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Taking a woman home directly out of online dating. I was wondering if I could pull it...
The setup
On Thursday 27 I on-board Anna on my online contacts with my usual opener (variations around "love me tender") and immediately start building rapport. 33 years old Filipina, quite pretty from the pictures. She's right away very chatty, for each sentence I text her she sends me back 7. Within the morning, I know about her two daughters, her ex husband, her ex boyfriend, what movies she likes, what club she likes to go, where she works, where she lives. She asks my relationship status, and we share interest for cooking (my new favorite, after last Monday's adventure). I start polling her availability. She's off on Friday like me. "I have no plans tomorrow" I tell her, and hint for cinema. She thinks I mean tonight. "I can't promise... I have plans to go to krossroads with colleagues" (that night club). We find out she meant tonight. "It's planned. They'll kill me if I don't go" "It's alright. Tonight's my quiet evening anyway... Go, don't get killed" and I let go for now.
The same evening I start teasing her with my cooking. I send her a pic of what I did. "My cooking tonight. How's krossroads?" Some blah blah. "Want to join?" she asks. I think. Better not to date on her terms. "We should meet, for sure. No plans for tomorrow if you're free" "Tomorrow I sleep all day" "OK so you'll feel great at 6pm" The convo stops here for tonight.
Then next day I stay silent, and so she does. I manage to get a date with another girl... And that night while I'm with the other girl, she texts me "Good evening" "I'm out with friends... Catch you later" "OK enjoy". She reinitiated contact after my break, very good.
Saturday 29 she greets me in the morning and we start texting. I engage on the subject of cooking. She likes cooking, I like too, send a few pics of what I did. She's the first to suggest we should cook together. "Filipino and French food". "Yep, alternate" OK well noted. Throughout the day we chat more. On her philosophy of life there are good hints like "whatever happens I never regret it". So far I had not attempted yet to setup a clear date. The Saturday afternoon I actually had a date planned with yet another girl, but she desists, so by 3 pm I know I'm going to be free tonight. More chats with Anna. She asks if I have a nice city view from my flat (another hint), and asks what I'm gonna cook tonight. We discuss on the topic again, I send her more pictures, she mentions "looks yummy" and I tell her she should come and taste some time. "My pleasure".
Well there are more than enough hints at this stage. What I picked up:
* easy online rapport building and comfort
* she invites me to the club "Want to join?"
* she re-initiates the chat many time
* "Let's cook together"
* "Whatever happens I never regret it"
* Curious about the view from my flat
* OK to "come and taste some time"
The date
So I go "How about I take you at 6:30 at your work place after you finish work?" "Means you invite me for dinner?" Yes, exactly. She is delayed at her work and we only get to meet at 9pm (I take her at her place). She is curvy, long hair, wearing a sexy back dress. Pretty but not as much as implied by the pictures.
It was implicitly about having dinner at my home. However due to the delay and late hour she asked me to eat and not wait for her... She also ate a bit. So now I'm not sure about what to propose.
Yet in the car I stay cool and collected, I make her talk and I take her and drive towards my home without hesitation. The Strata bar is a 5 minutes walk anyway. We park in my underground parking. Time to decide. My mistake here: "So shall we have drinks at the Strata? Or do you want to come to my place?" "Yeah I'm your guest, I'm OK, it's up to you!" I immediately know I should not have asked. So I take her by the hand and lead her to my home.
I show her my home. Give her a plate of my cooking, open a bottle of white wine. I eat a bit with her. Chat. Done. We go on my sofa. This sofa has seen a few girls already lol. She's next to me, and we start watching youtube videos on my tablet. I take her hand in mine. We put music. Chat. Gradually I start caressing her arms. More chat. My hand on her legs. I fully acknowledge it verbally "wow very smooth skin !". More wine. We kiss. My hand go up under her dress. Caresses. More kisses. "I like your touch!" I reach the boobs. Play with her left nipple. "The essence of being a gentleman? It's to be fair!" and I start playing with the right nipple. "No one jealous!" She laughs. "Hey not just me touching, you can touch too!" I place her hand under my Lacoste polo, on my chest. More wine. I kiss her on the neck. Take her hand, place it on my dick, through the trousers "It's my friend. His name is Paul. He's our good friend!" and from then she starts rubbing my dick through the textile. OK darling, need more help, I unzip the trousers and let Paul go out. She takes him in her hand and obviously she knows how to manipulate the engine. When it's hot enough I stand up, take her hand and lead her to my bedroom. Clothes off, condom, I start shagging her and she comes very quickly. We have a second round. Stay some time in the bed. Then I drive her home.
So it is possible. If she's giving enough hints I can take her directly from online text to my home with no real face time in between.
Cheers
Seppuku
The setup
On Thursday 27 I on-board Anna on my online contacts with my usual opener (variations around "love me tender") and immediately start building rapport. 33 years old Filipina, quite pretty from the pictures. She's right away very chatty, for each sentence I text her she sends me back 7. Within the morning, I know about her two daughters, her ex husband, her ex boyfriend, what movies she likes, what club she likes to go, where she works, where she lives. She asks my relationship status, and we share interest for cooking (my new favorite, after last Monday's adventure). I start polling her availability. She's off on Friday like me. "I have no plans tomorrow" I tell her, and hint for cinema. She thinks I mean tonight. "I can't promise... I have plans to go to krossroads with colleagues" (that night club). We find out she meant tonight. "It's planned. They'll kill me if I don't go" "It's alright. Tonight's my quiet evening anyway... Go, don't get killed" and I let go for now.
The same evening I start teasing her with my cooking. I send her a pic of what I did. "My cooking tonight. How's krossroads?" Some blah blah. "Want to join?" she asks. I think. Better not to date on her terms. "We should meet, for sure. No plans for tomorrow if you're free" "Tomorrow I sleep all day" "OK so you'll feel great at 6pm" The convo stops here for tonight.
Then next day I stay silent, and so she does. I manage to get a date with another girl... And that night while I'm with the other girl, she texts me "Good evening" "I'm out with friends... Catch you later" "OK enjoy". She reinitiated contact after my break, very good.
Saturday 29 she greets me in the morning and we start texting. I engage on the subject of cooking. She likes cooking, I like too, send a few pics of what I did. She's the first to suggest we should cook together. "Filipino and French food". "Yep, alternate" OK well noted. Throughout the day we chat more. On her philosophy of life there are good hints like "whatever happens I never regret it". So far I had not attempted yet to setup a clear date. The Saturday afternoon I actually had a date planned with yet another girl, but she desists, so by 3 pm I know I'm going to be free tonight. More chats with Anna. She asks if I have a nice city view from my flat (another hint), and asks what I'm gonna cook tonight. We discuss on the topic again, I send her more pictures, she mentions "looks yummy" and I tell her she should come and taste some time. "My pleasure".
Well there are more than enough hints at this stage. What I picked up:
* easy online rapport building and comfort
* she invites me to the club "Want to join?"
* she re-initiates the chat many time
* "Let's cook together"
* "Whatever happens I never regret it"
* Curious about the view from my flat
* OK to "come and taste some time"
The date
So I go "How about I take you at 6:30 at your work place after you finish work?" "Means you invite me for dinner?" Yes, exactly. She is delayed at her work and we only get to meet at 9pm (I take her at her place). She is curvy, long hair, wearing a sexy back dress. Pretty but not as much as implied by the pictures.
It was implicitly about having dinner at my home. However due to the delay and late hour she asked me to eat and not wait for her... She also ate a bit. So now I'm not sure about what to propose.
Yet in the car I stay cool and collected, I make her talk and I take her and drive towards my home without hesitation. The Strata bar is a 5 minutes walk anyway. We park in my underground parking. Time to decide. My mistake here: "So shall we have drinks at the Strata? Or do you want to come to my place?" "Yeah I'm your guest, I'm OK, it's up to you!" I immediately know I should not have asked. So I take her by the hand and lead her to my home.
I show her my home. Give her a plate of my cooking, open a bottle of white wine. I eat a bit with her. Chat. Done. We go on my sofa. This sofa has seen a few girls already lol. She's next to me, and we start watching youtube videos on my tablet. I take her hand in mine. We put music. Chat. Gradually I start caressing her arms. More chat. My hand on her legs. I fully acknowledge it verbally "wow very smooth skin !". More wine. We kiss. My hand go up under her dress. Caresses. More kisses. "I like your touch!" I reach the boobs. Play with her left nipple. "The essence of being a gentleman? It's to be fair!" and I start playing with the right nipple. "No one jealous!" She laughs. "Hey not just me touching, you can touch too!" I place her hand under my Lacoste polo, on my chest. More wine. I kiss her on the neck. Take her hand, place it on my dick, through the trousers "It's my friend. His name is Paul. He's our good friend!" and from then she starts rubbing my dick through the textile. OK darling, need more help, I unzip the trousers and let Paul go out. She takes him in her hand and obviously she knows how to manipulate the engine. When it's hot enough I stand up, take her hand and lead her to my bedroom. Clothes off, condom, I start shagging her and she comes very quickly. We have a second round. Stay some time in the bed. Then I drive her home.
So it is possible. If she's giving enough hints I can take her directly from online text to my home with no real face time in between.
Cheers
Seppuku
