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wysiwyg

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Hi,
Forgive me if this ain't the right thread/ right format for posting/ anything else. I'm here to learn.

I've just made an account here 2 mins back. But I decided to do it yesterday morning itself; when I was sitting and typing what I'll be posting here. Here it goes. I'm from India. This happened in India.

Hi,
This is my first post at GC and I just fell in love.
I am coming back from a girl's place and a lot of marijuana and a failed kiss attempt. I am high. I am sitting near a highway, half asleep with my premium motorcycle parked on the road near me. It is 6.30 AM. I cannot ride this high but the traffic is increasing. I am thinking about the night.

It went well. We had the vibe going (more of a romantic vibe, than sexual though). She says she has never laughed like this for a long long time. She is showing me things in her purse one after the other, making me fall more in love with her with each item. She shares a secret. She's qualifying. She's giving me eyes. We're not sitting close. But she's comfortable with my light touches. She's emotionally escalated from talking non-stop to asking questions about me.

Then she asks my age. I'm 3 years younger than her.

I answer plainly. Something changed in the atmosphere post that. Don't know it was her reaction or my internal feeling. Because I already knew the age difference, she didn't.

2 mins of some sort of silence (not the awkward silence in which you feel the need to speak) followed by my kiss attempt. I had to come from far since we were sitting face to face, with ash-trays etc between us. I grabbed her neck, felt some resistance, pulled her towards me regardless. She turned her face down and then comes "i have a boyfriend"

Me: guess something changed after the age question
she: no, no... are you mad o wat
me: felt like it
[re-attempt]
she: this is wrong

i backed out. we sat for a while listening to music. i left.

two days since then, no contact. she's on my fb but she missed my phone no. she asked me to put it in but i didn't. i have her phone no.

in my head, i'm thinking she's going to break-up with her bf, sort things out, contact me back. but that's only in my head :D

how could this story have ended better in reality.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

wysiwyg

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Re: First Post Here

She was almost upset and angry after the failed kiss attempt. Throughout the night, it felt like (from the songs that she was playing, skipping) that she was in a bad long distance relationship, though I didn't even remotely touch the topic.

I didnt' know what to do after that failed attempt. We both were very tired anyways. I immediately followed with "where's our joint" pretending nothing happened. i miserably failed the test and couldn't' get past the resistance.

I knew she wanted it as much as I did. But then, I didn't persist. This article makes a lot of sense now
https://www.girlschase.com/content/shatt ... on-passion

especially this line "It was obvious that the problem wasn’t me, but something... or someone, else"

should i re-initiate contact? if yes, should i keep it normal and social or no? what do you think?
 
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