from showing a girl that you're probably at least decent in bed if you are a good kisser it has no purpose) so I asked her to go back to my place. Super easy, no messing around. There was also no messing around on her part and she agreed right away. As we were leaving she said - "I want you to know that I don't usually do this!" (yeaaaaah sure, whatever).

I can confidently tell you that making out at a frat/college party doesn't always release all of the sexual tension; in fact, it can create just enough of it, if you do it right, and I think you understand the right window ( for < 10 secs). I actually laugh at kids who get into intense makeouts where everyone is watching; unless you're a super high value guy that her friends will encourage her to sleep with, then you're going to kill your seduction with social pressure ("uh, she's a slut") and extended kissing does extinguish the tension.




Great stuff with the persistence, even when you felt like shit! Look forward to reading more from you.
 

tvktvk

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NaturallySmooth,

You got rewarded with a easy quick lay for convincing yourself to go out! That's discipline paying off right there.
Awesome report man, everything by the book, simple and straightforward.

I was just wondering how were your logistics back to your place? Did she ask anything about it?

tvktvk
 

ray_zorse

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Yeah, awesome :) there didn't seem to be many LRs coming our way lately so I was wondering of everyone was on hiatus. Anyway this LR gives me hope I might be able to speed things up in future with the right girls... good thing u have good logistics. Women seem to appreciate a quick fuck and then rejoining the party from what I can gather.

I would have liked more detail on the conversation, it seems your vibe was teasing and somewhat playful yet you did not particularly sexualize the conversation or use chase frames, baiting... just straight platonic deep dive? Or is it more that these techniques are just part of who you are and not noteworthy?

I'll try the opener.

Good going bro.

cheers, Ray
 
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Mr.Rob

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Love your attitude man!

Let this LR fuel your fire to get more rather than, use it to rationalize not having to go out and game more. But I don't think that's you.

Props dude keep em comin pimpin ;)

-Rob
 
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