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Context:
Was in a networking event all afternoon early evening on Saturday, did a couple of approaches but nothing stuck. Quite a lot of rich old people showing off and some tacky DJs, so my wing and I decided to head to our usual club. I approach girls who seem available immediately after entering. All throughout the night probably did around 10 approaches. Either the girls wouldn't move, trade numbers or I wouldn't be leading properly. Then as my buddies approached 2 girls I was almost going to call it a night but I decided to open the most available girls walking home. Got rejected 4 times in a row, or their friends ruined my set.
Opening:
At last I saw a cute girl walking by herself, but there were 2 guys approaching her. Fortunately, they had no game so I immediately took over the set as they left after a (presumably) awkward conversation. I approached her from the side, made a comment about the guys and then just started bantering with her.
Progression:
I asked her whether her scarf was wool, then moved her to the side of the bar street where she playfully took if off and we both tried to find its label together. From there on I did role-play, gave her my arm and we started walking and talking. The spark was there. She mentioned that she was heading home, so I was walking with her and just continuously asking her questions and talking about bullshit/funny topics. That was easy to do because she was very talkative and I could easily "actively listen". So just as we get near her house, she stops and we start hugging. I tell her it's really cold outside, could we make tea? She says she's staying with her sister and that she doesn't have tea. Perfect. So I tell her I have tea and that we should brew some to warm up. So she agrees and we start walking to my place, which is a 15 min walk. On the way I get flashbacks to random stupid drunk guys harassing the girls I was with, but I calm myself down, keep the light fun conversation going and lead her back to my place. She gives the faintest of the resistance by, "hey you said it was close, where are we going?" so I just assure her we were almost there. Then we enter my house (consisting of a single room).
Finale:
I put on some Melody Gardot (very smooth music but too gf/boyfriendy vibes actually, so not again), turn on the kettle and ask her to remove her shoes. She's giving me the doe eyes, so our lips meet at last. I tell her to make herself comfortable and she sits on my bed. I pour the tea and sit on the bed too, and grab her so she's laying over me and we're cuddling and relaxing together. We talk for a minute or two, but then start kissing and it gets exciting quickly. We take each others clothes off. She's complimenting on how good of a kisser I am, I'm amazed at how fucking cute her body is (Chase is right, doesn't matter how typical or bland she's dressed once it comes off).
So I'm pretty happy I'm relaxed and enjoying this nighttime street pull at last (I've been trying to do this since 2014 . . .), and there doesn't seem to be any anxiety or erection problems so I take her panties off, put on a condom and just as I enter her I could feel her whole body tense up. Then she starts saying sorry and covers her face . . . Eventually I figure out her ex had forced himself on her so she was becoming uncomfortable with a penis entering her. I tell her not to worry (multiple times), I lay next to her and we hug for quite a while. I make sure she both tells me whats on her mind, and also make sure to keep the conversation not too deep or heavy, so I tease her and we both laugh time to time. After some time and more foreplay, I could get to finger her but when I tried to enter her again she tensed up yet again and I could see from her eyes that she was exhausted and embarrassed. So I kissed her, got up to turn the pc and the lights off and we cuddled up to sleep. I didn't get much sleep (usually happens with new girls, especially if I did not previously cum), but she fell asleep quickly. I really enjoyed cuddling with her and feeling her nice body snuggling up to me. So when the sun rises, I try to initiate sex again. But she's too damn sleepy until 12. And once she does get a bit more awake, she doesn't really reciprocate my advances, so I leave it at that. But I continue kissing her body and she's pulling my hands as we spoon and caressing my chest.
She tells me she has to go to her parents' house today and that she has to leave soon, I jokingly hold her down and we just play around for a few minutes until she gets dressed. Then just as she's leaving, I wanted to kiss her but she just hugs me. And as she's about to leave my door, she turns back and looks at me saying "What's wrong?". Well I was kinda bummed thinking that it was her drunken self that was just horny at the time and I was the most available cock in the moment, and that she didn't show any inclinations herself on trading contact info. So I just said "Well, don't you want to talk again?", and she replied looking down "Maybe . . ." so we exchange numbers before I lead her to the elevator.
Thoughts:
I am happy to have accomplished this. From open to close was less than 30 minutes. But as you guys might know from my tone, or my previous posts, that I don't have abundance (mentality) in this city, at this time. And even though her sober(hungover?) self is much less chatty and more shy than her tipsy self, I would like to casually date this girl if it's possible. I do wonder whether I acted incongruently with the "lover" type of personality, showing too much affection too soon or something. I'm just craving female affection and touch since my breakup to be honest...
I'm also thinking that she did tell me that she had a big headache in the morning, so, coupled with the fact that she was embarrassed about her sexual issue might have caused her to act like that in the end. I mean she wasn't even really bitchy or anything in the morning, I guess just not horny or overtly interested perhaps. I'm probably overanalyzing this stuff and it's coming across quite weak, I'm aware. I know the stereotype is that the girl is doubting herself and anxious to hear back from the guy.
I texted her Sunday evening, about 7 hours after she left, telling her I enjoyed spending time with her and that hopefully she wasn't too tired. No response so far. I'll see what happens and continue on hustling.
Was in a networking event all afternoon early evening on Saturday, did a couple of approaches but nothing stuck. Quite a lot of rich old people showing off and some tacky DJs, so my wing and I decided to head to our usual club. I approach girls who seem available immediately after entering. All throughout the night probably did around 10 approaches. Either the girls wouldn't move, trade numbers or I wouldn't be leading properly. Then as my buddies approached 2 girls I was almost going to call it a night but I decided to open the most available girls walking home. Got rejected 4 times in a row, or their friends ruined my set.
Opening:
At last I saw a cute girl walking by herself, but there were 2 guys approaching her. Fortunately, they had no game so I immediately took over the set as they left after a (presumably) awkward conversation. I approached her from the side, made a comment about the guys and then just started bantering with her.
Progression:
I asked her whether her scarf was wool, then moved her to the side of the bar street where she playfully took if off and we both tried to find its label together. From there on I did role-play, gave her my arm and we started walking and talking. The spark was there. She mentioned that she was heading home, so I was walking with her and just continuously asking her questions and talking about bullshit/funny topics. That was easy to do because she was very talkative and I could easily "actively listen". So just as we get near her house, she stops and we start hugging. I tell her it's really cold outside, could we make tea? She says she's staying with her sister and that she doesn't have tea. Perfect. So I tell her I have tea and that we should brew some to warm up. So she agrees and we start walking to my place, which is a 15 min walk. On the way I get flashbacks to random stupid drunk guys harassing the girls I was with, but I calm myself down, keep the light fun conversation going and lead her back to my place. She gives the faintest of the resistance by, "hey you said it was close, where are we going?" so I just assure her we were almost there. Then we enter my house (consisting of a single room).
Finale:
I put on some Melody Gardot (very smooth music but too gf/boyfriendy vibes actually, so not again), turn on the kettle and ask her to remove her shoes. She's giving me the doe eyes, so our lips meet at last. I tell her to make herself comfortable and she sits on my bed. I pour the tea and sit on the bed too, and grab her so she's laying over me and we're cuddling and relaxing together. We talk for a minute or two, but then start kissing and it gets exciting quickly. We take each others clothes off. She's complimenting on how good of a kisser I am, I'm amazed at how fucking cute her body is (Chase is right, doesn't matter how typical or bland she's dressed once it comes off).
So I'm pretty happy I'm relaxed and enjoying this nighttime street pull at last (I've been trying to do this since 2014 . . .), and there doesn't seem to be any anxiety or erection problems so I take her panties off, put on a condom and just as I enter her I could feel her whole body tense up. Then she starts saying sorry and covers her face . . . Eventually I figure out her ex had forced himself on her so she was becoming uncomfortable with a penis entering her. I tell her not to worry (multiple times), I lay next to her and we hug for quite a while. I make sure she both tells me whats on her mind, and also make sure to keep the conversation not too deep or heavy, so I tease her and we both laugh time to time. After some time and more foreplay, I could get to finger her but when I tried to enter her again she tensed up yet again and I could see from her eyes that she was exhausted and embarrassed. So I kissed her, got up to turn the pc and the lights off and we cuddled up to sleep. I didn't get much sleep (usually happens with new girls, especially if I did not previously cum), but she fell asleep quickly. I really enjoyed cuddling with her and feeling her nice body snuggling up to me. So when the sun rises, I try to initiate sex again. But she's too damn sleepy until 12. And once she does get a bit more awake, she doesn't really reciprocate my advances, so I leave it at that. But I continue kissing her body and she's pulling my hands as we spoon and caressing my chest.
She tells me she has to go to her parents' house today and that she has to leave soon, I jokingly hold her down and we just play around for a few minutes until she gets dressed. Then just as she's leaving, I wanted to kiss her but she just hugs me. And as she's about to leave my door, she turns back and looks at me saying "What's wrong?". Well I was kinda bummed thinking that it was her drunken self that was just horny at the time and I was the most available cock in the moment, and that she didn't show any inclinations herself on trading contact info. So I just said "Well, don't you want to talk again?", and she replied looking down "Maybe . . ." so we exchange numbers before I lead her to the elevator.
Thoughts:
I am happy to have accomplished this. From open to close was less than 30 minutes. But as you guys might know from my tone, or my previous posts, that I don't have abundance (mentality) in this city, at this time. And even though her sober(hungover?) self is much less chatty and more shy than her tipsy self, I would like to casually date this girl if it's possible. I do wonder whether I acted incongruently with the "lover" type of personality, showing too much affection too soon or something. I'm just craving female affection and touch since my breakup to be honest...
I'm also thinking that she did tell me that she had a big headache in the morning, so, coupled with the fact that she was embarrassed about her sexual issue might have caused her to act like that in the end. I mean she wasn't even really bitchy or anything in the morning, I guess just not horny or overtly interested perhaps. I'm probably overanalyzing this stuff and it's coming across quite weak, I'm aware. I know the stereotype is that the girl is doubting herself and anxious to hear back from the guy.
I texted her Sunday evening, about 7 hours after she left, telling her I enjoyed spending time with her and that hopefully she wasn't too tired. No response so far. I'll see what happens and continue on hustling.
