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Sup Fellas,
I have finally been able to establish an internet connection of sorts and it just happens to be that i have a report to write.
Friday was the first night I went out since moving to my new place in West Palm and i guess you could say I have hit the ground running
I was totally prepared to go out by myself last night and then meet up with the one connection I have outside of work, but he hit me up as I was getting ready at 9 and ended up getting picked up. I met him via craigslist which is a story by itself, but he is cool as fuck.
Anyway, the first bar we go to is pretty chill and they have a mechanical bull. We order drinks and go sit down at a table to watch a group of people ride it. A couple minutes after we sit down a extremely cute girl walks and as I'm oogling her I go to put my drink down and spill it all over myself.
Great start to the night
Luckily I'm wearing black jeans so no one notices.
I didn't want to ride the bull and make a fool out of myself but doing things we don't want to do is how we grow. It may be a small decision but one that can snowball. I ended up doing better then 90% of the people anyway.
- The trick is to make sure you lean forward and engage your core, once you are caught leaning back your fucked.
Craigslist goes and buys us a shot he is taking so long I go over to him to see whats up... apparently he was talking to these girls and they pulled a sleight of hand over on him and stole the shots while he was distracted
This cute girl sits down to my right and the three of us begin talking. She travels are over and works with horses so Ill call her "horse girl". She is by herself and after 15 or so minutes we all go head to this bar Camelot. This place is sick and we spend the rest of the night there.
Horse girl is tiny, cute and quirky which is exactly the type I typically go for but I didn't sense a huge amount of attraction coming from her so I just kind of mentally friend zoned her.
Inside we get a drink and I think they both went to the bathroom or something because I meandered over to the virtually empty dance floor and start jiving with this dude and the 3 girls he is with. One of them is clearly attracted to me but she is shy and reluctant to loosen and dance. After a couple minutes I bail on that interaction and head over to craigslist. We open a group of young 30s looking girls and start dancing with 2 of them. I'm pretty attracted to my girl and she has a hella cute romper on and her body feels fucking tight under it.
I've never been that great at dancing and only do it fucked up, but seeing Starwars summer- she taught me some things and I'm 100x more comfortable now. Something about making sure you are moving feet, hips and shoulders..anyway
Older women are fun because they almost always seem to comment on my age and it's really easy to playfully dodge around the whole subject. Since I haven't been out and "gaming" per say in months I was unsure of how I would be, but this interaction solidified that nothing had been lost. She was feeling me and I was really happy about how I played it. At one point one of her friends grab her says something and she doesn't come back. My guess is something about my looking young because I see her talking to a much older dude later on. Oh well I got what I needed to out of it.... confidence.
Horse girl had come by at some point so I roll over to her once it phizzled..... Looking back I'm sure this worked as pre-selection.
We head to the main bar away from the dance floor and a bunch of nonsense happens in the next hour. Craigslist tells some fucking huge dude he looks like The Rock he was cool as shit. Craigslist and I decide to doing some dancing in the 5 step stairwell in between the 2 bars making people get really close to us to pass by, some girls love it, so girls give us dirty looks as they walk by and most of the younger guys think we are fucking weird. This older woman joins and is grinding on us which is hilarious. A pretty attractive older woman comes over and chats with us she brings her husband over and later I find out they are swingers and wanted to get me, craigslist and horse girl to go to another bar with them. I thought they were just being cool not trying to fuck us. If I had known it at the time I would have pushed to go with them because she was definitely fuckable and hot a decade ago... unless swinger men also like dick?
The only thing else that happens is me and horse girl spend a good amount of time dancing later... she is crazy. She teaches me the basics of salsa which is good to know since I want to learn to dance better.
I have no idea when we left but we left to get pizza. After we eat craigslist peaces out leaving me and horse girl. It never even occurred to me once to try to get with her until he had left. The pull wasn't even a pull really, we just got a cab back to my place. Once there I pull the only chair in my house on my balcony and tell her to sit on my lap. She gets on facing me and we go at it. Eventually after the cloths come off I carry her inside and that's that.
She's really small and has the tightest vagina I have ever encountered. I'm not sure if I should be disowned for saying this but it was too tight. The only way I was able to get in at first without a condom was raw. She also mentioned she had not had sex in 4 years. Holy cow!!
Clearly she was really fucking into me to do that on the first night and she hid it pretty well. I guess because we had basically been hanging out since 11 and all the random people we talked to piled on loads of extra social proof and pre-selection. Back at my place she couldn't stop talking about how sexy and cool I was
One of the most fun nights I have ever had out. This town is going to be fantastic.
I'm in a really weird place because clearly I won't have trouble finding new girls and getting over star wars, but I don't want to. She finally opened up to me the last night we hung out in Maryland, without me prompting and flipped the script on me.Now I completely trust her and she pretty much checks all of my boxes for a relationship. She's coming down to visit her family in 3 weeks and is actually flying in to west palm and then meeting them after the weekend. She canceled her plans to go to Miami after seeing me .... so she will now be here for her birthday. Coincidence, I think not.
I'm really outcome independent about the whole thing, but I don't know what it going to happen. We are supposed to talk on the phone tomorrow.... this is such a awkward place to be.
oh well.... grabbing a bigger set up balls and moving down here was the best decision I could have made for my life/career right now. Glad to be here!
Last thing- if you ever have an opportunity, get a memory foam bed I've gotten more compliments on this bed then anything else I own.
Lotus
I have finally been able to establish an internet connection of sorts and it just happens to be that i have a report to write.
Friday was the first night I went out since moving to my new place in West Palm and i guess you could say I have hit the ground running
I was totally prepared to go out by myself last night and then meet up with the one connection I have outside of work, but he hit me up as I was getting ready at 9 and ended up getting picked up. I met him via craigslist which is a story by itself, but he is cool as fuck.
Anyway, the first bar we go to is pretty chill and they have a mechanical bull. We order drinks and go sit down at a table to watch a group of people ride it. A couple minutes after we sit down a extremely cute girl walks and as I'm oogling her I go to put my drink down and spill it all over myself.
Great start to the night
Luckily I'm wearing black jeans so no one notices.
I didn't want to ride the bull and make a fool out of myself but doing things we don't want to do is how we grow. It may be a small decision but one that can snowball. I ended up doing better then 90% of the people anyway.
- The trick is to make sure you lean forward and engage your core, once you are caught leaning back your fucked.
Craigslist goes and buys us a shot he is taking so long I go over to him to see whats up... apparently he was talking to these girls and they pulled a sleight of hand over on him and stole the shots while he was distracted
This cute girl sits down to my right and the three of us begin talking. She travels are over and works with horses so Ill call her "horse girl". She is by herself and after 15 or so minutes we all go head to this bar Camelot. This place is sick and we spend the rest of the night there.
Horse girl is tiny, cute and quirky which is exactly the type I typically go for but I didn't sense a huge amount of attraction coming from her so I just kind of mentally friend zoned her.
Inside we get a drink and I think they both went to the bathroom or something because I meandered over to the virtually empty dance floor and start jiving with this dude and the 3 girls he is with. One of them is clearly attracted to me but she is shy and reluctant to loosen and dance. After a couple minutes I bail on that interaction and head over to craigslist. We open a group of young 30s looking girls and start dancing with 2 of them. I'm pretty attracted to my girl and she has a hella cute romper on and her body feels fucking tight under it.
I've never been that great at dancing and only do it fucked up, but seeing Starwars summer- she taught me some things and I'm 100x more comfortable now. Something about making sure you are moving feet, hips and shoulders..anyway
Older women are fun because they almost always seem to comment on my age and it's really easy to playfully dodge around the whole subject. Since I haven't been out and "gaming" per say in months I was unsure of how I would be, but this interaction solidified that nothing had been lost. She was feeling me and I was really happy about how I played it. At one point one of her friends grab her says something and she doesn't come back. My guess is something about my looking young because I see her talking to a much older dude later on. Oh well I got what I needed to out of it.... confidence.
Horse girl had come by at some point so I roll over to her once it phizzled..... Looking back I'm sure this worked as pre-selection.
We head to the main bar away from the dance floor and a bunch of nonsense happens in the next hour. Craigslist tells some fucking huge dude he looks like The Rock he was cool as shit. Craigslist and I decide to doing some dancing in the 5 step stairwell in between the 2 bars making people get really close to us to pass by, some girls love it, so girls give us dirty looks as they walk by and most of the younger guys think we are fucking weird. This older woman joins and is grinding on us which is hilarious. A pretty attractive older woman comes over and chats with us she brings her husband over and later I find out they are swingers and wanted to get me, craigslist and horse girl to go to another bar with them. I thought they were just being cool not trying to fuck us. If I had known it at the time I would have pushed to go with them because she was definitely fuckable and hot a decade ago... unless swinger men also like dick?
The only thing else that happens is me and horse girl spend a good amount of time dancing later... she is crazy. She teaches me the basics of salsa which is good to know since I want to learn to dance better.
I have no idea when we left but we left to get pizza. After we eat craigslist peaces out leaving me and horse girl. It never even occurred to me once to try to get with her until he had left. The pull wasn't even a pull really, we just got a cab back to my place. Once there I pull the only chair in my house on my balcony and tell her to sit on my lap. She gets on facing me and we go at it. Eventually after the cloths come off I carry her inside and that's that.
She's really small and has the tightest vagina I have ever encountered. I'm not sure if I should be disowned for saying this but it was too tight. The only way I was able to get in at first without a condom was raw. She also mentioned she had not had sex in 4 years. Holy cow!!
Clearly she was really fucking into me to do that on the first night and she hid it pretty well. I guess because we had basically been hanging out since 11 and all the random people we talked to piled on loads of extra social proof and pre-selection. Back at my place she couldn't stop talking about how sexy and cool I was
One of the most fun nights I have ever had out. This town is going to be fantastic.
I'm in a really weird place because clearly I won't have trouble finding new girls and getting over star wars, but I don't want to. She finally opened up to me the last night we hung out in Maryland, without me prompting and flipped the script on me.Now I completely trust her and she pretty much checks all of my boxes for a relationship. She's coming down to visit her family in 3 weeks and is actually flying in to west palm and then meeting them after the weekend. She canceled her plans to go to Miami after seeing me .... so she will now be here for her birthday. Coincidence, I think not.
I'm really outcome independent about the whole thing, but I don't know what it going to happen. We are supposed to talk on the phone tomorrow.... this is such a awkward place to be.
oh well.... grabbing a bigger set up balls and moving down here was the best decision I could have made for my life/career right now. Glad to be here!
Last thing- if you ever have an opportunity, get a memory foam bed I've gotten more compliments on this bed then anything else I own.
Lotus
