First Real Date!! :)

[Lotus]

Met a girl Thanksgiving eve that i now have a date with tonight!

Got her number and played it as cool as possible texting her minimal only to set up the date. I actually was able to slow play it enough that she asked we were are hanging out and made a date right from that.

She is coming into the city for the date(investment). We are meeting close to my place and going to little Italy from there. Logistics are set, lets see if i can implement!

Wish me luck

-Taylor

 

[Whizzy]

Bag em n tag em Brum!

 

[ray_zorse]

Nail it dude. I am really happy for you.

Do you have a date plan, in terms of what your demeanor will be like, how you will handle shit tests, how you will greet her, add touch and so on? Be good to get a few sexual and/or chase frames ready in case an opportunity arises... will you move her, say to sit in a park or have a drink in a bar after your meal? Don't forget to ask for her hand at some point (or just take it), caress it a bit and comment on her jewellery... don't forget the strong eye contact, stare her down on high points and break it with a sexual smile maybe... read Chase's article on 10 questions you must ask women too.

Also don't overthink it and avoid unsolicited advice... hahaha kidding. I do find it useful to think about the plan beforehand. Though in the moment you may well do something different.

cheers, Ray

Edit: Another important thing to think about is what you will do when she asks for information about you... what do you do... how old are you... etc. Some fallback responses: "Guess." "It's a secret." "I could tell you, but then I would have to kill you." "Hard to explain, it's kinda loud in here." "Long story, I will tell you later." Mr.Rob has some outlandish shit to say in response to these kinds of questions too... such as "I raise cats in my mum's basement and sell them from the boot of my car"... following his model I've been able to come out with some too... e.g. "are you married?" "yeah I have 17 wives but I couldn't fit 17 rings on, I'm a bit bored with them all anyhow"

 

[Lotus]

Hey guys,

Went well. Working on writing something up.

Post it here or should I put it in the report section and link that here?

 

[Franco]

brum,

If you have a general question related to this interaction (i.e. "if you're deep-diving a girl, what should I be focusing on? I feel like I didn't know what to talk about"), then I would maybe post that here. However, if you want to write a detailed description of your interaction and ask for where improvements can be made, then I would write that in the field reports section.

- Franco

 

[Zoro]

Brum,

for your questions writing better, I have a few tips.

Say more with less. Look through and distill your writing down to key points. Its easier for others to read and understand. A quick way is to remove/replace unnecessary words.

Have a clear question you want answered near the beginning of the post. The reader will know what the purpose of the post is (giving them reason to read on) and they can think about it while they read and pick out whats going on for you as you flesh out the details.

Keep it shorter and as you improve you can write more.

Writing is an art, let your voice come out. There are also elements of art that apply like theme, tone, diction, etc.

Hope this helps!

 

[Lotus]

Word of the day--Concise. I will strive to make my writing more concise

Have a clear question you want answered near the beginning of the post. The reader will know what the purpose of the post is (giving them reason to read on) and they can think about it while they read and pick out whats going on for you as you flesh out the details

I think I add questions as I go, rather then having a objective.

Thanks!